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| May 1, 2007 @ 10:58 PM |
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doc65270
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ok i was talking to a friend of mine tonight. first time in a while. well his wife kicked him out abour 3 months ago her complaint was he is never home. he reminded her that last summer they went to disney world and spent $5,000, she drives a brand new tahoe, the kids has the lates playstation etc because he brings the butter home to put on the bread. she don't work. well 3 weeks after he is out she moves some other jerk in. she fixes him good meals every night, he don't help her do anything such as pay bills cut the grass etc. nothing at all just sits on his arss and watches the cable tv that she is paying for.
gal #2 had a live in boyfriend for 4 years. he was working with a farmer for employment. he wanted a kid. she was tied so couldn't give him what he wanted. he then started talking to the farmers wife and got her pregnant and took off with her. later gal #2 was talking to the farmer about something and they started talking often and one thing led to another and she started really liking him. well this went on for a while then one day the farmer sends her a text message saying that his wife is back and he is going to try to put things back together.
Gal #3. slightly over weight but not fat by anymeans. is really a good looking woman. she keeps the house clean takes care of the kid adds about $800 a month to the house income. yet evey weekend her hubby goes out screwing around all night long. don't come in till 5 am or later and usually later than 6 am. gives her all these hawg wash stories. like one time he said he took his 4X4 mudding and it took a long time to wash the mud off of it. i simply said that has to be a really good trick, he said what trick. i said to get the mud off with out removing the durt that was under the mud.  he just rolled his eyes back in his head and turned away.
Gal #4 has been going with this guy for 6 years + off and on. she busted off one time because he was to be working and was at the casino. i can understand that. but he lives there when he is not driving (stays on the weekends) he don't help pay any of the bills don't buy her any gifts at all for birth day or christmas etc. the first of dec he gets her a nice van, caravan. leather inside really nice. last christmas morning he opens his gifts and then tells her good bye because she is not giving him enough sex.  a weel later he is back. then about 5 - 6 weeks ago he left again. she said he is gone for good this time. well about two weeks ago he came back. she says its not like it was before but the point is he is back. and to top it off he is the one driving the van not her.
the part that i can't understand is ok like gal #4 is a real cutie 5 foot and 125 pounds. blond hair and a real smart gal too. why does these women put up with guys like this for? is it love well the way i see it if it was love the women would be getting gifts also as well as other things at least help pay the bills  i just can't figure it out. oh well
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| May 2, 2007 @ 6:40 PM |
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stilsearchn
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#1, needs to remember what all she had, her man may not have been home ALL the time, but geez, if it's material things she's really wanting...get real, or get out there and make money of her own to help pay for stuff..don't take in slackers who don't do anything but sit around, eat her food, watch her tv and never help around the house.
#2, first of all the farmer needs a talking to, what an idiot to take his wife back after she's messing around with someone else and got pregnant by him! The gal #2 needs to go looking and not pick the first person that walks by her house LOL
#3, needs to wake up and smell the coffee, why does she allow her man to go out pleasing other women when she's got it all going on at home? 
#4, why are they even talking to eachother? in my opinion, it's okay to live together, but if you take the chance to live together, then you're taking the chance to care about eachother as well, and help out around the house with cleaning up and the bills. It shouldn't all be one-sided: one person handles all the work and the bills and then expect to have to give their bodies because they're living with someone.
I think I'll stick with the guy I currently have:
he's caring
we laugh together
we have an awesome time together
when we're either out with friends or out alone with eachother, watching t.v.
holding hands, cuddling and tons of kissing and hugging
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| May 3, 2007 @ 2:38 AM |
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doc65270
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well #3 i can understand to a degree. all of her kids are raised but a couple years after she remaried this jerk he screwed a crack whore and got her pg. she had the kid but didn't want it. so #3 and her jerk hubby took the little gir. he donlt like to work so they don't have much but the adoption process has been halted temp because of the funding. this little girl don't know her real mother and if they split he takes the kid and gives it back to the crack whore who don't want it anyhow. to loose what she thinks is her mother would devistate this little girl. that s the biggest problem there. i have taken her to lunch and a few times we went to the races. one time he made a comment about it and i told him your wife has class just because you'll screw a bitch dog don't mean she will. this guy i believe he woudl screw a rattle snake if someone held the head.
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| May 3, 2007 @ 8:38 AM |
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simplylindylu
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Those stories aren't just ones women put up with, I'm sure there are men out there with similar stories.
Everyone has their own boiling/cut off point, some just take longer to put an end to it and some finish it off right away. Depends on the individual and how much crap their willing to deal with.
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| May 3, 2007 @ 6:50 PM |
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doc65270
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well simpl i know that i am one that got crapped on for 8 years. the only thing i can say is it was for love on my part. but the first time i seen her with a man i just walked away and never went back. then you have the physcos like this one gal i knew one time. back in 92 i went to chicago area to live with my mother for to help her with some medical problems she was going throgh. my mother passed away in dec of 93. at the wake i was talking to this gal i haven't seen in years. she was a dibetic as my mother was also. so as a act of kindness i offered a bunch of medical supplies along with some goodies like sugar free candy and cookies that my mother had. well two weeks later she comes by. and she was there after that every night for 4 months. wanting to hook up with me. i told her as soon as the house is sold i am gone back to arkansas. i felt no sence in starting up a relationship here that i know i will have to stop in a couple months. well finally she got pissed at me because of a lady friend of mine. well to make a long story short she had breast cancer a few months earlier. and now is refusing to take the treatments unless i hook up with her. if she don't take the treatments then she is going to die. well this puts me in a spot but i am not going to let someone push me around like that. so i simply told her do what ever you have to do but your little controlling attatitude isn't going to work with me. trying to place all that guilt on me she had her nerve. well i wasn't going to give in and she died about 6 months later. i am sarry she died but i had no controll over that at all because i was not going to let her force me into something that i didn't want. so oh well.  
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| May 3, 2007 @ 10:39 PM |
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simplylindylu
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I think we've all at one time or another make a wrong decision in the name of love, hopefully we learn from them. Been there, done that.....
Stupidity seems to make some people make wrong choices concerning their life, evidently she didn't think much of hers if she thought she had to try and control you in that way. Takes all kinds to make up this world of ours.
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| May 3, 2007 @ 11:11 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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Lacey won't put up with a man that doesn't take responsibility and share half and half with bills, work and they best have a job for sure.
Love often times makes one blind, but, I'm not that blind! And, Lacey won't put up with, if she knows, cheaters either . . . . they can go find another hole to play in.  Life's way too short for those games now, I'm not getting any younger, but if need be, Lacey can stay single and purchase a toy instead. 
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| May 4, 2007 @ 1:10 AM |
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doc65270
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lacy really? what kind of toy do you have a tonka toy? please forgive me i couldn't help myself for that one.   
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| May 4, 2007 @ 6:24 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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Tonka . . . one that goes hmmmmmmm!!!!!
Just kiddin folks and Doc, bite me. And, where's Cowboy and Hilli I keep checking here in the Missouri forum, just not saying much. Too busy going hmmmmmm. LOL
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| Jun 7, 2007 @ 11:42 AM |
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Microchip
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Lacey can stay single and purchase a toy instead.
Well if a toy can give you the psychological stimulation that most humans need, then you'll be happy to spend the rest of your life alone. I personally would like to have someone to wake up and go to sleep with, and that doesn't use a lot of batteries.
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| Jun 7, 2007 @ 11:17 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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Hey, Microchip, it's just a joke on my part. These guys know how I am. I agree, physical contact . . . can't beat it.
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| Jun 8, 2007 @ 12:38 AM |
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doc65270
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what about your tonka toy that goes varoooooommmmmmmmm
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| Jun 8, 2007 @ 6:04 PM |
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laceywiggles2
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Come on, Doc. GIve me a break, tell this guy I'm a good lady. I believe he thinks I'm a bad girl or sumtin.
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| Jun 9, 2007 @ 4:32 AM |
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ol_hillbilly
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er sumtin!
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| Jun 9, 2007 @ 8:53 AM |
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doc65270
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lacy a good girl are you trying to tell jokes now. she's a nasty girlfriend. on the kinky side of life too. well after that i know lacy will never meet me cause i can't go to town and tell everyone that a woman did this to me
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| Jun 11, 2007 @ 12:14 AM |
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seelee736
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doc, they are all 3 plus in love. we talked before and you make alot of sense.women don't apprciate the good ones and hang on with the bad. i got rid of mine.and just to old to start over. any sujestions? lee
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| Jun 11, 2007 @ 12:21 AM |
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GotQualityTime
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Ill say that all the women you described are crazy! But, I have to side with girl #1 on one issue. I don't see nothing wrong in her wanting a divorce because he husband is never at home. Yes, he bought her lots of material things, but material things cannot ease the pain and loneliness of longing for your husband's affection, love, and attention. Lots of women have it all wrong. The love and security a woman gets from her man being there with her is much more important than cars or whatever material things a man can give her. I've been there...longing for my man and didn't know if he was really at work or out banging someone. He always claimed that he was out of town on business, but would never give any contact information and it would be days sometimes before I heard from him. That hurt me so much emotionally that I eventually ended the relationship and he was more than willing to change. But, it was too late. He bought me many things and never forgot a holiday or birthday. Now, I don't agree with her moving in a bum. That's crazy.
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| Jun 11, 2007 @ 12:42 AM |
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seelee736
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you are right quality, they need to be there for you mentaly and physicly, the same as you. but it don't work out that way with most men. i was married for 25 yrs lst time. tried real hard had 3 kids. it was mental abuse in the worse way and guilt on top. 4 yrs single and tride again. almost same thing. real controling and made you feel like you were nothing. that lasted 7 yrs. to afraid to start over now. but i sure would like to meet someone and go real slow untill i could trust again
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| Jun 11, 2007 @ 8:13 AM |
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doc65270
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quality its not like he was never there for he did plenty of things with his kids and wife but if she was not so demanding on wanting this and wanting that and maybe would have gone to work herself it wouldn't have been so hard on him. then with in two weeks of him moving out another man is in there.
seelee, i know what your going through. been there done that. maybe not with the physical or mental abuse but with cheating. i couldn't trust a woman for nothing. that was a lot of hard work that took a while to get clear. i don't believe in physical or mental abuse. whats the sence in it because the relationship won't last anyhow. i want to let someone know how much i think about them and how dear they are to me by being in my life. not make them feel guilty or anything close to that. i am a nice guy just ask me i'll tell ya.
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| Jun 11, 2007 @ 4:30 PM |
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seelee736
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thanks doc, i needed that. miss talking to you, hope you find what you want or need.
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