| May 15, 2007 @ 8:29 PM |
is it just me or??????
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doc65270
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now i need to know if i am wrong or have a bad attatitude or what ever. this friend of mine was married for 18 years had a nice home a boy and a girl good job everything was going the way it was suposta go. then one day about 3 mos ago his wife told him to get out. now i know for a fact that this guy is not a abuser in any way nor is he a cheater nor a drunkard or druggie. do don't go to the bars he is a clean cut guy that works hard and loves his wife and kids. this thing has him tore up to a degree. then about 2 weeks ago he met a gal through a mutual friend. she is suffering a heart ack also. they are basicly just friends. but the problem is this guys wife soon to be ex wife keeps calling him when something goes wrong on her car. oh and i forgot to mention that a week went by after he left and some other dude moved in. first of all i would be chasing that other turd out of my house with the law. second if she needed her car fixed i'd tell her to take it someplace else and get it fixed. i woudn't do it after how she did him. ok deep down inside i know that he is doing what is right but i just couldn't do it. i want to hear from both sides of others oppinions. so lets have it.
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| May 15, 2007 @ 11:32 PM |
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stilsearchn
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I get the feeling she told him to get out because she met someone else or was having an affair and couldn't keep it secret anymore with him in the same house as her..or the other guy she was involved with, told her, either you tell him or I will...? I don't have a clue; sounds like too much drama for me
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| May 15, 2007 @ 11:43 PM |
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doc65270
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i feel that if it was me i would tell her to fix her own damm car or get her new boyfriend to fix it for her.
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| May 15, 2007 @ 11:53 PM |
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stilsearchn
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well yea, that makes sense
the hubby needs to either wake up and take notice and leave her be, or knock some sense into her and tell how it's going to be; in a nice way, tell her how much he still loves her, if he still does..
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| May 16, 2007 @ 7:32 AM |
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simplylindylu
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No one knows what goes on behind closed doors unless your living there.
You said they had 2 kids, doors should be kept open because of the kids, doesn't mean he needs to be at her beck and call thou or vice versa.
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| May 16, 2007 @ 10:53 AM |
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doc65270
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well he sees his kids every weekend. maybe not the whole weekend but part of it and some during the week. he is doing the right thing i know by helping her out but i just couldn't do it. i say he is doing the right thing because i feel that is what god would want. so he is setting a good example but like i said i just couldn't do it. yes he still loves her. like he said your not with a woman for over 18 years and just stop loving her like turning the lights out.thats why his new friend is scared. its basicly friendship but there is attraction there and they get along good and just kinda hang out together and she is scared he will wind up going back to his wife. they have discussed it and he told her right now yes but a few weeks later he said he couldn't say one way or the other. i think he is starting to have feeling for his new friend as she is with him. to tell the truth i like his new friend better than his wife. she is prettier, sexier, more friendlier, she don't act like its a desaster if she gets a little dirt under her finger nails she is just a completely different gal and she likes me too imagine that. now if i was only 25 years younger 
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| May 19, 2007 @ 9:28 PM |
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jellybean635
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In My Opinion, it sounds as if the wife had another man on the line and the other man gave her the ultimate sentence Get him out or I am gone, so now the wife has gotten rid of the husband but she wants to keep him close just in case the world does not work out with the boyfriend..
As for the kids, he needs to get them away from her...
As for the repairs on her car, If I were him I would tell her go to a mechanic or better yet have the man living in her house fix it for her...
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| May 19, 2007 @ 11:53 PM |
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doc65270
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well jelly thats kinda how i feel about it. she should get a mechanic to work on her car but he is doing the right thing that god would want him to do i feel.. i just couldn't do what he is doing. guess he is a better man than i am.
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