| Mar 1, 2008 @ 9:05 PM |
I got served
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JustSmileALot
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A beautiful sunny Saturday and I got served my divorce papers in my driveway! 
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| Mar 2, 2008 @ 8:18 AM |
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Sweetwench
Posts: 140
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 Congratulations!! now you can move on with your life and enjoy what comes your way without looking over your shoulder . 
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| Mar 2, 2008 @ 10:02 AM |
I got served
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rowrus
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It looks like SW and I are the only ones running the track today. Just to offer another view point.. I was wondering why the , Did the whole situation make you feel that way or was it the impersonal drive way presentation. Can you now change your status from seperated to legaly seperated. You had to know it was coming..
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| Mar 2, 2008 @ 11:49 AM |
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BeeHaven
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I am sorry you were served papers in your driveway. Feelings to be
inconsiderate of whomever served you.
Going through my divorce and all that happened just 7 years ago, my call
for the divorce. My thoughts are with you as you struggle to carry onward
and make it through these changes in your life.
Just my thoughts and what got me through...
New life, new adventure. Finally getting to be ME. No one that had to
be cared for, I did not have to put on that wife's face daily. Or be the
same mother to my children.
I thought of it as the time in my life. That was to spent on my dreams,
what I wanted to do. Where I wanted to go, and of course who I wanted
to be with.
Kinda selfish, in a way. After spending 21 years, caring for a husband
and 4 children. Never really having time for me. Never really spending
money on myself. I felt I really deserve this change in my life. That
it was time for me.
Just remember to always SMILE!
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| Mar 2, 2008 @ 8:12 PM |
I got served
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missouriwoman
Posts: 37
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Hang in there things will get better.
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| Mar 2, 2008 @ 11:16 PM |
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doc65270
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i didn't know there was a good time or place to get served but life goes on.
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| Mar 2, 2008 @ 11:44 PM |
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JustSmileALot
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Thanks BH. I know these things...just can't get rid of the hurt feelings yet. But, yes, it is nice to not have to impress him either in appearance or domestic details. I do find that I can relax more. Have a good eve.
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| Mar 3, 2008 @ 8:29 AM |
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doc65270
Posts: 833
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you was together for the wrong reasons or he was very demanding things should be done because of love not to impress someone.
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| Mar 3, 2008 @ 10:20 AM |
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Sweetwench
Posts: 140
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Justasmile... I was served papers in the hospital, 5 hrs after haveing my hubbys 4 child... Go figure. I moved on and started to love myself better. Trust me, your life will to if you learn not to make the same mistakes twice. I know its hard right now but just keep telling yourself, that your loved and your special. You'll find the right guy when its time. Actually, he'll find you. LOL. Chim up and put a smile on that pretty face.
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| Mar 3, 2008 @ 10:41 PM |
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JustSmileALot
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Thanks SW. That was very sweet.
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