| Mar 2 @ 6:53 PM |
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jaycee53
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Are there any good guys out there, if so, let me know where they went.
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| Mar 3 @ 9:21 AM |
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cat10940
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I am looking for them too, if you find them... let me know where they are hiding!
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| Mar 3 @ 1:33 PM |
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Nordicman
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A lot of single men are very allergic to cats and dogs which so many single women have. The pet is treated as "family." It is a problem without any solution.
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| Mar 3 @ 5:39 PM |
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jaycee53
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That may be the case in some situations, but alot of men are afraid to commit, therefore they shouldn't sign up on these sites.
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| Mar 3 @ 11:00 PM |
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LookinInLI
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Pets? THAT'S all that'll keep a man from getting close to a lady?
THAT'S WHY GOD INVENTED NASONEX, MY MAN! AAAAAAAAAAAAMEN! O; )
God bless, Anthony
(Honestly, i think the "Good Men" are all around you ladies, but because if past issues coloring the lenses of your soul from past relationships (it cuts both ways! Men have the exact same issues, so PLEASE no flaming! My NOMEX is in the cleaners! BUAHAHAHAHAHA!). In the words of a dear old friend "We are ALL Virgins to each other, so being "the first" is a self-centered BS. It's ALWAYS "The First" with a new love!". Using THAT as a rough guide, venture into new relationships with an open mind and clear heart (learn from the past, of course, but don't let the BS bring y'all down a lonely path)
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| Mar 3 @ 11:54 PM |
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Nordicman
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"Pets? THAT'S all that'll keep a man from getting close to a lady?
THAT'S WHY GOD INVENTED NASONEX, MY MAN!"
Nasonex might help if pet allergies are mild and only your nose is irritated, but it won't help when pet allergies are more severe and affect the lungs and bronchia.
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| Mar 5 @ 9:44 PM |
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DiamondRain
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They all went to a small, secret island in the Caribbean.
Shhhhhhhhhh... 
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| Mar 6 @ 12:09 PM |
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Nordicman
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"Good" is defined as "satisfactory" and "having the right qualities."
What are the right qualities? That is very subjective. It varies from woman to woman. But I think most men are "satisfactory."
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| Mar 6 @ 7:37 PM |
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jaycee53
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Most guys are either into themselves, cheat or are players. By good guys I mean, genuine, sincere, honest, caring and ones who can communicate with a woman. Ones who can carry a conversation other than about sports or cars and care about who they are with. That my dear, is a good guy.
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| Mar 6 @ 9:14 PM |
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Nordicman
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I know I have those characteristics: genuine, sincere, honest, caring and able to make interesting conversation, so it has to be something else.
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| Mar 7 @ 10:36 AM |
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JenniferJuniper
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Sure there are good guys around NY..we just have to wade through all the bad ones to find the good ones, and when we do it will be worth wading through the sea of baddies.
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| Mar 7 @ 5:36 PM |
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jaycee53
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I sure hope you are right...been waiting a long long time to find a good one. And I am a very easy person to get along with.
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| Mar 10 @ 11:25 PM |
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Monsterboy
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The sad but seldom-mentioned truth is, being a good guy isn't enough. Two people can be incredibly good, even by one another's standards, without either being anything like what the other's looking for. And if Person A is what the Person B wants, the Person B is very likely simply not what Person A is looking for. I won't bother extrapolating this into a treatise on the terrible mathematical failure of monogamy-as-social-ideal, but I'll say that the problem is exacerbated by the standards for compatibility being, for better or worse, at an all-time high in current society.
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| Mar 11 @ 9:26 PM |
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Kentuck
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We men say the same thing about the women--where are they. When yousend them mail, they do not want to carry on a conversation and the others are more interest in bashing men. The first words--ALL MEN
What if men said ALL WOMEN.
But really, women do prefer bad boys.
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| Mar 15 @ 12:52 AM |
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BonziBobbi
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I have written to about 20 of you women and I have only received 3 answers back stating that they were starting a new relationship (But they are STILL here lQQking). SO where are all the good women hiding?? ALL women ON DATING WEBSITES are teasers, players, complainers,  and ___Insert yer quote here___!
BB1
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| Apr 2 @ 1:57 AM |
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djcdrny
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Ever hear the song" I overlooked an orchid while searching for a rose"?
You ladies are searching for and expecting too much perfection, as if you are so perfect! You don't post a picture, if you do nine times out of ten, it's from years ago..Most of you don't even respond to any one....
Jatcee started this and she/he doesn't even exist.....Imagine that!
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| Apr 2 @ 6:25 AM |
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steveemac
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Well, there's one here in Milwaukee; but he is off the market, as his heart was stolen by a New York girl!
My New York sweetie! 
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| Apr 2 @ 10:32 AM |
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nyharvey
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well for one most of the "good guys" are not into smokers.
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| Apr 2 @ 12:05 PM |
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kymiani
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it is my experience that the good guys indeed finish last, for most women online seem to gravitate towards the bad boys - thats why you see the complaints posted. though all zebras have stripes, did you know that no two zebra stripings are identical. you have to be realistic in what you want, what you bring to the table (including your drama), being considerate of their feelings (for example children are part and parcel - you have to deal with that, but animals are another story due to health or personal phobias). Why should the man be the one who has to bear the cross if two are involved? the point is, it takes two to meet and become become involved with each other. the irony is it takes just one to decide whether the relationship is worth sacrificing for or not.
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| Apr 3 @ 9:50 AM |
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eastham
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This is all a two-way street. Monsterboy is correct, two perfectly wonderful people, who may be perfectly wonderful together, don't always make a successful match. This may be in large part due to the fact one or the other may not be ready or open to the relationship or to circumstances beyond their control like the economic necessity of two jobs, a sick parent or child, etc.
On the otherhand, just as you lament that not all men are bad, neither are all women. Furthermore, not all women are attracted to bad boys -- a few are, but the majority are not. That is both a myth and the unfortunate consequence of a person being attracted to the wrong type of person, in large part because they are not truly ready for all the messy adult stuff of a relationship, like communication. By putting yourself in a position to meet the wrong people, you have a ready excuse and a mask for your own reticence...Been there, done that.
If you are truly interested and ready for a real relationship, you need to ask yourself why you are meeting all the wrong women, Kymiami. Where are you meeting them? Clubs? Maybe you need to change your venue...Different place, different people.
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