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where are the good man?
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ladyjuly21
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where are the man that treat a woman with respect love them for who they are treat them like they should be treated. where are you?
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| Jun 9 @ 11:29 AM |
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zendivamom
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They are at home...taking care of their sick parents and don't have time to date. I'm sure of it!
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| Jun 9 @ 9:37 PM |
where are the good man?
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afireinside3k
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im right here
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| Jun 10 @ 12:23 AM |
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Monsterboy
Posts: 287
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Taking care of our kids... working... doing housework... dating when we get a chance.
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| Jun 10 @ 1:10 AM |
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mike105
Posts: 36
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I used to be a good man,,,, but they get taken advantage of... so now im just a regular man...............
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| Jun 10 @ 12:53 PM |
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zendivamom
Posts: 212
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Haven't we all been taken advantage of or unappreciated? I mean seriously...probably should let that go so it doesn't taint the rest of your life, Mike.
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| Jun 10 @ 1:44 PM |
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mike105
Posts: 36
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dont be so serious now........................
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| Jun 10 @ 1:48 PM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 14,546
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Tainted Love? 
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| Jun 13 @ 11:48 AM |
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HeartintheShadows
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Good men are like everything else, pure perception. there is no clear cut good/bad anyone or anything, there are only things we see in each person that seem like good or bad qualities we wish to associate or disassociate with.
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| Jun 16 @ 10:14 AM |
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Cynbaby
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treat them like they should be treated Once you give up on that idea thats set into most women's heads that Prince Charming will come along and be everything you ever wanted then you'll be happy meeting guys.
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| Jun 17 @ 4:34 PM |
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HeartintheShadows
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treat them like they should be treated
Once you give up on that idea thats set into most women's heads that Prince Charming will come along and be everything you ever wanted then you'll be happy meeting guys.
the thing that irks me about women is, They get taught this naive notion that there is a "special someone" or a "prince charming" just waiting around the corner and ready and willing to wisk you away from anything bad or hurtful and you two will live happily ever after. That may look good on paper, and it may be a good story to tell a kid, but what you have to realize is, there is no white knight riding his horse around the world waiting for you to just have the lucky fortune of bumping into him.
this theory is nothing more than a way to set your bar too high and pass up a guy who might be your perfect match minus a few imperfections, and then you will wondering why all you date are guys who look great on paper, but never have the follow through to make it a reality.
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| Jun 22 @ 1:24 AM |
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rjl1987
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Here!!!!!!  
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| Jun 22 @ 10:18 PM |
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ladyjuly21
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aww that is sweet
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| Aug 25 @ 12:55 PM |
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Melodic
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this theory is nothing more than a way to set your bar too high and pass up a guy who might be your perfect match minus a few imperfections, and then you will wondering why all you date are guys who look great on paper, but never have the follow through to make it a reality.
Fantastic.
I wonder where the grandiose sense of entitlement comes from ? (with no focus on a particular gender) Where's Mr. magic man, who's everything I dream of ? Where's Ms. Wonder woman who's everything I dream of ?
They don't exist. That's where they are.
That probably sounds uber-bitter, but hear me out. Someone might be the 6'3", deep-voiced, well-to do , poetry-loving, classical music afficianado, with the caveat of being another race. Does the forest get lost, for the trees ?
Someone might have 36 DD's, cook a mean dinner, be well to do, wear the hell outta some stillettos, make great money, have a fantastic attitude, AND do it with ice blue eyes. The caveat being, she's 5'0". Again, does the forest get lost for the trees ?
Those are [of course] proxy examples for purposes of explaining my point. What will you be, while this other person is "Everything you dream of" ?
Simply the recipient ? 
My relationship requirements ? Respect me, Be affectionate, Humble yourself. THAT'S IT. If you can do those things, AND you bring a slim waist/soft voice/nice body to the table. those are all icing on the cake. Will I fold like a cheap suit if that's not the case ? No !!!!
Yes, I'd like to be attracted to you, but my primary goal is making sure you RESPECT YOURSELF enough to know that you don't have to show me your behind in order for me to be interested.
Yes, I want to be attractive, but my primary goal, is making sure you respect me enough to not throw me under a bus, because I don't fit sociatal (as per pop culture or just culture generally) specs, on what it means to be a man.
Last time I checked, my bible said to lean NOT on your own understanding. Not beating any brows with it here, I'm just saying that's a nice place to start.
Eh. What do I know anyways ? 
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| Nov 24 @ 1:45 PM |
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null_geodesic
Posts: 680
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Good man? Not f***ing here... Not f***ing here.
Is it TRULY wicked? OK. You've got my attention!
Is it downright disgraceful? I'm definitely interested.
If it is completely reprehensible, then don't bother, because I'm already a part of it.
If it is thoroughly immoral, then show me the line, since I'm signing up!
If it is against the law, count me in!
If it sends me straight and assuredly to Hell, then I'm without a doubt going to do it.
And if it involves sin, well ... I'm listening.
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| Nov 24 @ 7:24 PM |
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chicagohowell23
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they don't exist. Sorry but you can meet a man that's everything, and something changes, and you change, creating a downward spin escalated by reactions and actions from each other until he is no longer that wonderful man. We tend to attract a certain person to us. So if you attracting the same man perhaps there is something you need to change about you and your thinking. Trust me when that happens a different type of man starts coming around.
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| Nov 24 @ 7:59 PM |
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null_geodesic
Posts: 680
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you can meet a man that's everything, and something changes, and you change, creating a downward spin escalated by reactions and actions from each other until he is no longer that wonderful man.
We change the spin of an electron through the very act of observation itself.
I am an electron in a deterministic spin-up state.
If you look away for a moment, I become a super-position of spin states. However, if you keep watching me, I stay in a spin-up state.
Our very act of interaction changes me. Our act of non-interaction changes me, too. Therefore, I change whether we interact or not. I'm not the same electron I was 10^-40 seconds ago...
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| Nov 24 @ 10:01 PM |
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TheMyth
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Were her but some of us are poor and it seems that makes alot of difference if you dont have money or a car your not worth the bother .there are still some of us who althoug poor cook clean and take care of kids but we tend to get used alot so we become very cautious ,it seems we arent in very high demand anymore we are still here though for those that bother to look! so keep looking and im sure youll find one goodluck
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| Nov 25 @ 9:12 AM |
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null_geodesic
Posts: 680
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Dude....
I would keep the bitterness under wraps until after you're married!
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