| Sep 12, 2008 @ 12:10 PM |
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anniesue57
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You know, there are so real mean people in this world. They say they are men but really they are a child in a mans body. Be aware women of men that can't take rejection very good. I have had the experience of getting my self aquainted with someone like that. We never met but talked on the phone al the time, there were plenty of times to meet, but he never had the guts to actually meet me. But now I am getting threats from him. I was off this site but came back on for friends i had come to know. I have met someone who really is wonderful to me now. But the friends i had known before him wanted me back on to keep in touch, so I did. I thought this child was a friend but i see he really wasn't my friend at all. Just thought I vent a little and to let all know what can happen. Thanks for allowing me to vent. To all my friends big hugs to u all
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| Sep 13, 2008 @ 10:55 AM |
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arieann
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I am happy you found someone special. I came across someone like that, but he never was a friend. We exchanged an e-mail or two but I knew he was a scammer. So I never responded back. A few moths went by, then out of the blue, I got another e-mail from him. He cussed me out pretty bad because he said he took our relationship seriously and I did not. I was wondering what made him think we had a relationship with only one or two e-mails. I also believe there are women out there just like these "childish" men.
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| Sep 17, 2008 @ 1:08 AM |
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starflower10
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Yes i have had the same experience with a man. I do not trust any man on the internet anymore. Glad you have found someone. This guy and I chatted for 3 years and his job always got in the way of us meeting, he even got plane tickets to visit me but chickened out. Good luck.
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| Sep 17, 2008 @ 4:32 AM |
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thelonelyboy
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hey Starflower,in answer to your post on Matchdoctor,why do all you ladies have the same idea,one man screws up and we all have to pay the price,don't think there aren't women out there just as bad as men ,because there are some sorry women, I don't know about other guys,but I get so damn tired of being judged for what some other dumb guy did.I'm a damn good guy,and if I want to talk to a lady,I talk to her ,if I don't I don't even look her way,the way I am.I'm sorry if you think I come on like a bitch but,that's my way sweety.  .no I'm not married ,gave up even trying to get a date,women seem to have the impression if you ask them out ,you're just after what you can get.sure,I'd like to meet someone ,and get to know them and them get to know me,but we guys don't stand much of a chance,the attitude you ladies have towards guys.how bout you ladies easing up a bit,and give some of us decent guys a break,ok.I live on the Gorgeous Outer Banks of North Carolina,and I sing Karaoke at Poor Richards in Manteo ,every wednesday night,in Manteo ,on the water front.If you are ever down this way ,give me a holler ,maybe we can have a coffee,meal or something and Chat.you might be surprised Sweety.thanks for reading this,hope I haven't made an enemy,thanks again,Terry
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| Sep 19, 2008 @ 9:13 AM |
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anniesue57
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The lonely boy, you are so right about women are just as bad. I guess you just have to sort through the bad ones to find the good ones. Good luck in your search. And all who seeks companionship. I never thought i would find happiness again after my husband passed away but i have, my advice don't give up the right one will be there when u lease expect it. But of course there r some ones that will give you a rough time. Hugs to all
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| Sep 25, 2008 @ 8:58 AM |
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RedNeckButterfly
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i am 30 an i have had nothing but bad luck with men. an your right not all men are like that just like not all women are as innocent as they claim. u can never judge one person by the way someone else did you. but unfortunitly it does happen. i was with a man that i loved with my entire being a man that i though i was going to marry, a man that my son got close enough to for him to want to call him daddy. almost 10 months into the relationship he tells me he dont wanna be with me anymore after we had an arguement, didn't wanna work on anything even went as far as to tell me that he didn't know if he loved me anymore an that everytime i told him he would cringe. only two days later did i find out that he was cheating on me. it is so hard not to judge someone by the way you've been treated in the past. All i have wanted out of life was to be happy have a good job have kids an be with someone till the day i die. so far i have the kids part whom are my life an i adore. its very hard to find a man that wants to settel down an maybe have a kid or two. i'm to the point in my life that i dont have time for games, an i decided that if God intends for me to be with someone that he'll lead them to me, until that time i wont be going outta my way to find someone. Anniesue57 i am so glad that you were able to find love after your husband passed away i just wish i can be that lucky. My fiance passed away a year ago an since then i have had nothing but bad luck when it comes to relationships. But in time i hope that I'll find someone too.
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| Sep 26, 2008 @ 2:27 AM |
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anniesue57
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rednckbutterfly, all I can say is don't give up, what u seek will find you, I thought i could never love again and i told this man that i would not say i love you til i felt it. But i did have to deal with some real l osers til i did find someone. And had to deal with some really mean and hateful ones. I have found some that are just my friends and who r happy for me.
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| Sep 26, 2008 @ 2:28 AM |
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anniesue57
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rednckbutterfly, all I can say is don't give up, what u seek will find you, I thought i could never love again and i told this man that i would not say i love you til i felt it. But i did have to deal with some real l osers til i did find someone. And had to deal with some really mean and hateful ones. I have found some that are just my friends and who r happy for me.
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| Sep 26, 2008 @ 6:36 AM |
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thelonelyboy
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hey ya Butterfly,in response to your post on the net,damn,sweety,wish you'd have come along about 10 years ago,I'd be knocking your door down,you sound just like my kind of woman,one ready to settle down and have a life.I love kids and am very good at getti9ng along with them but,I'm afraid at my age ,don't have much to offer a woman,so,I've just done the logical thing,I gave up,even trying to get a date,the only dates I have now are my fishing and my singing.I met a girl on the net,for a whole year we talked,she told me how much she loved me,till she found someone younger and better looking,so,you see you lovely ladies are not the only people who get mistreated.If you ever get down around the Outer Banks of North Carolina give me a call ,we'll have a coffee and talk if you'd like,(1-252-473-2431).I sing Karaoke at a place called Poor Richards on thew waterfront in Manteo,every wednesday night ,other than that,I'm usually home,I can always use a friend if nothing else.thank you for taking the time to read this,would love to hear from you,a friend,Terry
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| Sep 27, 2008 @ 10:17 AM |
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maggiemae684
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lonely....posting your phone number on here isn't really a wise idea.... 
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| Sep 28, 2008 @ 2:46 PM |
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anniesue57
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I agree with maggie----lonely be aware of posting personal numbers. Take it from someone who has been there and done that 
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| Sep 29, 2008 @ 9:02 PM |
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arieann
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Talk about mean, has anyone been on the main politics and current events forums. Those people are crazy. You should see how mean they talk to each other.
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| Sep 30, 2008 @ 8:57 PM |
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missliss78
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Mean people are everywhere.
BTW, I think it is in the rules for posting on this site that no personal information (i.e. phone numbers) should be posted. However, whether it's against rules or not....lunatics can do lots of things just by getting someone's phone number.
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| Oct 8, 2008 @ 6:32 PM |
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carefull
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Hey, sweety, its me now. So dont worry any more ok:)
See ya soon!!
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| Oct 11, 2008 @ 10:39 PM |
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dmans21
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spend lots of time talking online before giving out your number. If you have to change it. I had to do that myself before. goodluck
Don
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| Oct 11, 2008 @ 10:43 PM |
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dmans21
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iam pretty much done with dating. i have nothing but bad luck and girls dont like a nice guy. even when they say they do. You date a nice guy and dump them for some hunk that cant spell his name. Then wonder why he is screwing your best friend. lol but anyway have fun on this site I know I didnt
Don
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| Oct 16, 2008 @ 10:46 AM |
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carefull
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Yes!! Meanness Is also discribed when someone constantly tells you they love
you and make life plans and then making plans with someone else at the same time. Who plasters there phone no., in forums and tells you he doesnt like phones. LOL All to Funny From someone that speaks of honesty huh??
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| Oct 16, 2008 @ 4:29 PM |
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thelonelyboy
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yeah Careful and damn jealousy ruined what I thought we had,you don't own m,e no one but God owns me.I wanted to be with you but your re-actions that reflected your jealousy just couldn't accept my way of life ,well,I hope and pray to God all women aren't aqs hateful and damn spiteful as you,even writting another girl fussing her out for writting me,straighten out your own back yasrd before you jump in mine little girl .Maybe some day you'll fine a guy I really feel sorry for him,but you probably will,don't ever speak to me again and keep your nose out of my business,you want to be mean,I can play down and dirty as anyone.Terry
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| Oct 17, 2008 @ 11:31 AM |
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carefull
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OH! NO!! Im Not going here at all... No need!! Way to complicated and I didnt fuss
at anyone!!! To long of a story to be telling in here. Just have a good Life,
Im not looking for getting even!!! Dont make threats!!!
Good Luck To You Terry
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| Oct 17, 2008 @ 12:09 PM |
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thelonelyboy
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don't have to make threats,I'm me you're the one that couldn't accept that and try ti make it all look like you're a little saint,which ain't true.you're jusat a typical femjale ,that's all.I ain't fussing either but after your cheap shot,writting the lady I was writting to,I think that shows your attitude ok without me saying anything.I won't lie,and say I hope you have a good life.after the way you did me Careful,I hope you have a rotten life,bye Terry
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