| Oct 20, 2008 @ 9:48 PM |
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carefull
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It would me really nice, to get opinions from the men here, and well as womens
outlook on what they find in here.
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| Oct 21, 2008 @ 4:40 AM |
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Say_Yes
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There is no one answer. Different men, want different things. Some men, just want to get laid, preferably as often & by as many hot women as possible. Others want to meet the love of a lifetime, with whom they can settle down and raise a family. Others might want to find the perfect, lifetime partner, but are not opposed to have a little fun along the way, with what ever comes there way. Some just want to have a few friends, perhaps with benefits, but have no interest in anything serious.
You see, we are all different. I think most of us, would really like to find a love of lifetime, with whom we could share the joys & sorrows of life. At the same time, we all know that it is unlikely that she is going to just leap up in front of us, with a sign that says, Hi, I am your perfect mate.
So, it takes a lot of looking, a lot of time (much of which ends up being wasted for both parties) and for the lucky ones, finally finding a really good match. Lots of people do, including my cousin. He even wrote a song about her.
Holiday Band - Love of a Lifetime
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| Oct 21, 2008 @ 9:30 AM |
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thelonelyboy
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Yes I really your answer,and you seem to be a pretty smart .that was a damn great answer.I'm sure lots of us,men and women have been disappointed at one time or the other but somehow we just keep pushing forward.I know the lady of my dreams is out there somewhere,it's just a matter of time,which I don't have a lot of that's one reason I was in such a rush and,sometimes ,we get mad and say things in haste that never should have been said but,in the heat of an argument,we sometimes tend to forget but,things are going to happen.I am going to carry on with my life,and,though lots of people may not believe this,because,I am an honery old man,I hope she will find everything she is seeking in love,and a relationship,I just don't think we were meant for each other ,bottom line.I don't know if I'll ever find happiness or not but,I've learned a lot of things during this life span of mine,and being with a jealous person will never work if you can't have trust and faith,you have nothing.Ok,just wanted to clear up the table,so to speak thank you for a great answer and hope you to have a great life.Everybody from the bottom of my heart,I apologize for my part in the arguments on here,and,I hope everyone will find the happiness they seek and the love of their life,Peace Out,Terry(lonely boy) Wright
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 1:52 PM |
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carefull
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I did look up the band...... really loved it..... Thanks!!!!
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| Oct 24, 2008 @ 7:19 PM |
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gboler
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Actually I'm looking for someone that won't say THANKS-BUT-NO-THANKS after my email and then reading my profile   
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 9:39 AM |
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pinkypaula2
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well im just going to say whats on my heart/mind/experience most of the men that i have chat/met online are usally out for only one thing, im not saying that they are all that way, and speaking for women to some of us are just as bad, im looking for friendship only and first in mylife i have had my share of dead beat/looser guys most guys take a look at youre pic aand automatically see SEX not all of them and some women are the same, i like men that has respect for women one that can carry on a conversation without the sex word in it, some men dont think with their head thats on their shoulders so to speak lol
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 12:56 PM |
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carefull
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well pinky, well said. Im still trying after a very long time to have a conversation, without the sex word, because if its that type of conversarion that comes out first, you end up with nothing.
Thanks for your opinion
carefull
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| Nov 29, 2008 @ 8:46 PM |
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pinkypaula2
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why thank you careful im just being honest {honesty only} right, at least thats how it has been for me, i just call it as i see it    
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| Nov 30, 2008 @ 12:00 PM |
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lookn4sumthinspeacil
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Ok im new to this site and wanted my opion to be out there lol most of uss well i speak from my own thoughts and feelings i know i am looking for sumthin serious along the way i d like to have fun get to know a girl and ladies some of us guys get a lil desprate so let me apologize for them and myself as loneliness is a disease and a curse. Ure cursed with feeling inadquet and lonely so u make it your disease and soon your mind warps and u blend the words sex and love and its preaty hard to tell the diffrence now i would luv a booty call but am a deep spiritually gifted person with thoughts and needs and i must say by acting apon these easy wemen has led me to much heartache and also much short term fun but alls well. In the end when im where i should be ill look back and rember all the good times and the badd and u know what ill tel my kids ill look at them and so oh what a ride. Horoscope says stablity is in store but seems one must seek stability in oreder to store it lol well there my two cents hope it dose ya justice there will be more lol ;)
sign me
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| Dec 10, 2008 @ 2:35 AM |
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bobcats1
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We want what women want, just to find someone that we are attracted to for whatever reason and can put up with their good and bad qualities, because no one is perfect. It seems like men get a bad rap for for being sexual but it goes both ways. A female friend of mine was dating a guy and after three dates she told me that if this guy didn't try to make a move on her she was going to quit seeing him. I think when people are ready to be sexual in relationships they are ready. Men just seem to be ready earlier unless they are friends with the girl a long time before dating. Just my 2 cents.
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