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Oct 20, 2008 @ 9:48 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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It would me really nice, to get opinions from the men here, and well as womens
outlook on what they find in here.
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Oct 21, 2008 @ 4:40 AM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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There is no one answer. Different men, want different things. Some men, just want to get laid, preferably as often & by as many hot women as possible. Others want to meet the love of a lifetime, with whom they can settle down and raise a family. Others might want to find the perfect, lifetime partner, but are not opposed to have a little fun along the way, with what ever comes there way. Some just want to have a few friends, perhaps with benefits, but have no interest in anything serious.

You see, we are all different. I think most of us, would really like to find a love of lifetime, with whom we could share the joys & sorrows of life. At the same time, we all know that it is unlikely that she is going to just leap up in front of us, with a sign that says, Hi, I am your perfect mate.

So, it takes a lot of looking, a lot of time (much of which ends up being wasted for both parties) and for the lucky ones, finally finding a really good match. Lots of people do, including my cousin. He even wrote a song about her.

Holiday Band - Love of a Lifetime

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Oct 21, 2008 @ 9:30 AM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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Yes I really your answer,and you seem to be a pretty smart .that was a damn great answer.I'm sure lots of us,men and women have been disappointed at one time or the other but somehow we just keep pushing forward.I know the lady of my dreams is out there somewhere,it's just a matter of time,which I don't have a lot of that's one reason I was in such a rush and,sometimes ,we get mad and say things in haste that never should have been said but,in the heat of an argument,we sometimes tend to forget but,things are going to happen.I am going to carry on with my life,and,though lots of people may not believe this,because,I am an honery old man,I hope she will find everything she is seeking in love,and a relationship,I just don't think we were meant for each other ,bottom line.I don't know if I'll ever find happiness or not but,I've learned a lot of things during this life span of mine,and being with a jealous person will never work if you can't have trust and faith,you have nothing.Ok,just wanted to clear up the table,so to speak thank you for a great answer and hope you to have a great life.Everybody from the bottom of my heart,I apologize for my part in the arguments on here,and,I hope everyone will find the happiness they seek and the love of their life,Peace Out,Terry(lonely boy) Wright
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Oct 24, 2008 @ 1:52 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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I did look up the band...... really loved it..... Thanks!!!!
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Oct 24, 2008 @ 7:19 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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Actually I'm looking for someone that won't say THANKS-BUT-NO-THANKS after my email and then reading my profile
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Nov 29, 2008 @ 9:39 AM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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well im just going to say whats on my heart/mind/experience most of the men that i have chat/met online are usally out for only one thing, im not saying that they are all that way, and speaking for women to some of us are just as bad, im looking for friendship only and first in mylife i have had my share of dead beat/looser guys most guys take a look at youre pic aand automatically see SEX not all of them and some women are the same, i like men that has respect for women one that can carry on a conversation without the sex word in it, some men dont think with their head thats on their shoulders so to speak lol
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Nov 29, 2008 @ 12:56 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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well pinky, well said. Im still trying after a very long time to have a conversation, without the sex word, because if its that type of conversarion that comes out first, you end up with nothing.
Thanks for your opinion

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Nov 29, 2008 @ 8:46 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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why thank you careful im just being honest {honesty only} right, at least thats how it has been for me, i just call it as i see it
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Nov 30, 2008 @ 12:00 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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Ok im new to this site and wanted my opion to be out there lol most of uss well i speak from my own thoughts and feelings i know i am looking for sumthin serious along the way i d like to have fun get to know a girl and ladies some of us guys get a lil desprate so let me apologize for them and myself as loneliness is a disease and a curse. Ure cursed with feeling inadquet and lonely so u make it your disease and soon your mind warps and u blend the words sex and love and its preaty hard to tell the diffrence now i would luv a booty call but am a deep spiritually gifted person with thoughts and needs and i must say by acting apon these easy wemen has led me to much heartache and also much short term fun but alls well. In the end when im where i should be ill look back and rember all the good times and the badd and u know what ill tel my kids ill look at them and so oh what a ride. Horoscope says stablity is in store but seems one must seek stability in oreder to store it lol well there my two cents hope it dose ya justice there will be more lol ;)

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Dec 10, 2008 @ 2:35 AM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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We want what women want, just to find someone that we are attracted to for whatever reason and can put up with their good and bad qualities, because no one is perfect. It seems like men get a bad rap for for being sexual but it goes both ways. A female friend of mine was dating a guy and after three dates she told me that if this guy didn't try to make a move on her she was going to quit seeing him. I think when people are ready to be sexual in relationships they are ready. Men just seem to be ready earlier unless they are friends with the girl a long time before dating. Just my 2 cents.
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May 17, 2010 @ 2:01 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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Every man is looking for something different...some want sex...some want dating and sex...some just want to be friends....others just want to find a mistress on the side that they can cheat on their wife far as me..I am looking for friends!
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May 23, 2010 @ 12:57 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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^^^^ hi friend !. .. hope you are having a good weekend

and as far as what men want?.. they want the same things that women do.. companionship, passion, friendship, understanding..
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Jun 8, 2010 @ 6:32 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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A mix of Miranda Kerr, June Cleaver, and Jenna Jameson, and our Mothers...who will always take care of us and not emasculate us..

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Jun 28, 2010 @ 1:05 AM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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I believe men want the whole package, meaning they want an angel during the day and and the devil at night, theres an old saying that men want a lady on the street and a freak between the sheets. I also believe that while it is important to have good christian values such as faithfulness, honesty, and sincerity it is also important to keep romance alive in the relationship men also want variety for men this may mean for their girlfriend, fiancee, or wife dressing up like a school girl one week and a french maid the next this sounds funny but it's true to many relationships break up because they fall into a rutt anfd their romantic life remains stagnet One reason why men choose to go to strip clubs is because theres variety I also believe that men can help keep their romance alive buy sending flowers, thinking of you cards, taking their girl for a stroll through a botanical garden, or park it has to be a two way street
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Aug 12, 2010 @ 2:39 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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My experience has been mixed. Mostly they want sex.
I met one man for lunch and the first thing he said was he was not looking for sex.
I agreed with him and he proceded to interview me. .By the end of the conversation he was a little indignent because I didn't want to go to bed with him, or anyone for that matter. He acted apalled that I wouldn't eventually give in to him, "you mean never"? I didn't even know him and I won't sleep with anyone that I don't know VERY WELL
I never heard from him again.
Good for me.

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Aug 20, 2010 @ 5:23 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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good for you
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Sep 20, 2010 @ 4:55 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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You know the truth of matter is Men seek what Women seek but not at the same time lol................ yes, you can break down to some are seeking this or some are seeking that ....but from what I have come across it seem to be either they are attracted to me and I'm not or they mainly want sex... and I'm not the only who have experienced it If I was this question would not be floating around..... it seems that it's hard these days to find a honest man or woman well honest enough to let their true agenda be known... which may be hard for some to be honest with others for they can't even be honest with theirselves.......
This brings me to the so called players...... I don't have anything against players as long as they let it be known that they are Players and that they don't prey upon vulnerable folks who are seriously seeking love... me personally I'm allergic to players ....... i think that players should play with other players.... but then that would be to much like right...... so all you can do i hope you have acquired wisdom from previous relationships to help you make the best decision that faces you in male or female form. Try not to take it personally if the one you want don't want you .. for we all have a right to like what we like .... just look at as you just that much closer to finding your perfect fit........
from the famous words of Forest Gump ... now that's all I have to say about that
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Sep 21, 2010 @ 10:16 PM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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I have come to find that most men want an easy woman and they want a piece... Thats why im single, the guy got what he wanted even though he went to the extent of proposing to me (while he was married and I had no idea) and got what he wanted, though im not easy. But he did get a piece, now im pregnant and he is no longer in the picture at all. So be careful. I hope you find a good one.
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Dec 23, 2010 @ 1:26 AM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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it depends on the age.. the younger guys are not ready to settle down yet.. they wanna play the field a bit.. I don't blame them.. but I think after a man hits his mid thirties, he's looking for something a little more solid.. someone they can come home to and just relax.. I mean face it.. dating is alot of work and when we reach 30, 40, and 50.. it's just tiresome. You have more responsibilities, more worries.. maybe even more health issues to deal with.. serial dating is just not a priority for alot of us older folks.
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May 10, 2017 @ 10:07 AM WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR? ( Honesty Only )    

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Yes and also a god fearing woman that know how to make a good home
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