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Aug 18, 2006 @ 10:31 AM It takes him too long to cum    
scarletsara


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Average 2-3 hours every time It's the first thing on the aggenda when we
get together. Don't get me wrong I like a long session, but I also love a good
quickie. He says orgasm always takes a long while for him to acheive.
Any ideas on how to spped things up?
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 10:39 AM It takes him too long to cum    
chinabull2000


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Yep, that's too long, especially if you're up for a quickie! How long does it take him to cum when he has a wank? I would expect that's much much quicker, so perhaps a bit of mutual masturbation should be added to the agenda?
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 11:10 AM It takes him too long to cum    
Noble_Saxon


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LMAO
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 12:17 PM It takes him too long to cum    
chinabull2000


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LOL I don't know why you're laughing Saxon, it was a serious answer.
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 12:21 PM It takes him too long to cum    
kattsmeow


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I don't know the answer. I think this question could be answered by the men here though.
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 12:33 PM It takes him too long to cum    
SunBabe


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China said:
LOL I don't know why you're laughing Saxon, it was a serious answer.

We always giggle when you say "wank"...it's such a perfect word that's not widely distributed in our Yank vocabulary.
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 12:37 PM It takes him too long to cum    
chinabull2000


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LOL ah yes Sunbeam, I remember now!
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 12:50 PM It takes him too long to cum    
crackerchickie


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soooo, do you have his number?

Seriously, that is too long. Maybe you should get a television in the bedroom, or put an open book over his face.

Hard to believe I also do sexual couselling for the community. I guess that's why the birth rate is down.
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 12:54 PM It takes him too long to cum    
jeanc200358


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After you get going for a while, tell him to take matters into his own hands, go and have a sammich and a glass of coke, watch a little TV and periodically go in and check on his progress. Tell him, "I'll have my people get back with your people," or something to that effect.

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Aug 18, 2006 @ 2:01 PM It takes him too long to cum    
jamminjerry


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another humor post!
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 5:25 PM It takes him too long to cum    
jeanc200358


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Humor?

Okayyyy...

;-)
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 5:28 PM It takes him too long to cum    
kinglouis2005


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are u 2 enjoying a drink when u get together...whiskey dick is hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 5:28 PM It takes him too long to cum    
Ensaged


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It's either lack of interest on his part or perhaps a slightly low testerone level.

How are his erections? Are they "indifferent" or normally hard?

If they tend to be soft, then again there may be a physical problem or perhaps he just isn't getting fully aroused by you.

Sit down and have a talk with him. For me, the best sex is when I'm with a partner with whom I can actually talk and we understand each other and our bodies.
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 6:26 PM It takes him too long to cum    
Loreli


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Is he taking meds? I have witnessed sessions of maybe an hour, take a break another 30, take a break, etc etc. But straight through?
Dayum....
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 6:52 PM It takes him too long to cum    
NoCuteLines


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Average 2-3 hours every time
Sounds perfectly normal to me, that's including foreplay and a trip around the world...maybe even a couple of revisits here and there...mostly "there" though.
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 7:06 PM It takes him too long to cum    
jeanc200358


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NoCute, my flight will be arriving at 8:00 p.m. sharp.



Have mercy.
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 7:52 PM It takes him too long to cum    
candylily


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Ensaged....
It's either lack of interest on his part or perhaps a slightly low testerone level.
How are his erections? Are they "indifferent" or normally hard?
If they tend to be soft, then again there may be a physical problem or perhaps he just isn't getting fully aroused by you.


I would like to know the answer to this one too. The last guy I dated had that problem.
The lack of interest or not fully aroused by me is the way I tended to take it, but on the other hand he was the one spending hundreds of dollars fairly often to buy me plane tickets to come see him on weekends.
It didn't bother him, he thought everything was fine, but when I told him it definitely bothered me, that was the end of it.

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Aug 18, 2006 @ 7:59 PM It takes him too long to cum    
Ensaged


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candylily,

That's why communication is paramount. Such problems can be done away with, if you work together.
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 8:20 PM It takes him too long to cum    
NoCuteLines


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Just kidding, (not)

Does he wear a condom? If yes, stop using one or change to a more sensitive type. What is the frequency of your encounters? Reducing the number of times per day or week should help.
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Aug 18, 2006 @ 9:46 PM It takes him too long to cum    
scarletsara


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Some interesting comments, He says he has been this way with all his partners.
He can cum much quicker during doggy style, (he can't explain why) but he prefers me on top. Some men are so shy about sex talk
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