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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 2:19 AM |
The 1 night stand: being used for sex by a woman
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Richard231
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This happened in the early 90's in Vancouver... a couple of lesbos decided they wanted a family.. so the fem, 3 and knowing she was at or near ovulation and fertile, cruised the upscale bars downtown... chatted it up with a young attractive stockbroker and invited him back to "her place" ( she was supposed to be with a roomate who was out for the night ) for a drink. It was easy to get him into the sack. She was lucky and got pregnant, and he never knew... until he was talkng with a friend who knew the women pair and who "clued" him in. The girls had the little girl they wanted and initially he was angry and he felt he had been used... but eventually he was OK with it...
Whaddya think... was he being used? How would you feel?
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 3:03 AM |
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dark_moon
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Taking into consideration the fact that he was slut enough to have unprotected sex with a total stranger. He should consider himself lucky that there weren't worse consequenses. At the same time though, it's not right for a woman to do that (not to mention very risky and irresponsible toward the child she was attempting to concieve).
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 3:07 AM |
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ILOVETOKISS
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I would feel hurt and taken advantage of.......... 
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 8:33 AM |
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everrett
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I would sue for custody and then make the mother pay child support
Actually I just feel sorry for the child being the offspring of that guy and given moral guidance from those women.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 9:54 AM |
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Loreli
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I would sue for custody and then make the mother pay child support
what makes him any better than them? they all participated in unprotected sex with a stranger....
to the op-yes, they used him...but he was a willing participant!
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 10:12 AM |
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everrett
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what makes him any better than them? they all participated in unprotected sex with a stranger.... that was a joke about suing for custody. The second line was hammering home how all of the participants showed bad judgement.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 10:18 AM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,417
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ohhhhhhh- gotcha 
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 11:09 AM |
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lj450
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It has been so long since this has happened to me.......I think Ive become de-sensitized to the trauma it can cause. In fact, it would serve me right if it happened today.....I mean as a reminder and to teach me a lesson and all.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 2:48 PM |
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Richard231
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Well the 1 night stand is a 1 night stand...the circumstances are unpredictable. it happens all the time, and unfortunaely, unprotected sex is still the norm in many if not most circles. I've done it, not recently, but believe me, it doesnt' take a helluva lot to get things started. I saw on another forum (on another free site) the questions were asked: Do you practice safe sex at ALL times? Do you insist on the use of condoms every time? When do they come off... do they ever come off? The honest answers, especially from some of the women were very suprising. It's easy to say ALWAYS on here, but in the heat of lust/passion or whatever you wanna call it, sometimes it's pretty hard to say "no we can't do it now 'cause we don't have a condom". How many women/men carry condoms in their pocket/purse 24/7? Not many, not unless your going to a party or to see someone with the intention of getting laid.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 2:57 PM |
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Richard231
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I forgot one thing... the stockbroker guy found out 3 years later only by accident. The lesbo's, who were a together pair were fairly well off and were providing a nurturing and loving environment for the child... so it wasn't all bad. That's why he backed off. Yes he was used and at first he was pretty pissed about it. Suing for custody...or suing for anything would have accomplished nothing, and just made some lawyers rich... and probably would have hurt the kid.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 3:55 PM |
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razzired
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I beg to differ. It's not that hard to say "Sorry, no condom, no nooky." There are enough 24-hour grocery stores and drug stores around, it doesn't have to totally derail the excitement, just delay it a bit.
I don't carry condoms 24/7, but I do put a few in my purse if I'm going out. One, I have moocher friends who know I carry them, the 'hos, and two, you just never know.
There's no piece of ass in the world worth a death sentence. Or, almost worse, a life sentence with something you never get rid of.
MJ
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 4:06 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,551
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Like Eddie Murphy once said......"Ive thrown my dick on the crap table many a night!!"
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 4:17 PM |
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definitelydi
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2 consenting adults can do whatever they want...condom or not
he was a willing participant! so....tough titty! 
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 5:40 PM |
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MotownManiax
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I totally agree with dark_moon. I’m glad this guy eventually accepted things because he didn’t have much of a moral leg to stand on. He willingly had anonymous, unprotected sex with a total stranger and had no intention of following up—he got his kicks and moved on. The woman that tricked him doesn’t come off much better, but at least her motive had some redeeming value. I hope the child she brought into the world is well-cared for, loved, and turns out OK. Part of me would like to be there when her mother explains the circumstances of conception, though....lol.
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| Sep 20, 2006 @ 6:22 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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"Drive-by sperm donor"...usually it's the other way around (with the woman who ends up "surprised") 
I do have to laugh about "do you carry a condom in your purse 24/7?" You should see the size of my purse: about 5"x4"x3" (honest!)...and yes, there are TWO condoms in it (along with a whole slew of potential 'necessities'...but no tampax, lol ) --- maybe I just carry them for the challenge of "  omg, you've got everything in that tiny little bag!" (...because I have no intensions whatsoever of 'getting involved', heat of passion or not  )...but JUST IN CASE I get a chance to eat my words-of-virtue, I'm prepared  -- Of course I feel like the teenage boys who used to carry that single "rubber" in their wallet all through high school til it made a permanent round circle marked in the leather (and it was probably all dried out and useless, to boot)
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| Sep 21, 2006 @ 8:29 AM |
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JayBird747
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Shoot fire, I do that all the time. I had a V-sect bout 5 years ago, but I am more then happy to accomodate kid-wanting lesbo galls who don't know it.
They can even call me up a few weeks later for another shot.
"What's that? Oh gee, I am sorry it didn't take that first time. No problem, I'll swing by and we'll giver her another try."
Now some folks may thing that's honery, but I am just out there trying to give them lesbo gals some hope.
Or maybe, I am tryin to get them to see that hetro stuff ain't so bad.
I think mostly though, it's probably that I'm jest trying to get laid anyway that I can.
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| Sep 21, 2006 @ 3:56 PM |
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johnw_6
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wasn't he using her also?
anyways that's not the real issue.
This child will grow up not knowing her biological father. Yes it takes more than that to be a dad granted but what do the mothers say happened other than to lie?
Now before people get upset about single sex families, what doesn't sit right with me is the manner in which this was done and the impact it will have on this child.
the father thought for himself - he was stupid-
the mother for herself - she went on the lottery-
and no-one thought for the child. It's not fair.
sorry but this pi**es me off, please can be so selfish
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| Sep 22, 2006 @ 2:26 PM |
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zulamaze
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She was lucky and got pregnant, and he never knew... the tables have certainly changed over the years..
Whaddya think... was he being used? How would you feel?
It used to be the guys were using girls for their satisfaction....
This is a new era.... it is the other way around now...
Just deal with it. 
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| Sep 22, 2006 @ 6:02 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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I have a question...whatever happened to the other nightstand? It gives me the willies to not have a matched pair beside a double bed (or bigger). 
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| Sep 24, 2006 @ 4:23 PM |
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mogrl1000
Posts: 258
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he was used to create a Baby,no big deal.At least this child was wanted and will have a good life with a loving mother and her life partner.Too many kids out there are not wanted.
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