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| Sep 21, 2006 @ 11:08 AM |
First time sex with a new guy, do you need an orgasm?
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jimbuysproperty
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Just curious to know if a woman expects an orgasm during first time sex with a new guy. Over the years I have found some women expect 2 or more orgasms but quite a few don't push the need for an orgasm until you fine just what gets her off. Some of you Gals can cum with intercourse but others need direct clitoral stimulation. Some of you use the vibrator and trust me if I don't carry old Vic the vibrator you just can't get off, oral usually works and finger stimulation sometimes but Vic always seems to bring out the multiple fuzzies.......Problem is siting on the beach at night and getting ready for a quicky makes it tough to find a 110 plug. I even tried a ni-cad recharable, lord help you if the battery dies during an orgasm........LOL I would really like an answer because it seems like the man cums almost all the time but not the woman, is this true and does a woman get any feeling of satisfaction out of a non orgasmic quicky? Thanks for your answers.......
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| Sep 21, 2006 @ 12:01 PM |
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sweet_n_small1
Posts: 753
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Speaking for myself...I expect an orgasm every time. I would not be averse to telling the guy how to help me get one though. It happens fairly easily for me however. Don't let the pressure get to you. Take your time and feel your way. 
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| Sep 21, 2006 @ 12:17 PM |
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zulamaze
Posts: 1,266
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ewww... I would never let a man use his vibrator on me.
Don't know where it has been. I have my own toys. 
There is a difference between an orgasm and cumming.
An orgasm is much more intense and much better.
Speaking for myself, if I don't have an earth shattering orgasm, yes
I still satisfaction out of it, just not as much.
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| Sep 21, 2006 @ 3:54 PM |
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scarletmerrow
Posts: 92
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Um . . . I'll have to agree with zulamaze on the use of a man's toys!!! HELL NO! For me, the use of toys would have to come later in the relationship when I'm more comfortable and relaxed with the person
Let me ask this question . . . Would it be okay for you to NOT have an orgasm the first time you had sex with a new gal?
The first time with a new person can sometimes be awkward, especially when people are nervous and unsure of what "really" pleases the other person. I don't expect an orgasm, but I want an orgasm - that's one of the fun reasons for engaging in sex I think.
I DO NOT get any satisfaction from a non orgasmic quickie with intercourse. However if he's been able to give me an orgasm through oral stimulation and then I engage in a non orgasmic quickie with intercourse that's fine. I would prefer to have another though, but that's okay as long as I can have at least one in a sexual encounter it's all good!!
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| Sep 22, 2006 @ 3:47 AM |
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ILOVETOKISS
Posts: 38
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What the hell is he running around with a vibrator for? 
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| Sep 22, 2006 @ 6:01 AM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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My question. Exactly!
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| Sep 22, 2006 @ 2:37 PM |
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jimbuysproperty
Posts: 22
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Boy Scout Motto...........
ALWAYS BE PREPARED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Sep 22, 2006 @ 5:41 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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~shudder~ and you've used this same "impliment" on DIFFERENT WOMEN?   
Don't tell me you share your toothbrush...and used kleenex, too. 
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| Sep 22, 2006 @ 5:55 PM |
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jamminjerry
Posts: 4,085
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shall we say that every woman wants to be first in line! thats the way i read their replys. most logical.
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| Sep 22, 2006 @ 6:31 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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Read them again, they're in plain English. 
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| Sep 23, 2006 @ 10:19 AM |
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DipityDoo
Posts: 377
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I can count the men I've been with on one hand, but I don't think I've ever had an all-out orgasm the first time around with anyone. Actually, maybe I did with one. So, no I don't expect it and am not disappointed if it doesn't happen. It'll come (haha) with time.
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| Sep 23, 2006 @ 10:33 AM |
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Empath
Posts: 5,288
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(not acknowledging the 'used' vibrator issue.....just plain nasssssty)
If mine happens, I'd be pleasantly surprised (and then some), but if his doesn't happen...I'd be disheartened and wanna keep trying. 
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| Sep 23, 2006 @ 10:47 AM |
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spongebob777
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It helps if the woman is vocal in her wishes. I can follow directions. 
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| Sep 23, 2006 @ 9:58 PM |
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2averagegirl
Posts: 17
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Sex without an orgasm?..... I thought that only happened when you were married?...........
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| Sep 24, 2006 @ 9:33 AM |
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Empath
Posts: 5,288
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No no no.....that's sex without actually touching!! Or is that when you have kids?? 
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| Sep 24, 2006 @ 11:00 AM |
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scarletmerrow
Posts: 92
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Probably both!!
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| Sep 24, 2006 @ 5:59 PM |
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edward1224
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Yes, you should have at least one orgasm if not a couple. I can usually give women two or three the first time that we're together like that and then more after I get to know her, what she likes, what turns her on and such.
I did have one woman recently where we did it twice the one night and twice the following day and although she loved it, she never came. I finally asked her about it and she said that she's never had an orgasim. I was like, "Never?" and she said, "No." So, I don't really blame myself for that one.
Ed
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 9:29 AM |
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Justjamie0418
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not touching the vibrator issue...
I would actually expect sex for the first time to be awesome.. Its just the sex that follows that normally withers away. I would really not even consider a quicky on the beach to be my perfect first time with a guy experience either. As a woman thats looking for that perfect all around partner, I would hope that the man would WANT me to get off, and I'd feel the same.
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 11:25 AM |
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jimbuysproperty
Posts: 22
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Farmer's Motto
Keep all your IMPLIMENTS ready for the next plowing!!!!
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| Sep 25, 2006 @ 11:41 AM |
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jimbuysproperty
Posts: 22
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Sunbabe
You are not taking in the whole picture here. I see you wouldn't share your toothbrush with a person but you would lock tounges and swap spit with the same person. I don't run around with a vibrator in my back pocket but I know most women today masterbate and many use a vibrator. I have grown up since but I used to have an old craftsman vibrator that was used on many clits, never had a complaint and I did keep it clean. I had one Gal that would say where is that thingy you have and I would say hey you dont like me just my thingy.....Ahh those were the days. Anyway Sunbabe don't take things out of context and don't ASSume things that are not true.......I think you are a pessimist and that makes relationships difficult and brings in the drama......Good luck though finding a man or woman........
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