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Nov 22, 2005 @ 9:35 PM physical attraction    
britmadden


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Do you have to be physically attracted to the man/woman you are sleeping with? From what little I have experienced....sex is much better if i am attracted to the man i am with. He could be MR> GQ but if the attraction is not there...the sex isnt as good.

Am i going crazy?? Or are there more out there as crazy as i am?
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 9:39 PM physical attraction    
corvette_racing


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I personally need to be attracted to a woman in order to be interested in having sex with her. I'm extremely picky when it comes to women.. Well, that's one of the reasons that I'm single right now . I'm rather single than lowering my standards...
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 9:46 PM physical attraction    
MarysPlace


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This question is a joke, right?
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 9:48 PM physical attraction    
britmadden


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dont read it if you dont want to honey...but no its not a joke...i would like to see how many real and true men there are. i had hoped men would have some standards.
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:01 PM physical attraction    
MarysPlace


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You didn't specify that the Q was only for men. You were talking about yourself.

So your question is basically this: do you think I'd enjoy my meal more if I actually liked the food I'm eating?

You do realize that's what it comes down to?

Your answer: I can't imagine a scenario where I'd eat crappy food.

Therefore, why would I sleep with someone I'm not attracted to? I'd appreciate if you could give me a good reason. One is enough.
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:10 PM physical attraction    
sleepless29


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some do sleep with the ones they are not really attracted to and it is a whole tragedy of this world now when women chose men who can provide better life for them and kids and this is how nation got to look like that.... i am in sad mood, don't pay attention to my words...
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:18 PM physical attraction    
britmadden


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awwww im sorry to hear that sleepless
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:20 PM physical attraction    
britmadden


Posts: 80
mary....it comes down to....when you need sex...anything will do when you need sex...or here..this may help you...

if your starving...wouldnt you eat crappy food...no matter if you liked it or not??
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:25 PM physical attraction    
MarysPlace


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when you need sex...anything will do when you need sex...


OK, you ARE joking, right? This can't be serious?

I'm sorry, but you have some pretty low standards. Good luck with that.

Oh and... the inside info just for you: you can (legally) buy all kinds of toys. I'd imagine it beats sleeping with total dogs...
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:28 PM physical attraction    
britmadden


Posts: 80
correct me if im wrong....sometimes a man can do what a toy cannot
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:32 PM physical attraction    
MarysPlace


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Waitaminute...

You wanted to know if there were "real and true men who have standards". I think that by that you mean men who wouldn't sleep with just anybody when they want sex.

Yet you acknowledge that you do just that. I don't think you can have it both ways, now can you? Why would you care about men's standards if you don't have any of your own?
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:34 PM physical attraction    
MarysPlace


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And yes, darlin' I'm gonna correct you: a toy can do MUCH more than a total dog. Like leave your dignity nicely in place...
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:41 PM physical attraction    
britmadden


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im not talking about a total dog...this man could be your long time friend. im talking about being acttracted to him. for me....being acttracted to a man makes things better
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:44 PM physical attraction    
corvette_racing


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And yes, darlin' I'm gonna correct you: a toy can do MUCH more than a total dog. Like leave your dignity nicely in place...


She said "sometimes"... so what you just said doesn't really correct what she said...
Just read again through her post and than read through yours...

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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:47 PM physical attraction    
yoseph


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it comes down to....when you need sex...anything will do when you need sex...or here..this may help you...

if your starving...wouldnt you eat crappy food...no matter if you liked it or not??



dose this make masterbation like eating that arm you dont really need?
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:51 PM physical attraction    
britmadden


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hahahh i dont think so yoseph....im on a regular schedule...its just nice to have a man around sometimes...thats all
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:58 PM physical attraction    
yoseph


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i myself have standerds, i would rather have no sex than to bang the first thing that comes along...

but i also enjoy the female form of many types
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 10:59 PM physical attraction    
yoseph


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i understand that brit, anyone who has been alone for awhile will feel that way from time to time...
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Nov 22, 2005 @ 11:02 PM physical attraction    
yoseph


Posts: 181
keep your head up and dont sell yourself short!

once you have been returned too many times you may end up on the discount rack...

no one wants to be there...
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Nov 23, 2005 @ 1:24 AM physical attraction    
eViL_InSiDe


Posts: 39
Yoseph that isn't true. I believe it boils down to will power. Myself though I would rather go without than actually have sex with some random woman from a club.
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