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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 10:32 AM |
What to do about "dicky do?"
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definitelydi
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I recently met a really nice guy from another site for coffee. His profile only showed his face, just as mine does. We never really discussed our appearences below the neck before meeting. I was a bit surprised to see he was bigger than I thought he would be, but I don't consider this to be dishonest if we both only had face pics to go off of. I prefer stocky/thick men but this man's abdomen was a bit more than that. We really had a good time talking, and our senses of humor really meshed well. I'm unsure of how to proceed. Does his case of "dicky do" make him a "dicky don't?"
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 10:33 AM |
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Guerrero
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I don't know what a dicky do or a dicky dont is... you might want to share what that means.
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 10:40 AM |
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definitelydi
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DickyDo: When a man's gut sticks out further than his dick does.
[Edited on 11/23/2005 10:38 AM]
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 10:42 AM |
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Guerrero
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LMAO wow, that's a new one. And is that physically possible?
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 11:28 AM |
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MotownManiax
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lol...dicky do. 
Well, if you really like him but can't get past the, ahem, physical problem then move on 'cause eventually your feelings will surface, probably sooner than later. Btw, when you talked, did he say anything about wanting to work out and lose weight? If so, and he's taking steps to alleviate the "problem" (lol), there still could be hope?
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 11:36 AM |
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summersquall
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DickyDo: When a man's gut sticks out further than his dick does.
Unless you saw him naked how do you know this to be the case? Maybe he's extremely well endowed?
Hah! Just kidding...;)
Did you talk to him about his physical appearance? How about bringing it up in a more off hand way by talking about health concerns?
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 11:48 AM |
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FeliciVagano
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Does his case of "dicky do" make him a "dicky don't?"
hmm..I know you are a brite woman..so I wonder if you are being serious here, or playing with the peanut gallery??
but..to answer your question from different perspectives
1) if he can get it up..he is a doer. If he can't he still has his mouth and hands.
2) if his belly hangs lower that his ___ does, then you will have to do more of the work. Wouldn't you like to be the one on top? If so, he is a doer.
Now for the other side ( and people,don't hate me for this)
Is this a case of double standard where it is "do as I say..not as I do" ..but that you are just turned off by his size, and don't want him to do you?
Oh well just some ramblings..have a great day... 
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 11:52 AM |
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MischeviousAngel
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Dicky do is also known as "Dunlop Disease"... it's where your belly "done lopped" over your belt...
Now we have ALL seen those men who have a beer gut that they need a wheelbarrow to carry around... You know... the ones that look like they are about 9 months over-due... for Triplets....
Thing that amazes me to no end is that if a guy like that shows up at the emergency room with a backache the (most likely male) doctor is all over him "oh get this poor man a wheelchair and into a room stat so that we can fix his problem"... and if a woman shows up with a broken back what she is going to hear is "it's just a pulled muscle" IF she happens to be plus sized she's also going to be told "go on a diet" and all of this is going to be said to the woman without there ever being an x-ray taken.
[Edited on 11/23/2005 11:52 AM]
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 11:57 AM |
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MotownManiax
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Dicky do is also known as "Dunlop Disease"... it's where your belly "done lopped" over your belt...
As for treating overweight women and stomach challenged men differently, yep, terrible double standard, Angel.
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 12:16 PM |
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13lucky
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I guess I'm just the I gotta know type of guy.. It would come up before we meet..about most everything, If the other party isn't willing to discuss it.. then for me thats the first sign of trouble.
Honestly think about his feeling like you ladies like us to do about yours.. Either tell him you enjoyed the talk but felt no chemistry or something, Don't tell him because he is fat.. Because you don't want to change so why ask him to change.. Be honest but save his feelings.
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 12:22 PM |
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definitelydi
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Unless you saw him naked how do you know this to be the case? I actually thought of this Summer! I have taken it under consideration but feel pretty confident that I'm right!  If this weight was carried higher, then it may not be so!
I don't know him well enough to question him about his size, exercise, etc. I am by no means a small woman and I think I'd feel a wee bit hypocritical if I say something. However, I know I'm active and fairly healthy. There does have to be some physical attraction to date someone (DUH!) and I do have some towards him. The only way to know is to give him a chance...and just never get naked with him and enjoy his humor! 
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 12:26 PM |
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definitelydi
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13Lucky...I would never ever ever write anyone off by telling them that they are a chub! I wouldn't like receiving that so I wouldn't pass it out! 
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 12:59 PM |
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tahoma
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DickyDo: When a man's gut sticks out further than his dick does
Dicky do is also known as "Dunlop Disease"... it's where your belly "done lopped" over your belt...
You guys are killing me. Laughing so hard I won't have to go to the gym tonight.
I had a similar experience a few years ago. I met a guy online, we emailed back and forth a bit then finally got together for a date. When I saw how big his belly was I almost turned around and bolted. I'm so glad I didn't. We had an incredible day and continued to see each other often. He was a terrific lover as well. Unfortunately he had been born with a bad ticker and it finally gave out. I miss him but am glad I had the opportunity to know him. So I say go for it, you might miss out on a great guy.
[Edited on 11/23/2005 1:05 PM]
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 1:55 PM |
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TiredofZGame
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I know it sounds cheesey and superficial, but I want a recent picture, no surprises at the last minute.
Tyra Banks did a special show on blind dates and she showed up as a really obese woman. The reaction from the guys was hysterical, but I know that I would want to know if a fella is posting his college graduation picture or something just a little more recent.
There's enough deception that goes on on these dating sites. Why go that far?
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 2:17 PM |
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swingpup
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DickyDo: When a man's gut sticks out further than his dick does.
Well definitelydi.......A suggestion would be to in fact discover if this is the case. If it is.....you might desire to purchase the John Holmes penis pump for that special someone for the perfect X-mas gift. Here is an excerpt from the ad.
While in the cylinder, the penis can gain as much as 2 inches. The increase in girth should be greater and longer lasting. When done carefully, using a pump is perfectly safe. It becomes unsafe when too much pressure is applied to the penis. This could result in temporary discoloration of the penis and blisters. Remember to go slow and take your time.
 
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 6:35 PM |
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corvette_racing
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Lots of funny comments in this thread
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 7:07 PM |
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13lucky
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TiredofZGame I'd send you a recent pic 
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 7:41 PM |
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ExacerbatedTaboo
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You know what...I don't think a dicky do would have anything to do with yall proceeding in a relationship if you both so choose to do so. If anything, you may turn out to be his reason to stop and pay more attention to his appearance in that area. I wouldn't just drop him like a hot potatoe just for that though.
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 7:42 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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IF his dicky don't then I won't I did without with the last one thanks to his drinking 
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| Nov 23, 2005 @ 8:01 PM |
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goodcatch57
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Wow..this is a scary thread to say anything in without sounding bad. Ah well..by now you all know I'm as shallow as a teaspoon anyway..
My concerns about dating somebody like that would be the concerns of health. Severely overweight people tend to run the risk of diabetes, heart disease, and a whole slue of other problems associated with that. If you plan on going the distance (not sexually) you better plan on being willing to take care of that person later in life.
Sexually..
A good friend of mine passed away last year. He was very over weight. He had struggled with it most of his life.
He died in his bed, with his wife. I'll give you 3 guesses what killed him...If you guess the Johnny Holmes pud pump you'll be close. I don't think I would want my obituary to say I died in bed in the middle of an orgasm...His poor wife, she is a real sweetheart too.
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