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Nov 9, 2006 @ 11:52 PM sex talk    
sensuality69


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Do men get intimidated by women who like to add sex toys to thier love making?
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 3:10 AM sex talk    
steveemac


Posts: 2,335
I think it depends on the toy...can't say I've had much experience with anything like this...my ex thought talking during sex was too kinky...
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 3:30 AM sex talk    
Recalcitrant78


Posts: 7
I wouldn't be intimidated but I would have to trust her. If I can trust her than whatever's clever works for me. I was with this one girl and we and that was then we and went to
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 5:00 AM sex talk    
smilingsailor


Posts: 164
Myself, not at all. I enjoy it-it can also give a much needed break, lol.
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 5:08 AM sex talk    
IceDog


Posts: 153
In my case no am not intimidated by women using sex toys. They can be a lot of fun and if it helps to add to her experience why should that intimidate.
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 8:32 AM sex talk    
unluckyinlofe


Posts: 61
No hassels here with her bringing toys to bed.
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 9:01 AM sex talk    
chinabull2000


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Do men get intimidated by women who like to add sex toys to thier love making?
Not at all, I enjoy it very much, variety is a wonderful thing when it comes to sex.
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 9:28 AM sex talk    
Always_Striving


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I don't think it's imtimidating, I see it as bewilderment because for a couple of reasons.
First, I don't use or need them to excite myself with her in bed nor do I know how to use them.
Secondly, I need to ask why the other person wants or needs to use them.
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 9:38 AM sex talk    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
Secondly, I need to ask why the other person wants or needs to use them.
variety, i have only one cock, and every woman I have known who has had a vibe in her ass while I get some jiggy jiggy on with her loves it!
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 10:01 AM sex talk    
unluckyinlofe


Posts: 61
China you have a way with words sir, you have a way with words. But as you said adds variety to the fun.
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 11:36 AM sex talk    
sensuality69


Posts: 31
Yes, China does have a way with words, and that's great. In my experience, some men get offended by my use of toys during sex. It's because they think that they're not getting the job done. Some think that they should be enough to fullfill me, and some have been, but a little vibration goes along way!!
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 11:55 AM sex talk    
smilingsailor


Posts: 164
Yes it does, lol. I'm not above having a lady use one on certain parts....of me
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 11:57 AM sex talk    
chinabull2000


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LOL thanks unlucky and sssensuality!

In my experience, some men get offended by my use of toys during sex. It's because they think that they're not getting the job done. Some think that they should be enough to fullfill me, and some have been, but a little vibration goes along way!!
Yeah, many men are offended and insulted by a partner that wants to use toys... but the way I see it is if a toy can enhance, increase, accentuate pleasure, then hell yes, use toys. I used to have many toys, and never once was I made to feel inadequate because of the use of any of them - toys can be many things: BD stuff, ties, scarves, blindfolds, dildos, vibes, oils, finger-vibes, paddles... anything really, and I always found that they add extra dimensions to sex. Of course I don't want to use them every time, but sometimes is always good!
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 8:18 PM sex talk    
observed50


Posts: 407
If the toy is the neighbor 'boy-toy', and he's bigger, and he's...well...BIGGER.... well..that can be intimidating.

Especially when he makes me sit beside the bed and watch him do her...yeah...that's intimidating..

Or if its the local college football team...that really intimidates me.

God I wish she would quit doing that!
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Nov 10, 2006 @ 10:07 PM sex talk    
loisday


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Nov 11, 2006 @ 1:05 PM sex talk    
beachnutRU


Posts: 3,228
jiggy jiggy


Good one China.......may I use that term or is it Brit exclusive???
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Nov 11, 2006 @ 1:46 PM sex talk    
MotownManiax


Posts: 9,737


"Yeah Baby!....Jiggy, Jiggy, Jiggy"
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Nov 11, 2006 @ 7:15 PM sex talk    
ToucherinSparks


Posts: 6,699
Depends on the toy, vibes and dildos are fine, but when she pulls out the rubber chicken, inflatable sheep, and spoon for the dog's ass, I'm outta there!
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Nov 12, 2006 @ 2:04 AM sex talk    
chinabull2000


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Good one China.......may I use that term or is it Brit exclusive???
LOL I'm the only person that I know that says jiggy jiggy, so hell yeah you can use it!
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Nov 12, 2006 @ 12:39 PM sex talk    
sensuality69


Posts: 31
Sparks and China, you're crazy!! I love it !!! Whips and chains
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