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| Nov 22, 2006 @ 6:24 PM |
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mikeoutthere
Posts: 347
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A sadistic creep getting off by abusing someone with a low self-esteem ? 
Or, just a game that two people play when their sex life gets boring ? 
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| Nov 22, 2006 @ 7:40 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 10,955
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Neither.
It's a lifestyle.
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| Nov 22, 2006 @ 8:00 PM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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Neither. It can be a lifestyle, or part of your sexlife, or roleplay, or anything you want it to be.
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| Dec 7, 2006 @ 6:15 PM |
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mikeoutthere
Posts: 347
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"Sticks and Stones Can Break My Bones, but Whips and Chains Won't Hurt Me "
German psychologist Richard von Krafft-Ebing coined these words acknowledging that both predilections could exist in one person, hence the word "sadomasochism." Modern day S/M tendencies are no longer looked upon as a sexual abnormality, and are often considered to be commonplace, to varying degrees. This can be anything from light spanking and tickling, to full-on bondage, fisting, whips and chains.
Bondage and Domination, or BD, is another part of S/M culture. This can include getting tied up and/or handcuffed, but also extends to the different roles that people take in sexual relationships, like being more dominant or more submissive. More intense BD/SM culture is about people exploring the erotic feelings associated with power, pain, desire and domination. This is where we come back to the cornerstones of "Safe, Sane and Consensual" or SSC.
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| Dec 7, 2006 @ 8:12 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
Posts: 6,699
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Whips and chains CAN hurt you if you don't know what you're doing. Mike, if you want to be topped, find a partner with experience, novice doms can be down right dangerous sometimes.
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| Jan 31, 2007 @ 9:44 PM |
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mikeoutthere
Posts: 347
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Neither.
It's a lifestyle.
…looks around, so many closets so little time. 
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| Jan 31, 2007 @ 11:59 PM |
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beckyiv42000
Posts: 14,576
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I KNEW i shouldnt have started with the "WHIPS " thing  
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| Feb 1, 2007 @ 12:10 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
Posts: 6,699
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…looks around, so many closets so little time
Why are you wanting to go in the closet dude? If you like being whipped just say so, we aren't here to judge your lifestyle.
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| Feb 1, 2007 @ 2:02 PM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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…looks around, so many closets so little time. Sparky already answered in the same vein as I will.. but I will just add that attitides like this make BDSM such a relatively unexplored part of people's sexlives, when in fact it can be a wonderfully exciting, fulfilling and healthy experience!
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 12:40 AM |
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drphilmccrackin
Posts: 183
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A sadistic creep getting off by abusing someone with a low self-esteem ?
Not that I have no experience in this area but My understanding of BD/SM is they want to be controlled not forced to commit sex acts against their will but are there willingly big difference..
abusing someone? that seems to be the common misunderstanding on this sexual sub culture One may want to realize that the one being domed wants to Be abused or how ever You want to call it.
Or, just a game that two people play when their sex life gets boring ?
It's not a game many take this very seriously it is not based on sex like many people think it is there is far more to it than being tied up whips and chains etc.
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 12:52 AM |
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lolitta957
Posts: 52
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You know your stuff.......It has almost nothing to do with sex. and as Lipgloss said its a lifestyle......
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 2:11 AM |
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drphilmccrackin
Posts: 183
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You know your stuff.......It has almost nothing to do with sex. and as Lipgloss said its a lifestyle......
I wouldn't go as far as to say I know My stuff what I have done is try to look beyond My own ego as to what some find as enjoyment or what turns them on.
The census seems to easy to label some one as a sexual deviant just because they have no understanding on the matter what two consenting adults do behind closed doors is their business and no one else's.
For many it is a way of life.
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 2:42 AM |
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MortisDruss
Posts: 1,123
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I just like tying women up......
*runs*
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 2:55 AM |
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drphilmccrackin
Posts: 183
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I just like tying women up......
Don't lie You look like a Duct tape user to Me.............................
funny stuff Mortis
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 2:58 AM |
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MortisDruss
Posts: 1,123
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Duct tape REALLY pisses them off.
I prefer using padded velcro.
Less hair loss.
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 3:36 AM |
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lolitta957
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Yeah thanks mortis.................... Im bald.
And we are in public forums......this is the place where you can find out what goes on behind closed doors.
Yes its a lifestyle.....and can carry on over to sexual preference
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 3:44 AM |
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drphilmccrackin
Posts: 183
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And we are in public forums......this is the place where you can find out what goes on behind closed doors.
I think I'd be scared as Hell to come across a Professional Dom no one would hear me screaming
I would assume a big part of it is letting go of Your inhibition of wanting to be controlled.
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 3:47 AM |
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lolitta957
Posts: 52
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I had a guy ask me if I would be interested in that kind of deal.....He is a doctor....and said that as soon as he got home he wanted to be dominated.....Its really quite interesting........but I just wasnt into it.
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 3:53 AM |
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drphilmccrackin
Posts: 183
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Its really quite interesting........but I just wasnt into it.
I think for some when it really comes down to it there is and has to be a great sense of trust in that other person.
It has to work for both or it wouldn't seem like an enjoyable experience the feeling of controlling and wanting to be controlled.
like I say I don't know that much....jmo.
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| Jun 6, 2007 @ 3:53 AM |
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MortisDruss
Posts: 1,123
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I'm more into sensual B&D.
The S&M really doesn't do it for me.
But if you ever want to be tied up on the bed, kissed, licked, and molesticated......
Lemme know
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