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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 4:15 PM |
Need an Explanation: Booty Calls!
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danae74
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Okay, gotta question: what's the protocol on this booty call thing? Do girls make them, too? Do men mind if you use them merely for sexual recreation, and then don't call them back for months? 
Seriously, I guess I'm a little out of touch...haven't been single in, well, forever...and I think that sex without drama sounds okay in some ways. But is there overriding guilt involved? Is it even worth it?
(Thanks to you gentlemen in advance, but I want information not a demonstration  )
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 4:31 PM |
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Porsha924s
Posts: 192
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Do girls make them?...yes and more often than you expect
Do men mind if you use them...? not at all, it takes about that long for us to be ready to do you again. Don't want to be too close to BTDT.
Overiding guilt....only if there is need for a bag.
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 4:34 PM |
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DipityDoo
Posts: 377
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Ha.
I've actually had two men in my life sayI just wanted them for sex. Not that they wanted anything serious...but apparently they didn't like thinkning they were only a sex object. I guess neither of them knew exactly what they wanted with me.
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 4:37 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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Yes, booty calls are alive and well. Yes, I make BC's as well as receive them.
Do men mind if you use them merely for sexual recreation, and then don't call them back for months? I am unable to speak for other males however I know I enjoy receiving Booty Calls from women I have "dated."
I feel that sex is one of the best recreational sports of all time....much better then baseball.
"Dating" is the code word...LOL Women can say I had a "date" last night as opposed to "I went over and simply got laid last night." 
Guilt involved? Not on this end. Do you feel guilt when you masturbate? I think few if any do. For busy consensual adults it's stress relief at it's finest.
Yes, IMO it's worth it if you truly enjoy pleasing thus receiving pleasure. An evening of hot tubing, relaxing in front of the fireplace and hours of sexsational adult enjoyment is the ultimate. No stings, No commitment, no bull..... only pleasures. 
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 4:51 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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Because of our society.....I call it the "red neck mentality" women have been conditioned as well as expected to regard their sexuality as "pure."
To be used as a sex object is only in the mind. Rather then thinking of it as being "used" as a "sex object" think of it as being a sexually mature woman that desires, needs and requires sexual pleasures.....Relax and enjoy, IMO women deserve it.
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 5:21 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Nothing is wrong with being a sex object if thats all you think of yourself as, and if so then that's all any man will think of you too and you'll be rode hard and hung up to dry and he's off to another one and won't ever give a woman like that a second thought again 
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 6:00 PM |
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marysplacegotowned
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Now which sex do you think makes the most booty calls, my vote is men, tho i think only in my experience would be men 60/40, whatcha think?
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 11:14 PM |
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corvette_racing
Posts: 323
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I've been a girls booty call before..
She called me up and went right to the point..
She: Wanna Fu*k?
Me: Sure (she was smoking hot)
She was actually married at that time but her husband was a heavy drinker and she was so pizzed at him... For her it was kinda revenge sex because he didn't wanna give up drinking for her.. It was good for me.. Their wedding didn't last too long anyways..
Well, after she divorced she moved on to another steady relationship and so the booty calls were over :-(
I wasn't really interested in a relationship with her because she'd probably sleep around with another guy if she would've been pizzed at me.. Don't really want that kind of relationship that I'd always have to be worried about her sleeping around when she's pizzed at me. Well, inbetween she got married again.. and after 6 months of marriage, the marriage broke.. and they are now divorcing.. That wasn't a surprise..
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 11:48 PM |
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MelMel
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Booty calls.. commonly known as "chew toys".. you use them for what are actually for and send their asses back home.. no overnight stays.. no b'fast in bed... no "was it good for you?" concerns.. hell, you are doing it for your own pleasure.. 
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 11:50 PM |
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eViL_InSiDe
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From my experience I would say women make them more often then men. Generally the women are the ones that make the calls for someone to come over or "see what the other person is up to". I had a relationship with a girl for a good little while. Everytime she was between guys or even if the guy she was with for a long time made her upset. I rather enjoyed it because I didn't want anything serious with her. The only time I ever turned her down was when she called me out of the blue she hadn't talked to me or seen me in almost 2 years. She had finally broken up with the guy she stopped calling me for.
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 10:10 AM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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If you feel guilty, just pull the Scarlett O'Hara deal. ;)
Scarlett: ........after all, tomorrow is another day!!
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 10:50 AM |
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LEXI_IS_STILL_TROUBLE
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i do it and i Never feel guilty. if they dont like being a "sex object" they dont have to come over. jmo
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 12:14 PM |
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danae74
Posts: 601
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...and first, I'd like to thank everyone here for helping me along the road to normal sexual behavior for a healthy thirty-something!
...and second, my new opinion on booty calls:
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 12:24 PM |
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13lucky
Posts: 304
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Whats a booty call ?? I love booties!! How do I call them ?
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 1:23 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
Posts: 1,737
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1-800-GOT-BOOTY Ext 69
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 1:21 AM |
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greenizenora
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Booty calls? Yep, ladies make them as much as men. I had a summer fling with a 20 something that was just great. I used him for his stamina, he used me for my experience. We were mutually using each other for our own pleasure, and there was no guilt.
Danae, glad you made that call!
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 2:20 AM |
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Rock_Guy26
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yep, gotta love booty calls, I haven't gotten many due to work reasons...f***in holidays but when I do I'm apt to take them. As for the guilt?...I don't have any, I get what I want and the woman gets what she wants.
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 11:58 AM |
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sirdidymus
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i'm wondering if it's just me that thinks that there is something inherently dangerous about going to a (with all due respect) bunch of strangers on the internet, for sex advice? no one knows who anyone else really is for the most part, and even for the people that are real (which is probably the vast majority) - i can't imagine anyone is closely enough attached to the person to give any sort of sound, reasonable advice when it comes to sex, based on the specific individual. I think talking about it is all well and good - but to actually ask people for advice - maybe i'm crazy at being open-jawed shocked about this?
Actually, i don't think there's so much wrong with asking for advice - but moreso it's the openly sharing of one's sexual escapades in an open public forum amongst strangers. when i say "share sexual escapades" i don't mean sharing a "once upon a time" story, i mean actually saying "i'm going to go out and do this" and then to do it, and then, report on it. I mean this with all due respect, but my gosh, if i was interested in someone and saw such a post - i would immediately lose interest in that person - not because of said "booty call" - that's neither here nor there, but because of the desire to share it, i'd be afraid if what if i was the next "fact" that person decided to share.
Again, i mean this with all due respect, but i wonder how many ladies or gentleman would continue (when being honest with oneselves) to want to date someone after reading a public declaration of having got well ... ... ...
I know this is a very touchy subject - so i've tried to word my post judiciuosly so as not to come across as accusatory or offensive in any manner - i think/hope my many other posts can speak for my intentions in my words.
i'm just truly in awe and saddened that anyone would choose to do that.
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 12:16 PM |
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13lucky
Posts: 304
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Ok seriously...What is a booty call ?
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 12:21 PM |
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MotownManiax
Posts: 9,737
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Danae, the typical Booty Call is non-denominational, non-racial, non-gender specific, and could be any adult age.
All that's required is two people extremely horny and available.
Hope this is the definitive explanation. 
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