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| Apr 1, 2007 @ 7:05 PM |
Men and former lovers
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candylily
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Why do men think about former lovers? More specifically, why do they want to reminisce about the sex with her?
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| Apr 1, 2007 @ 7:57 PM |
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poniepower
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Thank goodness I've never had that problem....or he'd probably see stars from the frying pan laid against his head...  jk
But really, I've never had one bring up an x.
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 12:29 AM |
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candylily
Posts: 1,347
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I didn't mean guys talking to a current girlfriend or wife about their past love affairs, I meant wanting to talk to women in their past about how great the sex was.
How long do men continue to think about women they've been with? Or is it just that they think about sex so much that it doesn't matter whether it was past, present, or someone they just want to be with?
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 4:38 AM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,104
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I know for me women that were out standing lovers shall never be forgotten. Those women were not only wonderful lovers, most if not all had other magnificent attributes as well. Then there are those that I wish I could totally forget.
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 8:06 AM |
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willsmalto
Posts: 3,645
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what he said
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 1:25 PM |
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LibidinistLady
Posts: 814
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Sometimes I think all of us only remember the memorial sex and forget about the bad sex unless it was really really bad.
Guys seem to want to know about who you've had sex with and how good was it. Duh... like I'm going to tell
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 3:06 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
Posts: 6,699
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Sometimes I think all of us only remember the memorial sex
Anytime I have sex dedicated to someone's memory, I want to remember it.
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 3:57 PM |
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theobono
Posts: 2,111
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If the sex you're having now is satisfying there is no need to think about past experiences. However, these images can be locked into the masturbation memory files and used at a later date 
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 4:53 PM |
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candylily
Posts: 1,347
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Masturbation memory files?
So when they say they still think about "fill-in-the-blank" that means it's in those files?   
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 5:07 PM |
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candylily
Posts: 1,347
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Toucherin.. Anytime I have sex dedicated to someone's memory, I want to remember it. Took me a minute..... kind of macabre, but different strokes ....
LLady, I'm not stupid enough to tell a new guy about past lovers either. You never hear the end of it if things get serious later.
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 11:33 PM |
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cent
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Seldom is sex the reason we break up with someone. It is either the sudden lack of it or the crazy antics that are now long forgotten. We often still do love former lovers that we can't live with and wish to go back to the good times we remember and don't think of the bad times we could not deal with.
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 11:45 PM |
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blueyes101
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Maybe this is a guy thing, or maybe it is just me. I find the thoughts of sex revolve around my last relationship. Since she was the last woman I shared myself with, my thoughts always return to her. And I also agree, the sex was not the reason the relationship ended. I secretly wish I could just "get laid" a couple of days afterwards, not that I like uncommitted sex, but it would help the hurt........... to know someone wants you, and leaves something in the empty place you have in your heart. But, what usually happens is you simply feel twice as empty afterwards. 
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| Apr 3, 2007 @ 8:13 PM |
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lynnielou
Posts: 2,774
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Don't you think that it only makes the hurt worse? From my perspective (and it's only my opinion), it doesn't take the heartache away. If anything, that empty feeling just lingers even longer and twice as hard!
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| Apr 3, 2007 @ 10:37 PM |
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username57
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heh heh...she said hard..what blue said... 
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| Apr 4, 2007 @ 7:22 PM |
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Loreli
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Don't you think that it only makes the hurt worse? From my perspective (and it's only my opinion), it doesn't take the heartache away. If anything, that empty feeling just lingers even longer 
Very good
(i left the hard part out on purpose)
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| Apr 4, 2007 @ 11:55 PM |
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your_princess
Posts: 3,429
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If the sex you're having now is satisfying there is no need to think about past experiences. However, these images can be locked into the masturbation memory files and used at a later date
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| Apr 8, 2007 @ 3:53 PM |
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theobono
Posts: 2,111
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  What I say? Didn't think it was that funny. I generally have fond memories of my ex's..... Should I open another thread about what goes through our minds when we masturbate OR would that just open the pandoras box?
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| Apr 8, 2007 @ 10:47 PM |
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JayBird747
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Well, I gotter take a stand fer the menfolk this time. (I mostly side with the ladies)
Willie Nelson said it best in that sone "To all them girls I've loved before"
I think back over my life, and I remember ever lady that ever favored me with their intamacies, er even their company, there is a fondness there.
Even if the relationship ended sour (which is how they genrally do) I am still grateful fer havin had the opportunity. If you struck out, well at least they gave you a turn at bat.
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| Apr 9, 2007 @ 4:59 PM |
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candylily
Posts: 1,347
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Should I open another thread about what goes through our minds when we masturbate It might be interesting. On the other hand, it's possible we wouldn't really want to know.
To be honest, I'm fascinated by the way men think because it's so different from the way I think. I used to ask my husband why he sometimes wanted sex all of a sudden when as far as I knew there was no reason for the sudden desire but he would never tell me. I never refused to have sex with him so we did it anyway without me having a clue as to what he had been thinking........ I thought it would have been nice or at least interesting to know why he was horny all of a sudden. I could be wrong though. Who knows? Maybe I would have just gotten mad or disgusted. Maybe he was thinking about a former lover. 
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| Apr 13, 2007 @ 12:08 AM |
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Say_Yes
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Don't you think that it only makes the hurt worse? From my perspective (and it's only my opinion), it doesn't take the heartache away. If anything, that empty feeling just lingers even longer and twice as hard!
Not at all. One of the few old sayings that I do buy into is, it is better to have loved and lost....
Remembering passions past, with amazing women is one of the joys of life. I have had the good fortune to have known true love and I never want to forget her. It is my sincere hope that I will someday (hopefully soon) find another, true incredible love. Even if do though, my love remembered will not be lessened by a love that is present. You see, it is not about loss and heartache, but about joy.
Let me put it to you a different way. My father was a great man. He taught me a great deal about life, the manner in which people should be treated and that which is and should be most important in life. He died 14 years ago. I cherish his memory. My memory of him is a joyous thing. I treasure my memory of him and never wish to forget him. By the same token, I never wish to forget my lost love. I treasure her memory as well.
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