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| Jul 14, 2007 @ 11:21 PM |
Everybody is a little gay
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LoveChubsLarry
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People are so quick to label themselves. I'm gay. I'm not gay.
OK, you are a confirmed hetro-sexual (definitely not gay!!!) Ever get a massage from a male? I rpomise you, gay, hetro, or whatever, you get a good massage, it is going to feel great, no matter what the gender. I would rather get a great massage from a female then a poor one from some hot dude.
Who deosn't enjoy a good conversation. A quiet romantic dinner (yeah-but I am not gay!!!) Gay-schmay. Just enjoy the moment and don't wory so much if there is a chink in the abolute hetro armor.
How many guys out there buy muscle man magazines? Come on! It's NOT just about learning to lift weights. For pete's sake. It's a hunk of iron. Sure there is some learning involved, but how many ways do you think there is to pick the silly thing up? They buy the magazines because of the pictures!!! End of story (of course that doesn't meant they are gay) Everyone likes to look at well toned body of either gender. Why is that so hard for some guys to admit?
I'll tell you one more thing. The genitalia doesn't lie. What I mean is, regardless of your orientation, the same rubbing will make it stand up and take notice. I speak the truth!!!!
Before you come back with the standard "I'm not gay" rhetoric, give it some honest thought. I speak the truth.
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| Jul 14, 2007 @ 11:27 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,413
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i've thought about it.
If there isn't a man involved, fuggedaboudit
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| Jul 14, 2007 @ 11:29 PM |
Everybody is a little gay
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BandTMom
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 Lori!!
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| Jul 14, 2007 @ 11:30 PM |
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Ripperdoc
Posts: 1,889
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Larry, dude... it's ok. We get it. You're gay.
It's ok, man. We don't judge, bro.
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| Jul 14, 2007 @ 11:31 PM |
Everybody is a little gay
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DJ1024
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i don't think noticing a nice body of the same sex means you're gay.
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| Jul 14, 2007 @ 11:57 PM |
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Microchip
Posts: 481
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What I mean is, regardless of your orientation, the same rubbing will make it stand up and take notice. I speak the truth!!!! No, you're dead wrong. The idea of a MAN rubbing my genitalia turns me off to no end. There is NO WAY that MY stuff would respond to that, except for maybe a punch in the mouth.
So, NO! Everyone, as you say, is NOT a little gay. If YOU want to be gay, fine. But don't be pushing it off on anyone else. Dude.
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 12:03 AM |
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Ripperdoc
Posts: 1,889
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I'm going to go with Micro on this. We don't roll like dat.
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 12:19 AM |
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DiamondRain
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@OP
Can't relate to your post at all. Perhaps you are posting this HOPING that other guys can relate because you experienced these feelings, feel guilty about them and are praying that other men have had the same feelings so you won't feel so gay?
Or perhaps you are just hoping that most men have a hidden gay fantasy?
I've never had a massage from a man, and definitely would not enjoy it. Never bought a muscle magazine or magazine that focused on men's photos in it or had any desire to. And the thought of a man's genitalia anywhere near mine is nauseating to me.
I suppose that makes me homophobic in your world?
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 12:37 AM |
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Snappygoddess
Posts: 5,101
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I feel pretty
Oh so pretty
I feel pretty and witty and gggaaayyyyyyy 
Sorry... its way past my bedtime and I am feeling silly and gay
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 12:50 AM |
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BandTMom
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 12:51 AM |
Everybody is a little gay
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BandTMom
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 12:51 AM |
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Loreli
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Snappy
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 1:08 AM |
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TheMotherShip
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sounds to me like some one is battling with their sexual orientation.
lmao!!!!!!
make up your mind Larry you can't have your cake and eat it too.
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 1:19 AM |
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Nightowl001
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Hate to tell you this guys, but if you were blindfolded and some woman was whispering in your ear and some guy was tuggin' yer tallywhacker, it'd get hard. The point is that the BODY itself is not trained to respond to our notions of sexuality or gender. If it feels good, it feels good. Any of you guys that woke up with a warm pair of lips around something important to you would be hard in an instant. You'd be checking for short hair later.
Ladies... same for you. If you were blindfolded and Sam Elliott was whispering in your ear, but it was some lady with her fingers stimulating you.. you'd be stimulated.
That being said, you may find, because of beliefs or conditioning, that sex with the same gender without the blindfold would be a turnoff, and that would be because you weren't able to let go of preconcieved notions and preferences. But the body itself is simply sexual. Not heterosexual, not homosexual, not bisexual, not transsexual. Just sexual.
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 5:32 AM |
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Microchip
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That being said, you may find, because of beliefs or conditioning, that sex with the same gender without the blindfold would be a turnoff, and that would be because you weren't able to let go of preconcieved notions and preferences. But the body itself is simply sexual. Not heterosexual, not homosexual, not bisexual, not transsexual. Just sexual.
And your point is...?
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 6:20 AM |
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twotall911
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Hello houstin
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 7:27 AM |
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scarletsara
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Does this guy look like Tom Cruise or what 
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 7:42 AM |
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LoveChubsLarry
Posts: 51
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No, you're dead wrong. The idea of a MAN rubbing my genitalia turns me off to no end. There is NO WAY that MY stuff would respond to that, except for maybe a punch in the mouth. Wowweee!!! Listen to that. I am not saying you are gay. For pete's sake, I don't care either way. (someone call central gay recruiting and tell them I let a beauty slip away) Dang it, everyone wants to hop into a bin of "I'm gay" or "I'm not gay" Why don't we pass out nametags. People are too uptight over this subject.
Hate to tell you this guys, but if you were blindfolded and some woman was whispering in your ear and some guy was tuggin' yer tallywhacker, it'd get hard. The point is that the BODY itself is not trained to respond to our notions of sexuality or gender. If it feels good, it feels good.
Aboslutely right.
If ANYONE just layed there and allowed them to get rubbed, the body would respond. It doesn't mean your gay. Doesn't mean your not gay.
Thank-you NightOwl for having the courage to speak the truth.
What's funny is, the people who are the most uptight about this subject are the ones who make them appear less secure about their orientation.
I see a person like night owl and I think "OK, he is comfortably hetro, and the idea of a homo does not intimidate him, because he is secure"
I see someone freaking out and threatening violence with a "punch in the mouth" and I think, "why are they so desperate to establish that they are 100% hetro? Is there something going on in there that they are desperately trying to suppress?"
Can't relate to your post at all. Perhaps you are posting this HOPING that other guys can relate because you experienced these feelings, feel guilty about them and are praying that other men have had the same feelings so you won't feel so gay? I know who I am. I am not ashamed. Try as we might, we don't get to pick. We can either be who we are, or force ourselves into something different. A gay person can live a straight lifestyle. A straight person could live a gay lifestyle.
The root question is, what defines who we are. Is it our actions, or what we feel inside?
The same "no one is 100%" rule applies to me. I am mostly gay. By the same token, though, everyone is a little hetro. I enjoy the company of a lady, and I will take a rubdown any day.
The point is, being open and honest with yourself. Letting yourself be who you are and not who you want to be.
I don't doubt that most folks are mostly hetro, I know they are. That is not the point.
The point is, even if you love vanilla ice cream and want that flavor 99% of the time, one day, you may go to Baskins and have a taste for Tutti Futti instead. Ask yourself, how will you react? Will you say "hell no!!!! I am a vanilla man!!! I hate tutti frutti!!!" or we more honest with ourselves and say "for some reason, tutti frutti peaks my interest. I think I will try a sample"
That is what defines how secure we are.
[Edited on 7/15/2007 7:52 AM]
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 8:32 AM |
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definitelydi
Posts: 12,602
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I think Nightowl pegged it.
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| Jul 15, 2007 @ 8:36 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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I ALWAYS like Ben & Jerry's "Oatmeal Chunk".............just sayin....  
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