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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:47 AM Is the sex worth it?    
lynnielou


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So you're with a guy that really knows how to hit the spot. However, the relationship is done. He is the "ONE" that can only bring you to orgasm. What do you do?
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:49 AM Is the sex worth it?    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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you are f***ed!!!





re evaluate the relationship and see where things went wrong. it they can be fixed...fix em. if not..... (please see original entry)
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:51 AM Is the sex worth it?    
markawelch


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Take notes on why that guy can give you an orgasm and then educate the next guy.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:54 AM Is the sex worth it?    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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educate the next guy... WTF?!?!?!?


SOME things are just natural, leaving a woman with a certain type of knowing feeling that can't be duplicated by another guy .....


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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:57 AM Is the sex worth it?    
lynnielou


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But the move you can't even describe. You can't even teach it to someone else; you can't even learn it to satisfy yourself. Let's say you are in a new relationship....that part is missing, but still semi-available. Would you still continue it for that reason?
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:58 AM Is the sex worth it?    
lynnielou


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can't be duplicated by another guy

exactly!
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 3:08 AM Is the sex worth it?    
blueyes101


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Your not with the right guy Lynn..... If a guy really cares he will find that spot for you, or die trying...... Sex is great, but the bond is what makes the relationship better.. And the sex....... Wanting and needing to please you, is a mindset. Find a man who can give you what you want and need...... and someone you can grow old with....

You need Mr right, not Mr right now....... Don't sell yourself short, you are worth the wait.....
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 3:12 AM Is the sex worth it?    
markawelch


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You'd be surprised at what you can learn.

As to "semi-available", while seeing someone else.
No. You'd be nothing but a cheater.

In my opinion, cheaters don't deserve orgasms.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 7:14 AM Is the sex worth it?    
burnslikethesun


Posts: 9,609
if ya cant figure out the answer to this question, then perhaps ya shouldnt be dating reguardless.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 7:57 AM Is the sex worth it?    
Angel178


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Lynn.....we have talked about this.....
There is more to the story than you are sharing.....
To answer the question, more details are needed...

I won't tell the story, just remember what I have been telling you for over 2 years....It is not the physical that you want with him....it is the past....you need to see him for what he was, and still is....

You know that I know him and the situation....if you look at it, arn't you really doing this because the revenge feels good? Don't they both really really deserve it? Yes, they do.....plus the option I gave you yesterday about the front lawn

But, remember, in the process of making yourself "feel better" you are really hurting yourself cause you never get the closure that you are owed.

Take a look around you on MD....there are many very sweet honest men on here that like you for who you are....put the past behind you and seek what you deserve....happiness....

You know I luv ya!!!!
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 9:21 AM Is the sex worth it?    
candylily


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There's no denying that some men are better in bed than others. Still it's how a person treats you that really matters in the long run so even if the sex is great, sometimes you have to walk away.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 9:37 AM Is the sex worth it?    
burnslikethesun


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if he like ya cares for ya, really into ya. He will find a way to make you pop. Other then that, aint it just f***ing arround anyways?
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 11:08 AM Is the sex worth it?    
Luisa909


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What do you do?
As it is sooooooooooooo hard to find one man who hits the spot ....... ......
Can I try to keep him for sex only ???
This is just an idea
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 11:39 AM Is the sex worth it?    
Loreli


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There can always be another "ONE" that finds a way to please in bed.
you can't find just anyone that you have loving bond, emotional connection and friendship with.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 12:57 PM Is the sex worth it?    
signme


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You can get many opinions on here but the ultimate decision is yours. Do what is right for you.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 1:04 PM Is the sex worth it?    
Heaveninawildflower


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Do what is right for you.

And be careful about being honest with yourself...are you honest and truly giving the new guy all your attention, or is it in the back of your mind that you're cheating or getting even, or in some way still holding part of you back because of this one guy? Orgasm isn't just about hitting the right spot yanno..

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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:08 PM Is the sex worth it?    
dooney123


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That sounds like a psychological problem, not a physical one; you should see a psychologist.
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:09 PM Is the sex worth it?    
Angel178


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Dooney....she has me....I try to talk to her as much as we can!!
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:22 PM Is the sex worth it?    
blueyes101


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Can I help too ??? Jus askin
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Nov 18, 2007 @ 2:23 PM Is the sex worth it?    
Angel178


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I think you could be just what she is looking for Blue
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