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Dec 18, 2005 @ 8:43 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
waiting41


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Hi everyone.........now I will admit to finding many of the sex threads and topics and jokes quite hysterical around here, and, perhaps SOME of the flirting that goes on within reason. Some of it, of course, goes way overboard, but, I'm sure many of us feel that way, and just don't have to read about it, and to each his own.

As much as I can laugh as other people, and, find humor in some of this, I still believe that sex should be a very private matter reserved for two people and what happens in the bedroom should remain there. It also makes me sad to see some women using thier sexuality to such an extreme that it makes me wonder what else they feel they have to offer.

Does anyone feel sex should remain a private issue anymore?
Does anyone feel the sexual flirting goes overboard or is it just fun and harmless?


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Dec 18, 2005 @ 8:47 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
ExacerbatedTaboo


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I believe that if you care to share your sexual excursions with people and the participating reader care to continue to read with no precaution to content then I don't see anything wrong with it at all. I am very open about all my escapades and if someone is interested to know how I conducted myself sexually then knock yourself out.
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 8:48 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
spongebob777


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Go check out the blog that's the second from the top on the womens side. That's going too far in my opinion.

But what do I know? I'm a eunuch.
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 8:52 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
lecriveuse


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ur absolutely right, waiting. we dont openly discuss everything of our lives because it isn't necessary; its distateful and some things r not meant 2 b shared with the world period; sex is one of them. its nothing to be ashamed of, and its not anything the rest of the world needs to know. as my friend used to say, ppl who r truly getting busy don't feel the need to brag about it.

there r always things that r better left 2 the imagination, n intimacy is one of those things.
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 8:53 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
MotownManiax


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Waiting, I'm with ya on the explicit sex talk. I'm sure some on here have a very exuberant and wild sex life. I'm happy and more than a little jealous, but do I really need to know the specifics of your latest hot conquest or how much your one night stand is "into" you. Ahhh, no. To me it's just an ego trip and rubbing salt into the psyche of the ones that are single and alone (we're so sensitive ~ sniffles...lol).

But I also see the need for people to ask for honest advice adn seek insight about their partners sexual behavior, and of course to joke around. I mean, geez, if we did away with the Sex Forum what the heck will single dad DO????



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Dec 18, 2005 @ 8:53 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
ExacerbatedTaboo


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I think the animal thing should not be a topic for discussion but that would conflict with what I just said in a previous post. Yes, I think that is going to far but I read it so I'm at fault for my devilish curiosity
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 8:57 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
ExacerbatedTaboo


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Hey Mo...I agree with the Jealousy thing you were talking about but I think the sex thread should stay cause that's what it's there for. I view it as the same thing as reading penthouse forums or something to that nature except you kinda get to know the people on these threads a little better then you do the character portrayed in the penthouse forums. Which leads me to my next question Can you get to know someone so well that you become more like a brother and sister to them and is that what most of us has done on here?
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:01 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
spongebob777


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The sex forum is where we're allowed the most free range chatter. Are any of those threads ever locked?
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:03 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
lecriveuse


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i wouldn't know, spongebob, cos i dont want 2 c it. i hope it stays there.
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:03 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
JenRNinOhio


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How do I find the blogs?


Oh dang!!! Strayed off topic.

Hmmm

Yeah, I agree with privacy & I agree with sex
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:05 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
ExacerbatedTaboo


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Yes spongebob. Some of the thread in the sex topic has been locked down...Do yall remember the "anal lickers" thread? It was locked and quite a few others. None has been locked recently though.
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:05 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
lecriveuse


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Oh dang!!! Strayed off topic.

Hmmm

Yeah, I agree with privacy & I agree with sex


tell ur kids 2 leave u alone 4 a minute so u can play catch up.
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:07 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
spongebob777


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i wouldn't know, spongebob, cos i dont want 2 c it.


You're a woman who knows what you want to see and what you don't want to see. OTOH I think it was you who got me to telling about how I knocked up Mr Crabs daughter.
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:11 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
lecriveuse


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u spilled ur guts about her, spongebob. shoulda just stuck with working for ol' boy. now, ur a part of the family n ya gotta work 4 free make me find the thread n show ur dirty laundry.

that's pitiful when the mods gotta lock up the sex thread. tsk tsk.
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:12 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
MotownManiax


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ET, think of the stories we could put in the Sex Forums just from your "If You Woke Up Next To The Person Above You" thread? There's been some F-R-E-A-K-Y things happening in that bed.

Woo Hoo!!!...lol



[Edited on 12/18/2005 9:13 PM]
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:28 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
AngelLight


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I feel comfortable with some flirting but some times what I read does make me a little uncomfortable, and than I just choose not to read anything more when things seem to be getting a little too "involved"....

And on certain sex threads, if the question or topic feels way too personal for me to feel comfortable commenting on I just won't comment.....

But on basic, general, or more universal sex themes I'm ok with that....it can be both fun and funny .

I'm ok with themes that simply don't cross my personal boundaries relative to what I'm willing to share or comment on. I guess each one of us has to decide where our boundaries start and/or end. I'm pretty clear about my own.

[Edited on 12/18/2005 9:31 PM]

[Edited on 12/18/2005 9:33 PM]
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:38 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
Angel54214


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I don't think Angels are aloud in there

I just wanna use the sauna..
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:44 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
spongebob777


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I don't think Angels are aloud in there


You're here now. Abandon all hope
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:47 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
Ladyhawk920


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I agree with Waiting............while visiting the sex forum, I was pretty shocked to read some things what people were posting but to each his own. I may have an opinion on some issues but opt to remain private about certain things. When it gets too explicit....I wonder what people are trying to prove and who they are trying to impress.....for me, I wouldn't be impressed at all but that's just me.
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Dec 18, 2005 @ 9:49 PM SEX AS A PRIVATE MATTER!!    
MischeviousAngel


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This particular is the Older sister...

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