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Nov 7, 2005 @ 9:50 AM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
dacota


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Nov 7, 2005 @ 10:27 AM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
definitelydi


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Not all of them, but probably more than we think!
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 11:04 AM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
summersquall


Posts: 518
Some men maybe, certainly not all men.

Compliment the people that work for you sincerely and often and they will become better employees.

Carry that philosophy over outside the workplace and you'll find that by sincerely complimenting people (men and women, not only will you make them feel good about receiving a compliment, it actually feels pretty good to put that smile on their face by giving them one in the first place.
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 11:40 AM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
soulless_spirit


Posts: 444
Well lets see ... give it a 75 % that do and 25 % that would but dont know how ... no am kidding but 8 out of tenn guys you meet will try to sucker ya in ... i just offend then and ask them how stupid they thing i am ... or being really frank and grab him between the legs and say well have to check what you got to offer ... hahahaha gets them everytime


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Nov 7, 2005 @ 11:44 AM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
summersquall


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8 out of ten will try and sucker ya in?

So would it be fair to say that 8 out of 10 women are only interested in a man's money?

I think not on both counts...

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Nov 7, 2005 @ 11:50 AM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
soulless_spirit


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oh come on now what is it that every statement is taken so down to the point by you ... but let it be known ... that my experience is 8 out of ten guys i talk to in a club will try to compliment you buy you drinks in hopes to get the hiny in the bed ...

soulless
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 12:18 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
summersquall


Posts: 518
A Club? You mean a place where men and women go to drink, dress attractive and dance in a seductive manner and you're surprised that men want to take it to the next level in that environment?

I simply don't think it's fair to generalize 80% of the male population as individuals that will say anything to get a woman in bed, anymore than I think it's fair to say that 80% of the women use sex to get into a man's wallet.

Sure you will get some on both sides that have those practices but surely there is nothing substantial to support such statements in either case.
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 12:20 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
kattsmeow


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Well of course. Of course a foot rub helps too.
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 12:25 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
warrior674


Posts: 6,580
it depends on the man, how attracted he is to her, or his/her availability.
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 12:25 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
relyt517


Posts: 33
Those are the guys that give the rest of us a bad name.
They are also missing out -
If there is a deeper conection than just physical - it makes sex all that much better
What better compliment to pay a women than to respect her
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 1:00 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
soulless_spirit


Posts: 444
wanna know my perfect date ..first date ...
a concerts wher i get my own way in ... after that mac donalds okay i let him pay the 50 cent burger and then just hang out ...

looks dont care
money dont care
fun i care

soulless
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 2:40 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
johnw_6


Posts: 194
In one word - Yes!

lol, come on does any guy on here really think that works?

it's simple for me, if I think your hot I say so. I dont expect to get you nikked - i say whats no my mind at that time - don't read to much into it.



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Nov 7, 2005 @ 4:27 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
exiled131


Posts: 1,808
I complement people all the time on here and have no inclination of ever meeting them much less sleep with them. Some of us are sincere when we do it, but not all.
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 5:18 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
freestylegreek


Posts: 220
I dont give out compliments to get a girl in bed. Im honest and i tell the truth. If i think a girl is hot and has wicked curves and her body is smokin im saying that cause its the truth and its what i feel.

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Nov 7, 2005 @ 5:34 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
MrBSteele


Posts: 38
I think a LOT of men do. But it is important to know that not ALL men do. I have had opportunities to "get some" yet I bypassed on them because just like a minority of guys, we have morals.

One more thing to remember...just because guys will not compliment for the sole purpose of sex, does not mean that in some cases if it is an option, that they would not accept the proverbial offering. However, in a standard situation, they might not initiate it. Odd? Yes. But it does happen.
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Nov 7, 2005 @ 5:40 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
Xavier0777


Posts: 186
Dacota - I think you and souless totally rock and have no intentions of ever bedding you. Though any random mall shopping and mad cheese cake eating and hardcore concerts would be a plus.

There are alot of dawgs out ther amongst us, though there are real guys too. I mean just read some of the profile on Match there are "real" men here for sure.
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Nov 8, 2005 @ 6:42 AM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
Bluelady1


Posts: 11
Because they just want to get lay. And use women
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Nov 8, 2005 @ 3:27 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
freestylegreek


Posts: 220
Not for me I never really get comments about my looks other then im ugly which happens alot. But I love giving comments to what a girl or woman looks like and its not cause i want them in bed its cause they deserve to hear how a guy likes the way they look.
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Nov 8, 2005 @ 5:35 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
treefity


Posts: 18
My best line is, "Dang, it must be so incredible to be you to be able to look at how good looking I am."

I borrowed that one from Johnny Bravo. It's so incredibly egotistical that women can't help but laugh at it. I actually haven't tried it with a complete stranger...yet.

wish me luck.
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Nov 8, 2005 @ 7:19 PM do men just pay you compliments to get you into bed    
eyeneed


Posts: 15

I just ask. I figure nothing you say is going to change a woman being picky about a man's looks or wallet.

if you have looks and spend money, your going to get laid.

women can deny it until hell freezes over, but it is the truth.
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