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| Dec 28, 2007 @ 10:51 AM |
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germanbier21065
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Hello all,
New to the forum, and what a way to aquiant myself to you all! 
I will begin by saying I am a healthy, 42 y/o married for 13 years, monogomous/faithful, healthy sex life, no problems, not a freak or deviant or anything like that. Just a regular guy. However I am curious.
I guess I have a "fetish", if that's what you call it LOL ! Anyway, I absolutely love being watched while masturbating. I only do it when my wife is having her period or not in the mood, etc. Going back to when I was a teen, I always used to ask my g/f's to watch me. Most just watched, a few thought is was "gross".
As a matter of fact, my wife told me once she dated a guy a few times, and after a date, they went back to his place, the guy just matter of factly asked if he could jerk off, and pulled down his pants and did exactly that. She told me she was speechless, but none the less watched. I always fantasized about doing that but I would not have the nerve.
So I have a few questions for the ladies to gain their perspecitves:
(1) Has something like this ever happened to any of you, and if so , how did you handle it?
(2) Have most of you watched a man masturbate ( I mean sit down and watch, not just walk in the room and catch him)
(3) What do you think about it? Are you open minded?
(4) Do you find it something that draws you near your man that he would share something so personal, or put off and offended?
(5) Why do I like this so much ? Do you find this normal or deviant? Do most men jerk off in front of you, of prefer to be private?
I can't begin to tell you how much it turns me on and the kind of orgasms I have.
I would like to hear your comments if I could! Thanks! Your feedback means alot!
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| Dec 28, 2007 @ 12:50 PM |
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candylily
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When I first moved to a new town and wasn't sure where the hiking trails were, a guy I had been talking online to said he knew a good trail that would be a good one to start out on and wanted to know if I wanted to go for a hike. I said yes but after we had hiked a little ways, he said that he was very excited by me and he unzipped right there and took care of himself.  I was very shocked to say the least, but not particularly excited. I didn't hike with him anymore (or talk to him online again either) 
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| Dec 28, 2007 @ 2:07 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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 ...maybe you will get the "exposure" you are looking for ~ here ~
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| Dec 28, 2007 @ 2:26 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Whatever two people do together (that is consented to) is all good.
It doesn't make you wierd or deviant. But I do think that how your partner feels about it is allot more important than what we think about it.
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| Dec 28, 2007 @ 3:14 PM |
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KAOS2007
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ummmmmmm............. 
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| Dec 28, 2007 @ 3:26 PM |
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Loreli
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If a guy I just met whipped it out and did that, I wouldn't even wait til he was done. I'd say buh-bye first wank.
Rude and creepy.
It would be different discussing it as mutual feelings rather than just ASSUMING it's ok.
JUST MHO.
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 8:03 AM |
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germanbier21065
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"Whatever two people do together (that is consented to) is all good.
It doesn't make you wierd or deviant. But I do think that how your partner feels about it is allot more important than what we think about it. "
Intersting Claire! My wife likes it, but not nearly as much as I like to.
I think she "puts up with it", but I have a very strong sex drive and she does not.
Alot of times she does not even want to do anything, make love, perform etc and does not even want to watch. So I have to respect her. *BUT*
I won't ever cheat on her as she is a good woman, but because I love this so much, I find myself fantasizing about it more and more, and just for the thrill of it, I find myself wanting to do it in front of a stranger. No sex, just have her watch me.
I guess that's where I am getting at. How do I deal with that?
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 8:46 AM |
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ColdinWisconsin
Posts: 9,987
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Miss Clitora thinks you should only unpack your luggage at home.
Oops, wrong thread.
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 8:54 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Who's Claire?
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 8:58 AM |
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Kenn159
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When I first moved to a new town and wasn't sure where the hiking trails were, a guy I had been talking online to said he knew a good trail that would be a good one to start out on and wanted to know if I wanted to go for a hike. I said yes but after we had hiked a little ways, he said that he was very excited by me and he unzipped right there and took care of himself. I was very shocked to say the least, but not particularly excited. I didn't hike with him anymore (or talk to him online again either)
He is giving us hikers a bad name
Whatever two people do together (that is consented to) is all good.
It doesn't make you wierd or deviant. But I do think that how your partner feels about it is allot more important than what we think about it.
Exactly, but she wasn't consenting.
I'm not referring to his wife; I mean I'm taking about the hiking situation and the other guy that whipped it out in his home in front of his shocked date.
If both parties aren't consenting, you are no better than a pervy flasher and also shows a major lack of respect for the women. 
[Edited on 12/29/2007 9:27 AM]
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 8:58 AM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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What the hell are you talking about?
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 9:03 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Intersting Claire! My wife likes it, but not nearly as much as I like to.
I think she "puts up with it", but I have a very strong sex drive and she does not
So who's Claire?
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 9:21 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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I was wondering the same thing!
And CW? I think perhaps this question was asked in the wrong thread. As soon as I read the OP, my first thought was, "I wonder what Miss Clitora would say about this?"
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 9:39 AM |
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Kenn159
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I won't ever cheat on her as she is a good woman, but because I love this so much, I find myself fantasizing about it more and more, and just for the thrill of it, I find myself wanting to do it in front of a stranger. No sex, just have her watch me.
I guess that's where I am getting at. How do I deal with that?
You realize you have confused a women being shocked and upset, and sexual excitement, because you are saying you want to do this to other women besides your wife and most women don’t want to se you that way.
If you follow through with your fantasy you will be hurting the women you expose and probably find yourself in jail.
If you are seriously contemplating doing this to strangers then, I think you should contact a therapist and seek help.
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 10:13 AM |
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ColdinWisconsin
Posts: 9,987
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And CW? I think perhaps this question was asked in the wrong thread. As soon as I read the OP, my first thought was, "I wonder what Miss Clitora would say about this?"
I can't hold every man's hand. And I probably shouldn't be holding his. The boys are going to have to find Miss Clitora for themselves. 
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 10:20 AM |
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deanavondale
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Where is my Cheese gurl?
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 10:23 AM |
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ColdinWisconsin
Posts: 9,987
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She's right here honey! You need to go into the "introduction forum" Start your own thread so people can meet you.
The girls are gonna LOVE you! 
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 10:27 AM |
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deanavondale
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Thanx cutie
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| Dec 29, 2007 @ 10:27 AM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Your more than welcome. 
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| Dec 31, 2007 @ 4:03 AM |
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theobono
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In my opinion.....it sounds as though you PREFER masturbating to consensual sex with a woman....Tells me one thing...you think its all about you....Which in your world it probally is....It's all about pleasing yourself and Nothing about pleasing your partner....." Watch me masturbate".....Frankly it's a little strange
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