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| Feb 10, 2008 @ 8:10 PM |
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blueyes101
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Ok, this is mainly directed to the women, but of course all are welcome to comment...
So, you are dating, it leads to sex....... Are sex toys something you bring into the relationship? Is it right away? Maybe down the road? Or you only use them when a man is not in your life....?
I guess I am secure enough as a man, that a sex toy will only enhance her pleasure, and in the end she will have the real thing anyways.... I see them as only another means of foreplay, all to get her as satisfied as possible..... Is this how you see them?
Or are they too private to share?
What say you......? What role if any do/can they play in any future relationship?
When do you know is right time to break them out?  
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| Feb 10, 2008 @ 8:14 PM |
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pamdemonium
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I've never used a toy. Not within a relationship or alone.
I'd rather have a man use his imagination and what he came to bed
with than a toy. Making love is loving someone with your body.
Not someThing.
And if I felt ever that things got boring, though I can't imagine that
happening, way down the line, that's when to introduce. When all
other options for sparking a flame have been exhausted.
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| Feb 10, 2008 @ 8:28 PM |
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blueyes101
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I once heard it is impossible to truly tickle yourself. It takes someone else to do it to you. If you take this logic to masturbation, a toy may be quite helpful. Then if/when a relationship develops, it is only a way to heighten the pleasure, not replace it.
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| Feb 10, 2008 @ 8:41 PM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 17,347
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biting my tongue...biting my tongue...biting my tongue.... 
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| Feb 10, 2008 @ 8:51 PM |
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loisday
Posts: 1,333
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Sorry Blu.....
I don't have time to answer......
I've got to go out in this blizzard for batteries....... 
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| Feb 10, 2008 @ 9:40 PM |
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parrothead1234
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Batteries not included?  
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| Feb 10, 2008 @ 9:43 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 17,853
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never used sex toys I prefer the touch...but if he brings them Im game
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 7:33 AM |
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catman602
Posts: 735
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painter knows I am game . No toys . just me .
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 9:01 AM |
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Loreli
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I don't like them much. I like his hands, his fingertips, his tongue far better.
But, to each their own! And a relationship may grow and want to include them. It isn't something that should be brought up until one gets "that feeling" that it can.
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 10:34 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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communication is the key.... 
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 12:44 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
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I've never used toys and I have not any toys
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 1:32 PM |
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blueyes101
Posts: 12,080
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I know what you all are getting for Christmas next year............
 
That brings a whole new meaning to Santas lil helpers.......... don'tcha think?
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 1:37 PM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 17,347
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Well, Valentine's Day is only a few days away.... 
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 1:44 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
Posts: 2,832
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good idea Pam 
Hey Blue what do you think about it ?
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 1:49 PM |
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blueyes101
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Sex toys for Valentines day,,,,,,,,, Now here is an idea for a new thread....
Or we can just add it to this one...... How would you feel about getting a sex toy for VD?
And, from who would you accept it?
What happens to all the old toys? ( Wasn't that part of the Rudolf story ? ) I always thought of putting one out in a garage sale, with a hidden camera just to catch the reactions.........
Now here is something to think about...... Wouldn't you prefer your SO brought out a nice new one still in the box? As opposed to hauling one out of a drawer next to the bed..... I just can't imagine a guy hauling one out without the woman freaking out.....( for painter )
I hear many women go to sex toy parties, they sound a lot more fun than a tupperware party.
So, for all you women who wish to work from home, you may wish to look into this..... Having a few drinks at a friends house and picking one up, sounds much more appealing than going to a sex shop/book store.
Maybe on your camping trip?
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 1:57 PM |
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Bluebonnet72
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 1:58 PM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 17,347
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err...not the same in reality as in theory, the sex toy parties. Personally, who would want your friends knowing which weapo- er, toys you're buying? Is nothing sacred? And if he had to bring one along, it sure as hell better be brand new, and not hauled out as a 'surprise', and used...not even an option.
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 2:02 PM |
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Silvertongue62
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This is funny!
Everyone knows you do it but never the less you feel the need to conceal it. I think we are a people of far too many inhibitions.
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 2:05 PM |
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pamdemonium
Posts: 17,347
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Silvertongue!!! You have been SO MISSED!!! It's good to see you back! 
And no- - everyone doesn't own one/ use one/ want one. Inhibitions aside... 
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| Feb 11, 2008 @ 2:07 PM |
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Silvertongue62
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I'm not back! I just popped in to see all who leave the party with a bag of goodies but pretend they dont use them. Lol.....
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