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I used to be an Exotic Dancer......


Mar 30 @ 11:03 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
j_goose


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Years ago, I was a dancer in (i guess you could call it) a "strip club". Full frontal, etc.

People were always supercritical about my occupation. They saw it as "exploiting my body".

I thought of it as "making really good money".

What are your thoughts?

Is it wrong to use what God gave you to make a living?

Or is it someting that should be frowned upon, and nudity should be kept private?



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Mar 30 @ 11:05 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
painter007


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I have danced on bar tops but never for money and never naked......but if you got it go for it......pssssssssssstttt got any videos
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Mar 30 @ 11:08 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
j_goose


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So what's the difference between a male underwear model, making money with HIS body, and a guy who swings his floppy in your face???
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Mar 30 @ 11:10 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
BeachCrete


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THE UNDERWEAR!
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Mar 30 @ 11:13 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
j_goose


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Here's an example....I was dancing at one particular club one night. As part of a male review. crazy drunk women, bachelorette parties...

Worked the pole, humped the stage, etc.

I remember one night we had "themes" and I was the "ice cream truck driver".

I did my thing, rolled in chocolate sauce. Let ladies spray whipped cream on my dangly bits....

They'd hoot and hollar and throw their money around.....

These women would try to get all touchy....(which is totally against the rules, and I'd motion to the bouncer and they'd get escorted out)

These SAME women would cause a scene yelling how cheap I was, and that I should be ashamed, etc.

WTF...you were just spraying whipped cream on my junk,, and NOW you judge??
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Mar 30 @ 11:26 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
burnslikethesun


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Brother.
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Mar 30 @ 11:33 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
michedkel


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I really don't know what to say about this thread, goose. My first reaction was, yeah, right.... and I used to be a ballet dancer. Personally, I wouldn't have paid a dime to see you nude.... but if you got it, flaunt it. Why'd you get out of the business?
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Mar 30 @ 11:41 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
j_goose


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I guess I got out of it because of the stigma that comes with the whole "stripper" occupation. We make money. It's our job. I got paid to show the elephant.

Now, I've NEVER been judgemental, and I've only accepted cash for sex a few times. But when a fella can provide something for someone for a nominal fee, why not?

Most women who go to these clubs are lonely and missing something at home.

I was a "happiness provider". Just like a massage. Stress relief for these women I suppose.

I really think I saved quite a few marrages doing what I did....

They would take what they learned, and really spiced up their love lives at home.

Like a physical marrage therapist.....

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Mar 30 @ 11:42 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
j_goose


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I did have a job at a gay bar for a while. Most of them were very respectful to me.

Although once in a while, one would "get fresh", and have to be escorted out, but overall they were a very good crowd.
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Mar 31 @ 6:54 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
sensuouswoman


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You were ...were you?????????? Send me some proof!!!
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Mar 31 @ 7:57 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
mordru


Posts: 32
Cash for sex a few times.Wow that makes you a whore.Gay bar?No straight man would strip for gays.Dude you are f-up
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Apr 1 @ 3:12 AM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
j_goose


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I can only recall ONE time while dancing in the gay bar that went a little too far. I'm not proud of it by any means. Actually I'm a little ashamed that I did what I did...

But I'll just chalk that up to young experimentation.
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Apr 1 @ 7:27 AM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
jaybird777


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I am with ya brother.

Ain't nothin wrong with it.

Ima in a similairty typea work.

I sleep with wome fer money.

I figger if she can pay and wants ta play, there's no harm.

I have been known ta extend credit from time a time, or do an occasional freebie, but hey, it's all good.

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Apr 1 @ 9:41 AM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
j_goose


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I have been known ta extend credit from time a time, or do an occasional freebie, but hey, it's all good.


Where did she slide her credit card?
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Apr 1 @ 9:42 AM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
Gallows_Humor


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edited.. the was for Jbird...
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Apr 1 @ 7:35 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
Always_Striving


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No offense if taken, but is it true that most strippers are gay?
PBS once did a show on that subject and many strippers said that they were gay and that it's only a job that they have to put up with.
Many men think that they can "Score" with female strippers.
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Apr 1 @ 8:27 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
JenRNinOhio


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and a lot of women DO score with male strippers.

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So I've heard.
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Apr 2 @ 2:08 AM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
j_goose


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No offense if taken, but is it true that most strippers are gay?
PBS once did a show on that subject and many strippers said that they were gay and that it's only a job that they have to put up with.
Many men think that they can "Score" with female strippers

I olny knew of one that was gay where I worked. We called him "baby" Cause that's how he was hung (7lbs 7 oz)

Guy would run around the dressing room trying to start a "sword fight".

Funny guy, wonder what ever happened to him?
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Apr 2 @ 2:09 AM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
j_goose


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and a lot of women DO score with male strippers.

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So I've heard.

So you've been to one of my shows? I knew you looked familiar....
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Apr 2 @ 6:22 PM I used to be an Exotic Dancer......    
BUSTED616


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I'd never date a guy that stripped. Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
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