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| Apr 1 @ 3:41 AM |
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j_goose
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Why is it that when a woman brings a rubber floppy to the bedroom and uses it on herself it's sexy.....
But everytime I pull out my latex vag, she looks at me like I'm sick?
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| Apr 1 @ 12:23 PM |
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SaintBacon
Posts: 1,679
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Or my rubber sow  . Actually, the biggest social stigma Mrs. Bacon and I've run into when discussing adult toys with other people is the phrase "Well, we don't NEED that stuff to have a good sex life". Like anyone who enjoys toys can ONLY get off using them. I don't know that anyone "needs" toys to enjoy sex...but that doesn't mean they aren't fun and add variety to love-making. Whenever I hear someone state that they don't "need" toys, lingerie, role playing, fantasies to have a good time, I just have to smile...it is the default phrase for the unimaginative.
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| Apr 1 @ 12:28 PM |
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steveemac
Posts: 2,336
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"Well, we don't NEED that stuff to have a good sex life" It also speaks to what defines "good" for someone like that; for many of them, their idea of "kinky" is leaving a light on.
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| Apr 1 @ 7:31 PM |
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Always_Striving
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You make very good points about the double standard.
I am of the opinion that she get rid of the toys when she's with me. I don't want to share that personal experience. HER TOYS DON'T TURN ME ON. They are for her own pleasure and although she may have the ultimate climaxs with them and it is something very intimate to her, it has zero effect for me looking at them or watching her use them or even having to use them on her. They are even kind of offensive IMO.
I am not saying that a woman should have her toys, I'm just saying don't bring them around me and expect me to be just as excited. It's a turnoff for me.
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| Apr 1 @ 8:11 PM |
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blueyes101
Posts: 8,307
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I finally got my new gf to break hers out. Took some convincing, she felt they were private, and were only for when she was alone........ I asked her to trust me, and she was very, very, ahem...................... pleased..... 
I want her to have as many orgasms as possible, all I need is one or two good ones. So, spicing things up a bit, and keeping her satisfied every way from Sunday, is all good. And as she has pointed out, no toy can replace the real thing, so why not give her both?
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| Apr 6 @ 10:03 AM |
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ladros
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i can agree with poster #4 here that to just look at her toy does nothing for me but when she in the process of using said toy WOW its a whole different perspective, just like her sexy undies to see them in the dresser or going thru the laundry, nothin, but once she got them on WOW
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| Apr 11 @ 10:44 AM |
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Makya
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"Well, we don't NEED that stuff to have a good sex life"
It also speaks to what defines "good" for someone like that; for many of them, their idea of "kinky" is leaving a light on.
I don't know that anyone "needs" toys to enjoy sex...but that doesn't mean they aren't fun and add variety to love-making.
My sentiments exactly.
They have some great toys just for her and just for him. The best ones though, are the ones made especially for couples use. Love em'.
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| Apr 11 @ 11:02 AM |
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joshuaidaho
Posts: 141
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I can be one he** of a sex toy
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| Apr 11 @ 12:23 PM |
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KnittinKitten
Posts: 189
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joshuaidaho:
But, you just might be missing the point that MANY women are not looking for "boys OR toys"....they want a MAN....right there with them...who wants to stick around long enough to practice, practice, practice...until they're perfect.....Then, toys are not a necessity...they're an enhancement> 
kk 
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| Apr 12 @ 7:21 AM |
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melodygirl
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yes definately agree,with you makya. 
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| Apr 12 @ 9:49 AM |
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blueyes101
Posts: 8,307
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"Well, we don't NEED that stuff to have a good sex life"
Does that mean they don't need foreplay? Or different positions? Or oral sex?
All they need to do is stick it in, a little up and down action and........ she must be totally satisfied........right???????? 
To me, sex is like food, you can make very good food, but if you spice it up a little, it gets even better... And you're never full until you have finished everything in front you.    
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| Apr 12 @ 9:51 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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It also speaks to what defines "good" for someone like that; for many of them, their idea of "kinky" is leaving a light on.
or a cat o'nine tails that you lightly tap someone's butt with, for that matter
oh, how i pity and laugh at those people who have no idea about anything
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