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Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?


Jul 11 @ 8:37 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
DiamondRain


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An physically unattractive man will have a difficult time finding any woman who is willing to have sex with him (without paying for it).

But even a physically unattractive woman can easily find men who are willing to have sex with her virtually any time she wants.

True or false?
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Jul 11 @ 8:45 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
RainbowSharpie


Posts: 977
False.

Somewhere, somebody wants to have sex with you no matter if you're an ugly man or an ugly woman. Gender really doesn't have anything to do with it.
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Jul 11 @ 8:53 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
Laidback742


Posts: 2,450
I agree, DR.

Women want someone they're attracted to.

Men often just want.
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Jul 11 @ 8:54 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
DiamondRain


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@RainbowSharpie

But that answer doesn't address the question.

The question didn't suggest that NOBODY would have sex with an "ugly" man. It said it would be more DIFFICULT for an "ugly" man to find someone who would have sex with them than for an "ugly" woman.
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Jul 11 @ 9:11 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
custis


Posts: 648
False. As you can see in my pictures I am definitely not an overly attractive man. But in spite of this I get all the dates I can handle with women of all types and ages. To put it more accurately, I get all the dates I can afford. Just an average mediocre date often costs a hundred dollars or more by the time the night's tab is rung up.
For you men, the key to successful dating lays mostly in four things.

1. Make her laugh a lot without being a complete idiot. Relax and let your natural sense of humor show but don't stand on the table and re-enact a Carlin show.
2. Be able and willing to engage her in conversation about anything and everything. Talk about things that interest both of you and make an effort to see things from her side without being a yes man.
3. Do not spend the evening staring at her tits and making sexual enuendos out of everything she says. No matter how horny she may be, any woman who thinks you are just killing time with her till you can get her near a bed is going to be majorly turned off.
4. Above all else, treat her like a lady. I do not care if she is a hooker from Brooklyn, you had better still treat her like a lady. And if she is not pretty, that is all the more reason to tell her that she is.

If you can just be yourself and do these things without being pretentious about it, you will score often, even if you look like Elmer Fudd. There are always going to be some women who will not want anything to do with you if you are not six feet tall and bear a close resemblence to Randolph Mantooth, but for every one of those, there is another one who will not care what you look like as long as you have personality and manners.
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Jul 11 @ 9:36 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
signme


Posts: 8,786
I think Custis has it!

I know several men I'd love to send your post to! They need a lot of help.
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Jul 11 @ 9:59 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
broomhilda


Posts: 58
i say it is true
it is easier for women to get sex and not based on looks alone. for there are men out there who don't care what she looks like as long as she puts out.
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Jul 11 @ 10:03 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
bardnsage


Posts: 198
The Duck told me Elmer was hung like a horse..... I said,,,TMI.
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Jul 11 @ 10:14 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
LaughTillYaPuke


Posts: 1,822
And if she is not pretty, that is all the more reason to tell her that she is
.

Good thing beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are plenty of men who would not be attracted to me. But the right man, Hopefully he wouldn't have to lie when he said that.
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Jul 11 @ 10:37 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
georgiapeach42


Posts: 289
Tilly you are beautiful inside and out.
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Jul 11 @ 10:42 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
georgiapeach42


Posts: 289
Can't say for other women but for me it is like Custis says and a few other things like HYGIENE. There is a guy I know that is sorta overweight and not all that goodlooking but I would not mind going out with him.
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Jul 11 @ 10:46 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
daisy315


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I'll take personality and manners over looks any day
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Jul 11 @ 11:09 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
DiamondRain


Posts: 4,383
Note that the question has nothing to do with dating or relationships.

It's STRICTLY about sex.

Think of it this way...

If an unattractive man walked up to 100 women at random (total strangers) and asked them each to come up to his hotel room to have sex with him and an unattractive women asked 100 men at random the same thing, who would get more "yeses?"

If you say you think the man would get more yeses, you are saying the original statements are TRUE.

If you are saying you think the woman would, or that they would both be expected to get about the same, you are saying the post is false.

What do you really believe?
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Jul 11 @ 11:12 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
lj450


Posts: 7,724
True.



The average woman could go to walmart and end up screwing a total stranger in the parking lot......if that were her intent.


Not so for us fellas.

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Jul 11 @ 11:18 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
georgiapeach42


Posts: 289
Well think of it this way, are there more female or male prostitutes?
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Jul 11 @ 11:34 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
bardnsage


Posts: 198
Well,,,,

if you count dinner, show, drinks,,,etc......

more female prostitutes....

Let's face it, if a women goes into the mall, and pulls up her shirt, or flashes her pooty-poo,,,,most guys will look, and grin.

If a guy does the same thing,,,,someone is calling security.
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Jul 15 @ 3:30 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
marylou


Posts: 9,653
False. As you can see in my pictures I am definitely not an overly attractive man. But in spite of this I get all the dates I can handle with women of all types and ages

Custis....I can relate to this. That is why I am on MD and not on any Ozzie sites.....I get too many people wanting to meet me.......and I hate saying NO all the time. I cant go up to our local shop without meeting men I know who ask me out......so have to go to neighbourning shops sos I dont run into them. I hate hurting their feelings. But they pester me.......and I feel uncomfortable. I even get them coming knocking at my door at times. Yet I consider myself to be a *plain jane* Many of my friends are really so hot looking......have gorgeous figures.....yet they always complain that men dont pay them any attention. So thats why I usually go out with those women....and feel safe......
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Jul 15 @ 3:53 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
willowy1


Posts: 2,390
Testosterone is very dangerous stuff
The answer to your question is false. Plenty of less than attractive men have learned ways around their shortcomings in the looks department. Personality goes a long way!
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Jul 15 @ 3:59 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
Gallows_Humor


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butt ugly is still butt ugly...
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Jul 15 @ 4:02 PM Gender, Looks & Sex ---- True or False?    
willowy1


Posts: 2,390
through whose eyes? Some very attractve people are butt ugly through my eyes.
Just a pretty shell?

[Edited on 7/15/2008 4:04 PM]
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