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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 6:36 AM |
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Bluelady1
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Why do men have a girl they are spouse to be crazy about,and will still sleep with other women . Telling you that they dont want you to see anyone else. the man get mad when he sees you talking to another male figure,when I say any male figure, I mean (father, brother, a guy you know for years,) and want you to wait for when they come calling. Can any one answer this questing truthfuly with out lieing????????????    
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 6:38 AM |
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soulless_spirit
Posts: 444
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jerks ....
simple
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 7:07 AM |
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britishilguy
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Because most of us are pigs. But I have to say, that sometimes women do the samething. I think that men cheat because in our everyday lives it is seen as ok, sex is everywhere yet women do not have this on the whole. Not all men cheat but I do think that most do.
Ian
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 9:17 AM |
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wabbit
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Woman are as much guilty if you know what I mean
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 4:47 PM |
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soulless_spirit
Posts: 444
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hehehe hey cause the think with the smaller brain ..hahahaha
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 4:53 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
Posts: 1,700
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Because the majority(I said the majority guys) are just plain D**ks is why and they care about no one but themselves. The women that cheat are slutty pieces of trash just the same. Iv'e known em from both sides of the gender scale.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 5:05 PM |
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melts_n_ur_mouth
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If he's getting mad when he sees you talking to any male figure, be it a father, brother, or someone you may think of like a brother, then to me he has problems, that border (if not are) on being possessive. And if that is the case I would say get out of that relationship while you can.
Other then that it's the classic i want to have my cake and eat it to, that both sexes are guilty of doing.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 5:06 PM |
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hot_chick
Posts: 50
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they just think theyll never get caught!
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 5:19 PM |
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treefity
Posts: 18
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I can honestly tell you I couldn't follow the original post.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 6:40 PM |
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highway44man
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I KNOW WOMEN WHO PLAY AROUND BIG TIME, BUT THEY STILL WANT RESPECT, YEA.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 6:46 PM |
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fatchick
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I think its the thrill of getting caught.. that people cheat.. and the man getting mad... just a possessive trait, that he needs to deal with.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 6:49 PM |
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Teddy_Bear050
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Well for one thing, I agree that I know women who do the same. I won't even bother to explain why either one decides to, but I think it's that sort of inherint thing like, "If you're quitting your job, might as well start applying to a new one now." Like a safety net, so that if one relationship fails, you immediately have the other lined up.
I think thats low, and completely disresectful to a person. I mean, if you don't love someone anymore, or don't have feelings for them, just say so. Most men are scared s***less to tell a woman that to her face, but it's only worse if you lie to her because then your still waisting your time, but worse your waisitng her time and her feelings for you.
Just be honest, and you never have to worry about what lie you told to whome and when.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 7:14 PM |
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corvette_racing
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I can't talk about other guys, but if I'm in a relationship, I don't sleep with other women.. If for any reason I'm not happy in a relationship, sexually or otherwise, I'll address the issue with my s/o and if there's no solution I will end the relationship and then look for another girl. I do expect the same from any s/o that I'm with.
Well, I'm not perfect and I would be a liar if I'd say that if the perfect girl (looks) would knock on my door and ask me to sleep with her, I would probably do it if there was little chance to get caught. 99% of all guys would (probably more than that but most of them wouldn't admit it). However, it just doesn't happen like that. Most of those guys or girls cheating on their s/o actually go to places where they might meet someone to cheat with.. Night Club etc... If I'm in a relationship I avoid going to places where I might get tempted (unless I'm with my s/o).
I've been with my ex-wife for 6 years and then 4.5 years with my next girlfriend and never cheated on either one.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 7:54 PM |
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bubbagood
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MEN dont......Jackasses do. Anymore questions cus I am on a roll here.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 9:30 PM |
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Flatt
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It's nature. Look at the closest relatives to humans, the apes. One dominant male ape has many females that he mates with. He doesn't allow the females to mate with any other male either. By nature, humans are basically the same.
We have just worked on ignoring our natural instincts due to our adaptation to civilization. Some men still venture off and let their natural instincts take over.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 10:50 PM |
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Teddy_Bear050
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Flatt, sorry, but thats the dumbest thing I've ever heard for an excuse to cheat on a woman. The fact of the matter is that we're not apes, no should we compare ourselves to them mentally or otherwise. We may have evolved from them, but thats just it, we evolved. We didn't just grow to look different, talk different, and stumble upon creating society.
In other words, if a man cheats, it's his consious decision to do so, and not some idiotic natural instinct that he's been regressing for some millions of years (geneticly).
Corvette,
I dunno man, when I'm with a woman, it's usually the person I want to be with both physically and emotionally, so even going out to clubs and stuff, I don't have a problem with other women. Looking is one thing, acting is another. So long as you can control yourself it's not a big deal. But I completely agree with you, men need to just own up if they feel differently about their partners.
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| Nov 8, 2005 @ 11:39 PM |
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DragonsDream
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Just a little info learned the hard way, if your guy is all pissed off that you are "only talking" to other males of any nature, it is because he knows what he is doing wrong and in what manner and assumes you are up to the same thing. That actually applies to most scenarios, aka going out with the girls, phone calls from males, coming home late from work ect........ 
Although it is a very true fact that women are just as guilty, the difference being as stated in an earlier reply, we are less likely to get caught 
Flatt, I am sorry, but that has got to be the lamest excuse, or reason I have ever heard. Was there actually any though put into that answer? Even my six year old son could have come up with something better than that 
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| Nov 9, 2005 @ 3:38 AM |
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Flatt
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TB050, a man's desire to cheat is a natural instinct. Why do you stay with one woman? Is it because you have no desire to have sex with other women? Or is it because you have been taught by society that cheating is wrong?
Maybe you are different than the overwhelming majority of men, but most men have an instinctive desire to have sex with many women from the time they reach puberty. It was necessary to have this desire in order for the human species to survive.
Men cheat because they desire sex. It is very rare for a man to cheat because he dosn't feel loved, or he isn't intellectually stimulated by his lady.
It is stupid to believe that a man sits around and contemplates cheating, as if he is weighing the pros and cons of cheating.
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| Nov 9, 2005 @ 3:50 AM |
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Xavier0777
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Here is a thread that I can not relate to well. Men are pigs, that is almost a given. I think they cheat because it is a joint thing, one spouse may have done the deed though it happened for a reason, perhaps there was no communication in the realtionship or one spouse did not feel enough attention was given or the need for a rush. There is always a reason.
My life always seems to put me in the path of women that are strong willed and sharp minded, quick witts bring a quick and firery response, jealousy in normal situations can be a given, my problem is 90% of the time, I just dont have that trait in me. I have reached a point in life I could just give a f***. If they can not trust you, to be real why be with them.
If you have to be watched like a 15 yr old, why be in that kind of s***. Keep an open line of communication talk when you feel the need to, do not close yourself off, rant if need be, get it out. Then stop and take a breath and listen to what their thoughts are, through open communication things might get better.
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| Nov 9, 2005 @ 3:50 AM |
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Flatt
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DragonsDream, I am sure your 6 year old can come up with an answer you like better. Then again, 6 year olds don't have the same thoughts and desires as a male that has gone through puberty. Now, ask you 6 year old when he is 15 and you will get a different response (assuming he doesn't lie to you, because a teenager rarely is honest with his parents).
Maybe you would have preferred me to give some answer about a man being insecure and needing to be reassurred that they are wanted by other women. That would be why they are possessive of their woman as well. However, that would be BS. A man cheats because of his desire for sex, and is possessive because he knows that other men are the same way.
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