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Jan 13, 2006 @ 8:48 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
Lots of people talk about sex in here (well duh, this IS a sex forum!!), but few have mentioned whether they prefer to be dominant or submissive in the bedroom, or perhaps like to switch, depending on their mood.

What do YOU prefer, are you the one with the keys, or the one spread and shackled?
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Jan 13, 2006 @ 8:50 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
I like to switch... being dominant can be a massive turn-on, having a sexy young lady at my beck and call, having her total obediance... but there again, there's few things as sexy as a lady that knows what she wants and knows how to get it, and I'm certainly not averse to being commanded in the bedroom... mmmm... yes, I love a bit of submission probably more than domination....
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Jan 13, 2006 @ 10:25 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
torees121


Posts: 739
I like to switch..sometime be the bitch in a leather and other times be the one all tied up
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Jan 14, 2006 @ 1:16 AM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
britmadden


Posts: 80
i would have to go with a bit Submissive, if i found the right guy i think it would be such a turn on to tell him exactly what i wanted and where and how many times i wanted it.....

but untill i find the right guy....... these will have to work!!
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Jan 14, 2006 @ 12:12 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
Greystone1


Posts: 1,677
Definitely dominant. The problem is finding a woman who is even more of a wuss than I am, so I can pretend I am in charge.
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Jan 14, 2006 @ 2:07 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
cocoa55


Posts: 11
Submissive work best for me, I am not a dominant type of person, but switch is nice once in a while. too
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Jan 14, 2006 @ 9:01 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
greenizenora


Posts: 629
I'm both. . .

But I love to be dominant with a big guy and just crawl all over him. . .
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Jan 14, 2006 @ 11:31 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
peaches_n_cream2002


Posts: 302
Submissive
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Jan 18, 2006 @ 3:51 AM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
simplegal873


Posts: 140
Submissive with the rare switch ;-)
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Jan 18, 2006 @ 4:30 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
Sweetnessforyou5


Posts: 23
Mainly submissive.....love being told what to do in the bedroom. Though I do enjoy switching once in awhile also.
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Jan 18, 2006 @ 7:01 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
Pete73052


Posts: 19,368
Dominant. I tried to be submissive once... the girl tied me up and then ignored me until morning.
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Jan 18, 2006 @ 8:12 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
BPHREEKEE


Posts: 223
switch here, but with a slight lean to the submissive...and Pete you just AIN'T right....
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Jan 18, 2006 @ 10:23 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
JenRNinOhio


Posts: 1,187
More sub than dom...with an occasional change for variety.

Being the boss @ work & a mom....I spend enough time telling others what to do..

But it can be fun to take charge & make demands.

eh
OK
both
variety, ya know?
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Jan 19, 2006 @ 7:51 AM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
LindaL


Posts: 4
Very submissive.
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Jan 20, 2006 @ 12:50 AM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
danae74


Posts: 601
True (and enthusiastic) switch! Though I'm more of a brat bottom, which can be fun too...
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Jan 20, 2006 @ 12:58 AM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 10,818
Hmmmm....just wondering.....those of you who claim to be submissive......

Would you be dominant if your dom told you to be??????

I'm not into either, so I'm just curious....
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Jan 20, 2006 @ 1:04 AM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
danae74


Posts: 601
Jester, I had a naturally submissive partner for three years (I'm not talking heavy S&M here, just natural tendencies) and I tried that tactic. It doesn't work so well...really submissive types don't seem to be very convincing in a dominant role, at least in my experience. I got very bored with the whole thing, too...
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Jan 20, 2006 @ 7:20 AM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
spongebob777


Posts: 7,904
Strange thing to comment on this early in the morning but I am a guy and it is morning.

I tend to date more aggresive women so I usually start out in the more submissive role but as I become comfortable I can become more forcefull. Hmmm, I can think of a few things that might explain my tendencies toward liking petite women.
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Jan 20, 2006 @ 12:24 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
DevenMichaels21


Posts: 4
It all depends on my mood and who I'm with.
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Jan 20, 2006 @ 3:35 PM Submissive, dominant, or switch?    
Kat_luvr


Posts: 716
Love the submissive, but I like to switch....Sometimes being in charge, Gives me a charge!
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