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How long is to Long without sex???


Oct 14 @ 7:44 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
Christie520


Posts: 9
Its been a year and 3 months with no sex or masterbaiting....I feel the frustration going and am becoming a total bitch....and dont just want to sleep with any one Ive had to many one night stands.....and advise
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Oct 15 @ 2:24 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
drs297


Posts: 4,862
shit.. you win.. no way could go without jacking off several times a day.

At least masturbate for a few days to catch up and put a smile on your face
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Oct 15 @ 3:43 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
Christie520


Posts: 9
Got any helpful masterbation hints?
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Oct 15 @ 4:49 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
lj450


Posts: 9,550
Im thinking his masturbation tips might not work so well for you. Assuming you dont have a penis of course.

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Oct 15 @ 5:18 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
Merchitown


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Oct 15 @ 6:19 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
Christie520


Posts: 9
your probably right his wont help
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Oct 15 @ 6:53 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
gunn12fan


Posts: 2,315
it's been over a year since i have had sex....so masturbation helps..
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Oct 15 @ 7:31 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
Laidback742


Posts: 4,676
The nuns at your local convent might have some advice ....
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Oct 15 @ 11:53 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
willowy1


Posts: 9,181
nunyo
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Oct 17 @ 5:50 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
sthnhylander


Posts: 4,062
who gives a sh*t
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Oct 18 @ 12:27 AM How long is to Long without sex???    
gypsy29


Posts: 140
It takes practice. Lots of practice!!!!! And speaking as a person who has no penis....a little to the left, right, left, right.......... you'll get the hang of it.
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Oct 18 @ 12:51 AM How long is to Long without sex???    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,951
When my boyfriend is here....I can't go more than a day. I have to have it once a day, though more than once is an option.

When he's not here though I can go 9 months without it...have done it and it's not a problem <3 I have gone without it since July already and it doesn't get to me at all....I have hands
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Oct 20 @ 5:40 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
Firefox


Posts: 2
I've read as many posts as I can read on this and there is a simple but devistating problem.
This does not apply to everyone because there are couples who are compatible(sex every day, both happy, sex once in a while, both happy etc.)

I got together with my wife before the computer evolution. You guys and gals (if you are still looking) have it made.

Here is the problem.

Most men want to have sex to stay happy.
Most woman have to be happy to have sex.

Simple but most desvistating conclusion.

I am one of the couples that it's devistating. I've only gone without sex for less than a month. But for me I love sex could have it every day. So I have to come up with more and more ways of satifying my desire for sex without my wife. I am BI so I have even more ways of having fun on my own, am I happy? hell NO.
What is more irritating is that I have a loving wife, she is alive, sexy and well...
every little problem will kill our sex life. Once I've done things on my own for a while, cuddles, kisses and intimacy go right out the door.
We've been together 20 years and unfortunately because we have a child, divorce or any type of separation is out of the question.

Here is some simple advise for you folks, Sorry it's the truth:

- If you are a woman and love sex, you are one lucky gal. Guys will flock to you. keep looking for the right guy it will happen, most others, especially woman will call you a slut because you are happy, you only live once and don't listen to the other 60 to 70% of women (and men) out there that are jealous of you.

- If you are a BI woman, look for the non-jealous type but you also have it made.

- If you are a guy, your pretty much screwed. Just about every guy I know complains about sex unless they are one of the lucky guys who gets a woman that enjoys sex.
NOTE: enjoying sex means you like sex, you will have it even if the house is burning to the ground as a extreme example but you know what I mean. I don't mean, you like sex, but can go without it for extended periods and it doesn't bother you.

- If you are a guy who doesn't need sex to stay happy, hell, you've got it made. But don't be fooled, woman can see right through you if you "think" you are part of the group but later act your usual self, I've seen it happen, it's not pretty.

- If you are a woman that likes sex but you stop having it because you are unhappy, your going to have a heck of a time finding a guy who is like that. But don't give up, they do exist, but honestly, I've seen some awful divorces and some very unhappy guys due to a relationship that is devoid of sex because your not happy due to normal life. Unless the guy is rich and can make you happy everyday without faultering...LOL, fat chance eh.

If your a gal and your gay, what can I say, you may just be in the same place as the guys. (If you are a guy and think that a woman who is gay is going to be fun, think again, most of them will hate you for just being a guy)

If you are a guy and your gay. What can I say, you may be in the same place as a woman.

I know it's harsh, but it's reality. Anger transference is normal, your going to get mad at me for what I just said.
But I need to pass this along to others. I love my child enough that I am just going to deal with the emotions and keep doing it on my own so that my wife is happy, divorce is not part of my vocabulary.
But passing this on to YOU to keep looking for the right person and even if you have to go years without sex, keep looking it will happen but don't get into something you will regret.
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Nov 2 @ 11:30 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
ROBERTYANKEES


Posts: 21
depends on the person your with. for two years 24 months i had to get
something done with my kidneys since nov 2007 and now i can move around
freely. its where they put a stent between your manhood and the kidney part
where they operate and sometimes its painful to move around before the
surgery was done.
try a vibrator or something else in an adult catalog . i couldn't do anything
involved sex as it could have opened the surgery that now is going good.
maybe you should end the one night stands and find a real man who
wants a real woman like you. would you like to talk.
robert
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Nov 2 @ 11:40 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
lacyvsq


Posts: 6,161
Got any helpful masturbation hints?

try this....


Edited to explain that I have read many great reviews about it...and...uh...a good friend...of a friend...has one and raves about it...

Yeah! That's it! A FOF!

[Edited on 11/2/2009 11:55 PM]
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Nov 3 @ 8:11 AM How long is to Long without sex???    
Gallows_Humor


Posts: 13,642
what's a "P" spot???


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Nov 3 @ 9:06 AM How long is to Long without sex???    
PollyPureheart


Posts: 65
I'm thinkin' "P" stands for Prostate.




That's it. I'm not saying anymore. Ya can't make me.
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Nov 3 @ 9:08 AM How long is to Long without sex???    
Gallows_Humor


Posts: 13,642
.........





whoda thunk it.....

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Nov 3 @ 10:21 AM How long is to Long without sex???    
CaptainFlea


Posts: 379
yeah what's a P spot?

Polly, It couldn't be prostrate could it?
You mean some guys are putting that thing up thier booty?
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Nov 3 @ 12:38 PM How long is to Long without sex???    
PollyPureheart


Posts: 65
Capt, that would be prostate, Not prostrate

Prostrate is what you'd be if you tried to use that thing.


Booty Call!
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