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Oct 18 @ 10:31 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
burnslikethesun


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Im at work and as normal the talk turns to sex.
This bartender pops up with a statement like, "Oral, oh no way."
After some teasing she says, I don't mind giving, it's just I don't like to receive.
WFT???

In all my days I never once been with or heard of a woman passing up a good " make kitty happy"

I never would have even imaged that this was possible.
Now I understand different strokes for different folks. Me, myself, get nothing from a lover playing with my nipples beside the urge to push her ass away from me.


But passing on oral!!?????






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Oct 18 @ 10:36 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
Nightowl001


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In all my days I never once been with or heard of a woman passing up a good " make kitty happy"
You want my ex's phone number?
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Oct 18 @ 10:42 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
burnslikethesun


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LOL wow there's two of em out there? i thought it was just a freak of nature.
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Oct 18 @ 11:05 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
GrapesofWrath


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ive known a couple of men who weren't into it, and I'll pass if the guy can't do it right. and, no, not all guys can do it right, contrary to their belief.
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Oct 18 @ 11:21 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
JenRNinOhio


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*slow solemn nod in agreement*



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Oct 18 @ 11:24 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
chubs


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ah, burns...can I possibly get that bartender-chickz number?!!!
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Oct 19 @ 5:28 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
burnslikethesun


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lol no sh!t huh Chubs.
talk about youre win win situation huh.

To get and not have to give. LOL


Not that Im complaining or would ever complain about giving.

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Oct 19 @ 10:18 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
drs297


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like was said.. if someone acts like they are working with sandpaper pretty sure the woman won't enjoy it.
But it is not uncommon, there are lots of women and men who are that way with not enjoying it or find it as something they get off on.
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Oct 19 @ 10:33 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
Fender


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I think if someone does it wrong to you once...You end up not wanting to have it done again...But if someone does it right...You want it all the time...Just my opinion.

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Oct 19 @ 10:36 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
drs297


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would say that statement is about right..
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Oct 19 @ 10:39 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
Fender


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I could take it everyday depending on who was doing it.

I'm sure men feel that way too.

Although this is a weird story and I've got to get to bed I'm gonna share it...I have this friend back home...For some reason every guy she meets ask her for head...NO one has ever asked me... I've alway's wondered about that.

Do some men have radar on who will do it to anyone? I swear it's true too. I wouldn't make that up.
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Oct 19 @ 10:43 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
drs297


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some just have that look about them, like the bar whore who you just know when you walk in..
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Oct 20 @ 6:09 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
your_princess


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i personally would rather use other methods of foreplay...oral is great once in awhile, however something i wouldnt be heart broken over if it never happened again.
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Oct 20 @ 9:47 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
blueyes101


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I have known a few women who would rather I stopped, at first I kind of took it personal, but once I got them to relax, they realized the man they were with had no idea what they were doing.

But I to was very surprised it took a while to " talk them into it".

The hardest part is to figure out what each woman likes, you have a short time frame... and some things that work for some, aren't so great to another.
If they are not very vocal it can be like playing darts in the dark.

Then again, one of the last women I dated was just plain terrible at giving head.

I would do anything possible to get her to give up..... I don't think she ever got me to cum..

The one before that was .SPECTACULAR !!!!!!!!!!!!
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Oct 21 @ 8:12 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
gypsy29


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I am of the philosophy that if they do not want you to do it, you have done it wrong. And you, whether you are the man or the woman, should go to the nearest "toy" shop and buy some instructional books on how to do it better.
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Oct 21 @ 10:14 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
blueyes101


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That can open up a bigger can of worms than I already had...


Besides, I was very happy being the giver....
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Oct 22 @ 9:30 AM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
your_princess


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I am of the philosophy that if they do not want you to do it, you have done it wrong.

So you cant have a preference? I think it is very ignorant to say that ALL women OR all men LOVE oral sex. Just because i say, no id rather you do this...doesnt indicate that he did something wrong. it simply means i know my body enough sexually to know what i REALLY like.
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Oct 22 @ 10:09 AM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
lj450


Posts: 9,550
I love to eat the p*ssy!! (as long as it is clean and tastes good of course)


I would rather give than receive in the oral department. I havent had many with the required hand-mouth coordination to make me cum. I get plenty excited from giving and would rather just f*ck than delay it by receiving some mediocre cock-sucking.


But thats just me.


If she doesnt like to receive oral then she better have some lube ready or be naturally wet. No one likes humping on a cotton patch. That would be like a guy saying he wants to have sex but his dick is limp but he doesnt want the girl to suck it. WTF?
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Oct 22 @ 12:39 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
willowy1


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I wonder how "she" feels about anal sex?
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Oct 22 @ 3:35 PM Thanks, but I'll pass.    
your_princess


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No one likes humping on a cotton patch.
lol i love it!



I wonder how "she" feels about anal sex?
Who are you referring to in terms of "she" ???
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