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Anger and sexual attraction


Jan 17, 2006 @ 2:35 PM Anger and sexual attraction    
Thor1960303


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Is there some kind of connection there that I'm missing?Some women say they get really turned on if their guy is royally pissed and ready to stragle someone.Some folks say their best lovemaking is done in the heat of a fight.I don't get it.Seems to come from two completely different ares of the psyche for me.If I get into a fight,sex is the last thing I'm thinking about.What of it?Who here gets hot when their SO is pissed?
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Jan 17, 2006 @ 7:52 PM Anger and sexual attraction    
Xavier0777


Posts: 186
Hmm...

I am not sure if I count. I get aroused when the woman shows agression. There have been times in the past that I will push her last button just to watch her explode because the thoughts of her calling me slurs or really putting her foot down to a certain situation is such a turn on.

Myself when I get pissed I try to distance myself from people. Their is a fine line with agrresiveness and anger and often neither is one to be walked, especially when what you want is too often more than you can handle in this type of a situation.
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Jan 18, 2006 @ 1:15 AM Anger and sexual attraction    
greenizenora


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To me, there is nothing sexy about anger. . .it's actually a little frightening if there's a violent undercurrent.

Now, aggression. . .that's another thing altogether. . .
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Jan 18, 2006 @ 1:17 AM Anger and sexual attraction    
ruready4me2luvu


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I think aggression was my middle name once
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Jan 19, 2006 @ 2:56 PM Anger and sexual attraction    
Thor1960303


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I dunno.My ex wife was commenting once about an episode of Moonlighting where Cybil Shepard and Bruce Willis were having a knock down drag out fight,then in the midst of it,he scoops her in his arms and they make passionate love.She said that that premise was a big turn on for her.I couldn't see it.Did I miss something?
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Jan 19, 2006 @ 5:15 PM Anger and sexual attraction    
Virtuosa4


Posts: 82
Could be because it is just a turn on to see all the emotion raging out, and ya gotta do something with it!
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Jan 19, 2006 @ 8:26 PM Anger and sexual attraction    
Always_Striving


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It is evident that the man is displaying an intense emotion but could still be considered manly while doing so.

This this the right brain activity that women starve for so much to see from men, some kind of emotional behavior display.

I'm guessing that it makes women feel comfortable to know that men have an emotional trigger that can accessed occationally.

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Jan 20, 2006 @ 12:23 AM Anger and sexual attraction    
SunBabe


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An absolute major turn-off to me. ~shudder~
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Jan 20, 2006 @ 11:25 AM Anger and sexual attraction    
exiled131


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doesn't work for me. if you want me angry, you are far away from getting any...unless having a flag pole jammed up there is your type of foreplay
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Jan 20, 2006 @ 11:40 AM Anger and sexual attraction    
dawnbb


Posts: 13
Something to do with being attracted to an alpha male, one that shows strenth and the ability to over-power others (although I don't personally subscribe to this opinion - thats what I have heard other women say).

Might also be linked to dom/sub fantasies.
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Jan 22, 2006 @ 1:32 PM Anger and sexual attraction    
BuckaBilly


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Thats Cause Your A Goof Night
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Jan 22, 2006 @ 2:54 PM Anger and sexual attraction    
sissycat411


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What about a guy who purposly pushes your buttons....lets you rage on and on and says nothing......not one word...whats he getting out of it ????
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Jan 22, 2006 @ 2:57 PM Anger and sexual attraction    
chinabull2000


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Anger doesn't make for good sex, but controlled aggression can be a major turn-on! Plus, of course, make-up sex can be awesome, so perhaps the emotion fuelled by the earlier argument/anger is relevant to this.
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