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| Jan 21, 2006 @ 1:25 PM |
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LonelyHartsKlub
Posts: 15
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Have u had sex or been in a relationship with someone who's disabled?  Was it a good or bad experience?
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| Jan 21, 2006 @ 6:35 PM |
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Scooterkist
Posts: 83
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Lonely,
In my case it was a bad experience. My ex was diabetic, let it run amok...lost his leg cause of it, and blamed me.
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| Jan 21, 2006 @ 10:40 PM |
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foxmuldar2004
Posts: 39
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I am disabled, and i have had sex, and i have never had any complaints! 
Fox,
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| Jan 21, 2006 @ 11:17 PM |
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waiting41
Posts: 1,926
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Mentally disabled yes, and, it was a very bad experience. 
Are you talking about the physically disabled? Hmmm.......I haven't, but, this is a very interesting topic.
I have wondered about this due to all the wounded soldiers coming home lately from Iraq.
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| Jan 21, 2006 @ 11:55 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,088
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I had a dear friend with advanced MS and know for a fact that he was in no way celibate. We used to go dancin', he in his chair, and we'd laugh, nuzzle and snuggle all evening long; and omg he was naughty and fresh  -- used to cop 'feels' just to make me blush. "Oops, there goes that silly uncontrollable hand again...  " ~grin~
Women would hit on him whatever he was doing (some he took home). Even though he became blind, the twinkle was still there.
He had a caretaker and the three of us would dress up and go out to dinner in South Beach or Ft. Lauderdale. I'd cut up his food and feed him a bite at a time. Omg, he could make even that a sensous experience And he used to make the other diners smile with his spirit.
Sometimes we'd go for a chair-ride along the beaches (where it was paved & his caretaker was strong). I'd sit tucked on his lap and we were both in our glory.
He wasn't any different than he'd ever been throughout his pre-physically declining life....he was 100% MAN and never forgot it, nor could his ladies forget, either, because he knew how to make them feel like 100% women  He just had to learn to be "creative"...and he was lucky because the VA paid for penile implants that apparently worked for awhile. He used to say he gave good tongue, lol...I swear I have no doubts, haha.
I understand he died with a smile on his face...and whenever I think of him, I smile too, because even while he was dying he was living -- to the max.
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| Jan 22, 2006 @ 4:08 AM |
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BigDaddy1954
Posts: 23
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I had sex with a blind mans wife.....does that count?
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| Jan 22, 2006 @ 4:57 AM |
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BPHREEKEE
Posts: 223
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I had a bit of a fling with a man who'd lost his leg at the knee, The sex was good, but I couldn't let myself go any farther relationship wise, his anger at times over the loss was just to much for me to deal with, I understood it but couldn't condone the violence...
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| Jan 22, 2006 @ 11:35 AM |
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Pete73052
Posts: 19,368
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Well, then check out the fantasy thread...
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| Jan 22, 2006 @ 11:47 AM |
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foxmuldar2004
Posts: 39
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That was very touching sunbabe, you are a very sweet person, very sweet indeed! 
Fox,
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| Jan 22, 2006 @ 12:00 PM |
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lennym
Posts: 43
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I once had sex with a one legged gal named Eileen. Does that count??? 
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| Jan 23, 2006 @ 1:30 PM |
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LonelyHartsKlub
Posts: 15
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Well, Big, I assume that reply tells everyone alot about the type of person u are. 
Sun, I'm glad your experience was so positive. I'm sure he was a very lucky guy having someone like u to be in a relationship with. Actually, reading your reply made me jealous of him. 
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| Jan 23, 2006 @ 2:04 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,088
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Thanks.
We really did have fun. HE made it easy: spirit and humor...even toward the end when he referred to himself as the ideal mate -- a talking head.
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| Jan 24, 2006 @ 11:09 AM |
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richmondcowgirl83
Posts: 1,062
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I was with a guy who was paralized from the waist down.... we messed around alot if you call that sex. Its the only thing we could do. I miss him. He was the cutest thing I've ever seen.
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| Jan 24, 2006 @ 11:14 AM |
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simplegal873
Posts: 140
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Years ago I dated this stock broker who had lost one leg and wore a prosthetic. Let me tell you... when I first met the guy, I had absolutely no clue. Some friends of mine and I went out after work one evening and I was introduced to him. Very charming, intelligent, and absolutely adorable and a great dancer too! We ended up dating for quite some time and eventually ended up in bed, which is when I found out about the leg. Honestly, it made no difference and none of us really ever considered it or the lack thereof a problem. And yes, it was good.
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| Jan 24, 2006 @ 12:02 PM |
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LonelyHartsKlub
Posts: 15
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Well, it seems like all the women here had very good experiences with someone who was disabled in some way. I will let u know that I started this thread because I am disabled & was curious as to what type of experiences women had had with a disabled person. I, myself have never had a gf.  Before the internet (when I was younger) I assumed women wouldn't be attracted to me because I was paralyzed & in a wheelchair so I never approached them. Being shy didn't help either. Since the internet I've had several online romances (all long distance) that were great, but for various reasons; communication was halted. My last one just ended several days ago due to her finding a real bf. 
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| Jan 26, 2006 @ 8:18 AM |
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justme848
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I’ve never dated anybody with a mantel or physically disability .. But I would . I believe that it’s what’s on the inside that matters .. Not what someone can or can’t do ..
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| Jan 26, 2006 @ 9:17 PM |
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shugMN
Posts: 21
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I was engaged to a guy with spina bifida. He was in a wheelchair.
We didn't break up because of the disability. We broke up because he treated me like dirt.
As for the sex......I hate to say it, but the sex was completely, horribly, and totally awful.
I am not one to be mean about one's "shortcomings", but take a look at your thumb.
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| Jan 27, 2006 @ 12:47 PM |
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LonelyHartsKlub
Posts: 15
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Wowww, Shug, I guess there are some disabled people who can spoil it for the others.  I'm wondering if he was frustrated & angry because he was disabled & took it out on u. There are those out there who seem to just be angry because of their unfortunate situation. I, for one was never that way (although I wasn't overjoyed about it either). I think I'm a pretty romantic & caring guy who likes to please so if I ever had a gf I would definitely put her on a pedestal because I know how very lucky I was to have her.  She would also get my full attention in the bedroom, too. 
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| Jan 27, 2006 @ 12:55 PM |
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shugMN
Posts: 21
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I didn't mean to be so..uhh...mean when I posted. He was insecure so it made my life hell. I lost a lot of friends because of him, he wouldn't let me out of his site etc etc etc.
Last time I talked to him, he was engaged (again, he has been twice since I broke off our engagement) and said he had learned a lot from me. He let her have her time, let her know he trusted her, etc etc.
Maybe if he would of learned this stuff earlier I would be married to him today. I could of looked past the the actual physical sex stuff, cuz he was actually quite adventurous in bed. But I think the way he treated me really tainted the whole relationship.
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| Jan 27, 2006 @ 6:58 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,088
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Shug, sounds a lot like what many males go through. Makes me smile to hear that he learned, even if it was at the expense of what he and you could have had ~sigh~
LonelyHarts, I think it's time that you get out and go visitin' some clubs ...not the head-bangin' type, but someplace where you can 'dance' holdin' hands. ~grin~ and you may even discover a new, more "innocent", definition for 'lap dance'
(I have to admit that with Skip and me, it was made so much easier because he had his caretaker/buddy to do the driving and wheelin', etc. Physically, if it had just been him and me, I don't think I could have handled it on my own...he was twice my size and though "shrunken" at the end, still too heavy for me to pick up and deal day to day with...he needed professional care)
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