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Jan 24, 2006 @ 10:39 AM CLOSE... but no cigar    
zoomzoom511


Posts: 110

It really weird. I've never thought of myself as TOO selective, but...

I've literally gone out with over a dozen girls that I've met online recently.

I've been mentally attracted to a few, but not physically.

I've been physically into a few, even literally... but no one has struck me on an intellectual basis yet...

It's starting to get routinely predictable. Not good. I need the whole deal.

I'm willing to keep trying, but honestly... if it weren't for a few regular effbuddies... i'd be going insane. Especially since I'm way better in a monogamous relationship that lasts... and grows.

And the weirdest part... This one "buddy" is pretty awesome... I get WAY into her... but after sex... can't take listening to her accent. It just wrecks it.

Maybe I'm due for some MATCHDOCTOR MEMBER ANALYSIS... go ahead... analyze my member... Suggestions? or referrals? or whatever...

Mooowahhhhh! Feeling a bit stupid... and always horny.
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Jan 24, 2006 @ 4:48 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
SHORTNSWEET162


Posts: 35
I don't think I can help you, since I'm in the same boat (minus the buddies). I sometimes give the guys longer of a chance if I'm just into their personalities and not especially attracted to them looks-wise. I go on at least a couple of dates before I tell them that I just don't feel a connection. But I'm beginning to get scared that maybe I'm just too picky...but c'mon, we both know that feeling where everything is about as perfect as it can get, and we want it again. That's the thing that keeps us trying for something more than buddies. And I'm not having sex again until I find it. Good luck!
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Feb 23, 2006 @ 4:47 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
Thunderscribe


Posts: 419
I agree, pass the Swisher Sweets.
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Feb 23, 2006 @ 6:13 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
hope67


Posts: 535
why is it so often so , that the ones you just want to be friends with are the ones who fall in love with you ? or i am the only one who has ever had this problem ?
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Feb 23, 2006 @ 10:29 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
Thunderscribe


Posts: 419
hope67,

I'd just like to point out that you are talking about the looks of people that you date, but that your profile doesn't even have a picture.

How do you look?

No, I'm not being an azz. I'm just making a point.
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Feb 25, 2006 @ 3:14 AM CLOSE... but no cigar    
painter007


Posts: 17,854
you picky? try bein single 12 yrs
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Feb 25, 2006 @ 6:16 AM CLOSE... but no cigar    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 11,116
zoomzoom - first off, I'll just get this out of the way. There is NO WAY in this world I would even remotely consider analyzing your "member"...I'm just NOT that kinda guy!!!!

As to the rest of you that entertain the notion that you're "too picky" - you're not. I hate to break the news to you, but you're incredibly normal. We ALL would like to find someone that we are more than a little interested in physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. There's not a thing wrong with wanting it all in one package.

We're all different, so my package will look different that your package (NO zoom zoom, I am NOT going anywhere NEAR your "member"!!!!), but we all want that combination of traits that's perfect for us in one neat little package. (Be right back....gotta go pick up something at the package store....)


hope67 - I had to chuckle at a little flashback:
why is it so often so , that the ones you just want to be friends with are the ones who fall in love with
you ? or i am the only one who has ever had this problem?

Kind of reminded me of the time that someone asked me,
"Do girls bother you?"

I just replied, "No.....I wish they WOULD!!!!"
(Don't know what exactly made me think of that, but I enjoyed the laugh it gave me! Thanks!!!)
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Apr 3, 2006 @ 12:11 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
academicgirl


Posts: 161
Perhaps if you didn't address potential dates as "Love Toy" you'd have better luck finding "the whole package." Your profile is creative, but it sounds like you're just in it for the sex. Nothing personal, JMHO.

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Apr 3, 2006 @ 12:19 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
RachelVaz


Posts: 1,219
Zoom- welcome to the real world
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Apr 3, 2006 @ 7:26 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
mangolover60


Posts: 635
Realworld, yep,

Attractive, Intelligent, Sane

Pick two.
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Apr 6, 2006 @ 3:32 AM CLOSE... but no cigar    
Mark2Pound


Posts: 67
Sometimes a cigar really is a cigar.
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Apr 6, 2006 @ 7:14 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
hope67


Posts: 535
looks are nice but they are not everything . i would rather find an average joe who treats you well then a chippendale hopefull who is stuck on themselves . ( not to say all who look good are vain ) far from it . am i too picky -maybe. or maybe it is just that small town dating sucks . seems like all the good ones are gone .
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Apr 6, 2006 @ 7:23 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
hope67


Posts: 535
thunder -it might sound silly - but- my computer skills begin and end with e-mail and web surfing . .... as far as looks go , , i am short -5 feet even - brown hair - hazel eyes - pale skin that tends to get freckles instead of a tan - the type most would label "cute" .
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Apr 9, 2006 @ 7:51 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
WickedWench


Posts: 1,613
zoomzoom - first off, I'll just get this out of the way. There is NO WAY in this world I would even remotely consider analyzing your "member"...I'm just NOT that kinda guy!!!!




Jester you never fail to make me laugh really loudly.

Thank you.

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Apr 10, 2006 @ 12:22 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
sxy1_069


Posts: 2
how bout just the opposite i love him but he doesnt want me but doesnt want anyone else to have me
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Apr 12, 2006 @ 5:39 PM CLOSE... but no cigar    
hope67


Posts: 535
z z - what would you do / say if you did find someone to ' analyze your member ' and they gave you a ( am i soooo mean - or - what )
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