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Feb 6, 2006 @ 2:19 PM how do you get it out of you head    
richmondcowgirl83


Posts: 1,062
ok heres the story.... you finally get to be with someone you've wanted for as far back as you can remeber, THEY SUCKED!!!! how do you get that thought out of your head?
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Feb 6, 2006 @ 2:23 PM how do you get it out of you head    
notsoplain


Posts: 404
If you are a man it's easy, they don't use there head to think with!
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Feb 6, 2006 @ 2:24 PM how do you get it out of you head    
swingpup


Posts: 4,105
That they sucked? If she did (provided you're a male) then that would be a good thing.....All sucky is good.

It's compared to doing a mathematical equation.....now you have your answer, move on and don't look back.

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Feb 6, 2006 @ 3:56 PM how do you get it out of you head    
BPHREEKEE


Posts: 223
Richmond, first times don't always count...there's a lot to take into account, including nervousness...was there drinking? I usually give it a second shot, and more often than not I'm pleasantly suprised..except in the case of the 3 pump chump that's actually pleased with the whole experience
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Feb 6, 2006 @ 4:09 PM how do you get it out of you head    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
the 3 pump chump



But yeppers, BP is right, the first time with someone is often a learning curve, a time when they MAY be some nervousness and embarrassment, and it certainly isn't always a true indication of whether or not the sex between you will be wonderful or crappy...
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Feb 6, 2006 @ 4:22 PM how do you get it out of you head    
Heaveninawildflower


Posts: 18,613
Absolutely right BP!! If it was emotional for you, it might have been just as much for him too...give it time, lots of it; if there's an emotional connection already, you may be absolutely blown away by what happens physically down the road...
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Feb 6, 2006 @ 4:23 PM how do you get it out of you head    
lukleslov


Posts: 36
You don't, you figure there was a reason you hadnt been with him in all these years, and next guy you find yourself drooling away over...just keep drooling...
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Feb 6, 2006 @ 4:31 PM how do you get it out of you head    
father_heart


Posts: 1,110
ouchthats sad.
whats more important the sex or the person you wanted to share that time with.
if ya just in it for the roll, ya should be able to forget about it soon enough. like the last peice of toilet you used.
the act of doing or is it the act of sharing.
for me when the clothes come off, ( love that term!!!)
i perfer the sharing, seems you always find that nirvana together then.
oh, and COME BACK TO BED, LOVE THAT ONE TOOO
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Feb 6, 2006 @ 6:33 PM how do you get it out of you head    
exiled131


Posts: 1,808
richmond, been there, done that. you build so much anticipation into it and then when you finally get the chance...it's gone. the thrill is gone and it is gone for good. guess maybe the hunt was alot better than the catch.
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Feb 6, 2006 @ 8:59 PM how do you get it out of you head    
richmondcowgirl83


Posts: 1,062
I'll give him another try if he comes my way again... this hook-up was a surprise (we ran into each other at a party... note he's a friend from another state)
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Feb 7, 2006 @ 1:00 PM how do you get it out of you head    
Lee_Danger


Posts: 4,517
That should be easy compared to the opposite situation. What if he was the best you ever had and you could never have him again?? Now... that sucks!
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Feb 7, 2006 @ 1:35 PM how do you get it out of you head    
jestlookinrnd


Posts: 25
I'm trying to go over the "reasons you could never have" someone again after they turned out to be the best you have ever had...


Care to elaborate?
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Feb 7, 2006 @ 5:40 PM how do you get it out of you head    
Lee_Danger


Posts: 4,517
It could be plenty of reasons..... just because you're compatible in bed, doesn't mean you're compatible in any other area of your life. Or, circumstances just aren't right... long distance, etc. In my case... the guy just turned out to be a really really bad man.
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Feb 9, 2006 @ 12:35 AM how do you get it out of you head    
stormy73


Posts: 1,181
How do I get it out of MY head? It usually just squirts out on it's own!
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Feb 11, 2006 @ 8:10 AM how do you get it out of you head    
GraciePa


Posts: 355
Freshen Up gum *squirts*.....does that count?
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