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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 11:16 AM |
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richmondcowgirl83
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Do guys know that they suck in bed? I recently slept with this guy who was just horrid I was going to give him another try until I found out he thought he was great.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 11:30 AM |
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Lee_Danger
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Do guys know that they suck in bed?
I think... half don't know and the other half don't care. 
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 1:30 PM |
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chinabull2000
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I think... half don't know and the other half don't care. LOL yes, I reckon you're right Lee.
Personally I don't get the people (men and women alike) who don't care as long as they get their own enjoyment.... I find as much pleasure from seeing my partner enjoying herself as I do from getting pleasure myself, and would simply hate it if my partner thought I was crappy in bed.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 1:32 PM |
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jestlookinrnd
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Ehhh I know it already...and it's not that I don't care...it's more like there is only sooooo much you can do about your genetics.... 
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 2:05 PM |
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swingpup
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Most all if not all women that I sleep with ask before indulging if afterwards we are able to do a debriefing at the conclusion of play time. This is the time that both parties converse as well as compare notes on how they as well as I did through out the entire event.
If all women in every part of the country or world for that matter did this, all of us males would know without firing up our Crystal Balls how we performed.
Is this action confined only to the Midwest? 
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 3:26 PM |
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13lucky
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 compare notes..?? As silly as that sounds.. I think that if a couple had more communications about their sex lives..there would be less playing around..
None of us are perfect for each partner we are with..Some click some don't..If you don't then you can't wait to leave..but if the vibe is there ..not much needs said.
But ..I would like to be told if you like this or that :) I'll do most things but as you know most can't be done everynight so communications in this area would help the fine sexual tuning in the relationship :)
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 3:29 PM |
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father_heart
Posts: 1,110
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its not just men. Come on I have taken better morning spisses that were more toe curling the that bowl of chili she called her box.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 3:32 PM |
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zulamaze
Posts: 1,266
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oh father -- how cruel
And if they sux in bed -- help them...
tell them what you want -- they can't read our minds.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:12 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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compare notes..?? As silly as that sounds.. I think that if a couple had more communications about their sex lives..there would be less playing around..
None of us are perfect for each partner we are with..Some click some don't..If you don't then you can't wait to leave..but if the vibe is there ..not much needs said.
But ..I would like to be told if you like this or that :) I'll do most things but as you know most can't be done everynight so communications in this area would help the fine sexual tuning in the relationship :)
Got MOUTH? Talk with it. and well...... Have pen and paper will travel 
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:16 PM |
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father_heart
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And if they sux in bed -- help them...
tell them what you want -- they can't read our minds
thats kind of my point silly one
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:25 PM |
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painter007
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It is always good....and willing to teach and be taught.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 4:59 PM |
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father_heart
Posts: 1,110
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exploring your love life with your lover
sounds noble to me
shouldnt be hung up and the right nows its ther wheres ya growing
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 5:26 PM |
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BPHREEKEE
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Communication is a good thing, but only works if both are willing, I had a bf, very long term, that settled into a set sexual routine. It worked so stick with it...but that becomes a bit monotonious...I tried for a very long time to change things, but if I initiated sex or changed the "routine" things just didn't work.We talked, I tried lingerie, role play, lotions, potions and toys, but the routine was just so set in him that he COULDN'T do things any other way. Eventually sex just tapered off to nothing because the "routine" just didn't work for me anymore.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 6:02 PM |
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father_heart
Posts: 1,110
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just a ponderence, prehaps he didnt know how to have the open comunication,....
I sure in the hell didnt dont. Yet i know its important And Im gona try.
then again there are those that are just lazy.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 6:37 PM |
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suzieq0808
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The last guy I was with, there was very little talking but lots of communication. Afterwards, he commented on the unspoken communication. I agreed. Communication is key whether it be verbal, eye contact, body language. At different times, one or the other or all are needed.
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| Feb 7, 2006 @ 7:04 PM |
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simplegal873
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I personally think that the ones who are awful, DO know and just not quite sure how to deal with it due to inhibitions, etc. or (like my ex became) simply just don't give a d**m. Eventually I just moved to another bedroom, yes it was THAT bad, and from there, out the door!
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| Feb 9, 2006 @ 2:00 AM |
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imotherearth
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You tell those guys their good and send them on their way, not give them another chance.
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| Feb 9, 2006 @ 2:12 AM |
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painter007
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Just ask for a little help from your friend. sharing and learning is ooolala
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| Feb 9, 2006 @ 2:03 PM |
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waterfire
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Yes both men and women can be bad in bed, but after time it does get better. Accepting each others limits and desires, trying new things , and of course caring.
Jim
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| Feb 9, 2006 @ 2:28 PM |
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vicryder
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I know I'm good, I'm always satisfied. 
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