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| Feb 9, 2006 @ 7:29 PM |
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bigboy37042
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I don't know if this is a rarity ornot, but I can't have an orgasm until I know that my partner has had one.....no matter how I gotta do it.....short of being defecated on that is
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| Feb 9, 2006 @ 10:05 PM |
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greenizenora
Posts: 629
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Hey Richmond. . .maybe it's not so much he sucked in the sack.
Maybe it's more that what you've had in the past has been incredible.
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| Feb 15, 2006 @ 4:44 PM |
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hope67
Posts: 535
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so far i have met the ones, who only care that they get some , who are looking for someone to give them a kid , the one who disapears when you tell hiim you are falling for him after he claimed we were soulmates , and the ones who fall for you that you only want to be friends with .  so where are all the really good ones 
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| Feb 20, 2006 @ 12:45 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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I had a bf, very long term, that settled into a set sexual routine. It worked so stick with it...but that becomes a bit monotonious...I tried for a very long time to change things, but if I initiated sex or changed the "routine" things just didn't work.We talked, I tried lingerie, role play, lotions, potions and toys, but the routine was just so set in him that he COULDN'T do things any other way. Eventually sex just tapered off to nothing because the "routine" just didn't work for me anymore.
Unfortunately, THIS is the rule, not the exception. It's not at all unusual for things to be GREAT in the beginning, and the guy thinks, "Fantastic! I figured out how to make her feel absolutely WONDERFUL!" And, like you said, it worked - so he stuck with it.
Unfortuately, the rule for women is that they DO get bored with the same old routine, and want something new and different, something surprising, some variety, something to spice things up - with the same person. Only we don't know this. In fact, we're completely CLUELESS. We're still operating from the original impression we got from you when things were great. We have NO IDEA that what once was great now SUCKS....and usually because it IS just too routine - too PREDICTABLE!
Did someone say something about communication? NOW would be a good time to communicate, don't you think? And not to put the burden on the women here unnecessarily, but...if we guys think things are great, AND if we have this intense desire to satisfy YOU, AND if you're now not being satisfied...just remember that we really ARE "dumb as a brick" and TELL US WHAT YOU'D LIKE! You might be surprised at the wonderful responses you'd get!
And I've always said, "If two people can't communicate, the very least they can do is to shut up!"
[Edited on 2/20/2006 12:54 AM]
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| Feb 20, 2006 @ 7:04 AM |
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Rac87el
Posts: 23
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well where were you when cowgirl needed some good  lol hell where were you when I needed some good too.
I sympathize with you cowgirl I just went thru the same thing except the dude didnt just suck in bed he messed my stuff up, I was sore and bled for 9 days.
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| Feb 20, 2006 @ 9:04 AM |
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BPHREEKEE
Posts: 223
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Well Jester, communication IS the key, AMEN.....but doesn't help if the other party isn't LISTENING...even if you get specific (and I did). It does take 2, and if only one is willing to try it doesn't work...some old dogs CAN'T learn new tricks, or just don't want to....it was still good for him...so it was good enough...
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| Feb 20, 2006 @ 9:26 AM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,773
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When you found out he thought he was great, maybe talking to him about it would have helped improve it if you gave him another try. You must have thought there was something there to think about doing it again? Yeah, I think some of them think they aren't doing something right if you aren't responding how they would like. (If you weren't, and he still thought he was great-what's up with that?!)
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| Feb 20, 2006 @ 11:04 AM |
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torees121
Posts: 739
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The last guy I was with (the 3 pump man) thought he was good. he was worried about it afterwards and kept asking if he was as good as others I had been with.....NO!
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| Feb 20, 2006 @ 11:25 AM |
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AngelLight
Posts: 5,631
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Communication is key on both ends.
And if after communicating things still aren't good, see a sex therapist
And if that doesn't work and noone is pleased, stop having sex?
Both parties are responsible for letting the other know what they need or desire.
The responsibility does not rest with one person. Noone can read anyone else's mind.
[Edited on 2/20/2006 11:31 AM]
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| Feb 20, 2006 @ 12:38 PM |
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JesterDrawers
Posts: 11,124
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Well Jester, communication IS the key, AMEN.....but doesn't help if the other party isn't LISTENING...
Point well taken...when I said that, I was ASSUMING that the other party was not only listening, but was interested in LEARNING something as well - I know I would be!!!!!
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| Feb 23, 2006 @ 12:34 AM |
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Say_Yes
Posts: 2,256
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Sex is like driving a car. Almost everyone thinks that they are good at it, but in truth they are not as good as they believe.
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| Feb 23, 2006 @ 12:46 AM |
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BrokeLostUnhappyandHorny
Posts: 117
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Speaking of sex and cars,
When I use Viagra,
It's like driving a souped up
big block Hemi.
With this s***
you don't need to know
anything...it pracIically
drives itself!
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| Feb 23, 2006 @ 1:05 AM |
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Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
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Do guys know that they suck in bed?
Is that all some or most ?
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| Feb 24, 2006 @ 3:19 AM |
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Hotshot_79
Posts: 63
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I had a saying after my divorce, Men are only good for one thing, and 1/2 of them aren't even good at that.
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| Feb 24, 2006 @ 3:24 AM |
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RAKS37
Posts: 617
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Believe it or not
a woman can be bad at this too
Now if you care to continue the relationship
How do you tell them?
I tried to tell a girl once how her kisses might be just a bit better.
Man was I kicked to the curb pretty quick
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| Feb 24, 2006 @ 5:00 PM |
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father_heart
Posts: 1,110
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ive had better
HA!
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| Feb 26, 2006 @ 2:43 AM |
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Rac87el
Posts: 23
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ok see if a guy wanted to suggest that I do something differently to please him ...I would try it because I would want him to feel good... But now from my experience I always make sure the guy gets what he wants and once he gets his, he figures he can treat me anyway he wants, so I get left hanging....so I've never ever had an orgasm
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| Feb 26, 2006 @ 5:24 AM |
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Thunderscribe
Posts: 419
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I realize that a lot of guys just get on top and flop around.
However, I have to say that I prefer to see the woman enjoy herself. It does as much for me as my own pleasure. I feel like I've accomplished something.
Plus, if you're bad in bed, it gets around.
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 1:41 AM |
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Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
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Men have no more of a patent on being a bad or good lay than a woman. Categorization is a bad starting point for people. It's the equivalent in saying all women with blue hair are dry.
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| Feb 27, 2006 @ 3:25 AM |
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GoneGood2Better
Posts: 5
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When I had to start faking with my ex and she was the female; I knew something was wrong...I figured after the relationship that I was emotionally turned off...so yeah it wasn't good for me, but she still got off all the time 
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