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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 12:53 PM |
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Sabrina806
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Scenario: You offer your man your 'services' whenever he requires them yet when you come home early from work he's "hard at work" himself - what do you do? How does this make us feel ladies?
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 1:12 PM |
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SVT_MAN75
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It's just a "pre-game" show... he's warming up!!
JUST KIDDING!!
I wouldn't choke the chicken if i knew my girl wanted to help me. Half the fun of being ina relation ship is giving your hand/batteries a rest.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 2:40 PM |
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lj450
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Beats the hell out of cheating.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 2:49 PM |
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Sabrina806
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Do you think the majority of men tell their partners that they have done this or do it in secret?
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 2:52 PM |
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MI_Hockey_Plyr
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I don't think thats a big secret. Any guy that says he isn't is full of s***. Maybe some do it a little more than others but don't kid yourself, EVERy guy does it.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 2:57 PM |
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Sabrina806
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If it becomes a regular thing doesn't it make us feel that we're not wanted as much as he wants his right hand?
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:01 PM |
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bluevelvet759
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Hell, if it was up to my man, I'd have to be available 24/7. Sometimes it's nice to have a bit of a break. I go out of my way to make sure he has a fresh supply of new mags, porn videos, and lube. It's like "here you go darlin, help yourself". Sometimes I do have to go to work lol. I've never felt bad about it, and it's always be a subject we're up front about.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:03 PM |
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lj450
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ALLLLLLLL GUYS DO......
A guy goes to the Dr and says Doc, Ive got a problem.....Doc says, whats the problem.....guy says....well, every morning when i wake up my wife wants to give me a bj, then on my way to work, the girl at the donut shop wants to have sex with me, then every day, my secretary wants to do it two or three times at lunchtime.....needless to say, when I get home, my wife wants to go at it for a while......this happens to me every day of my life doc......doctor looks at him like hes crazy and goes.......dang, sounds like youve got it good, whats the problem......guy goes......well, it hurts when i jack off.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:18 PM |
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Sabrina806
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I guess the problem just comes when your man doesn't show enough interest in you but is always interested in masturbating - does masturbation reduce desire or increase it - what have you guys found?
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:33 PM |
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lj450
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It doesnt affect my desire or sexual appetite in any way....I could be finishing up and have my g/f walk in and want to do it, and I would be all over it. I never choose the hand towel over my partner, but for times when shes not in the mood, or I know its not a good time of the month.....I will make sure Im not dying for sex when she comes home. If he ever tells you......Nah, I wanna save myself to jack off later.......I would consider that a serious problem.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:37 PM |
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Sabrina806
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If your girlfriend didn't like you doing it or told you to stop because it hurt her feelings what would you think?
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:47 PM |
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lj450
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I would think she better be ready to get it on with the frequency of a porn star. Otherwise, I would consider her to be selfish. Everyones sex drive isnt the same. If he is wankin off to some nameless, speechless porno pictures or videos.....I dont see what the problem is, hes definitely not cheating on you. Do you feel like he is doing it too much and then not being aggressive enough with you? Perhaps you should take more initiative in the bedroom.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:52 PM |
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Sabrina806
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Yeah I just feel he doesnt want it enough with me even though I think "I've got it going on" - he says knocking one out is just 'different' - I don't get it enough, he is too busy watching sport or tired etc. 
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:56 PM |
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lj450
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Ever thought of......knockin a few out for yourself? Go double click your mouse a while, read books, buy toys.....society has made it shameful for a woman to explore her sexuality, but theres plenty out there to corrupt you if you open your eyes. Use the old....if you cant beat em, join em.....philosophy, who knows it might turn him on to see you havin fun without him.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 4:02 PM |
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Sabrina806
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Yeah its not that I want - its the real deal !! Off now, cheers for chat.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 4:02 PM |
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Teddy_Bear050
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I find it odd that he prefers jerkin off to sex, but to each his own. The only time I find jerkin off to be any good is if I'm away from my s/o and can't have sex with them. Then it's nice to fantasize about trying new things, or even past things we've done. lol, actually the last girl I was with masturbated a lot! If I wasn't around, she'd be all over it. She even took most of my porn. I never had a problem with it, and it was actually really nice to have someone who was as sexually agressive as myself.
So I guess you should just let him be. If your sex life really starts to decline as a result, then maybe talk to him and ask if there's something wrong. Odds are, he's just doing it so that he can last longer when he's with you. I mean especially if he was doing it before you got home.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 4:02 PM |
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freestylegreek
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Sabrina I can always go for masturbating in a relationship.
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 4:54 PM |
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KnightInShiningArmor
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I just think it makes the relationship healthier. 
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 5:48 PM |
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bryan2992
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I agree with most here, if he is horny all day every day and your sex drive has you only wanting it a few times a week, then let him have fun alone.. or spice it up for both of you and watch him then let him watch you
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| Nov 10, 2005 @ 5:56 PM |
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Xavier0777
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Yeah what the guy said about spicing it up. Go get a book about scenarios and try a few with your man. Or buy something out of the ordinary. Hell walk around the house naked with a bow on, and when he tries to take it off, smack his hand. Tell him no no dessert till he is a good boy or some s***. Take control to a certain degree, make him want to stop wanking himself and make him want you.
The whole thing is aggression, do not just sit idley by, take control. Hell if nothing else sit infront of him and the tv and maturbate yourself "oh gawd I said the other thread title"  He will surely be affixed to you by then, and then your orgasam knowing he is watching you and vice versa will rock.
Just a thought.
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