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Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:47 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
MI_Hockey_Plyr


Posts: 49
I would have to say 25-40% of the little blips people (guys) in genereal are actually genuine. The rest of the stuff I read seems to be a bunch of politically correct, trying not to show your real views, afraid to SEEM like an ass to somebody, crap. Its frustrating to actually have to go through some of this bs to get to something genuine somebody wrote. I read so much stuff from guys trying to sound like a nice guy because they're afraid. thats all I can say about it. They're p ussies.
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:50 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
lj450


Posts: 9,551
well said brother
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:55 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
single_stl_dad


Posts: 64
My personal favorite "lies" are when you meet someone in person for the first time, and you discover that their pictures are 10 years old....

.... or 100 pounds lighter

.... or they "forgot" to mention they were married

.... or perhaps that small issue about their homelessness

The list goes on...... I've seen it all. I know guys are just as bad.... these are just my experiences (Yes, they've all happened to me)
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 3:59 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
lj450


Posts: 9,551
so you hooked up with an elderly, overweight, homeless person? AND YOU TOLD PEOPLE ABOUT IT????
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 4:21 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
Teddy_Bear050


Posts: 91
ROFL, thats hillarious.
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 4:30 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
single_stl_dad


Posts: 64
Of course I did----LOL

Lets just say that none of the dates lasted that long---LOL

No kidding...... All BS aside...... it was about 2 months ago..... I went on a date with a woman that LITERALLY was 100 pounds heavier than she said she was.

Now.... she didn't give me some BS answer to my weight inquiry like "Oh, I'm just average"..... she actually said to me "I'm 5 ft 7, and 150 pounds".

That night..... she showed up and was 250... at least.
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 9:01 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
bluevelvet759


Posts: 49
You guys are a blast! I have to say, I find certain women folk on these forums to be a bit high on themselves and yes a few of the guys are kissing butt pretty hard to get brownie points. I have to admit though I do try to watch what I'm saying in here on certain topics, there seem to be a few "groups" of friends in here that more or less run the show.
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 9:34 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
freestylegreek


Posts: 220
I like to be truthful and genuine all the time. I hate people who ive met off other sites that tell me something and i expect that but its a total lie.
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 9:48 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
MischeviousAngel


Posts: 277
I am plus sized... I openly admit it... My pic on my profile is REALLY me and was taken in August. Not hiding a thing.

I am a warped redhead with a wicked sense of humor... I openly admit that.

I have 5 children ranging in age from 25 down to 2... I am not hiding them... and my personal ethics won't let me date anyone who isn't at least 5 years older than my oldest child.

I am a Crabby, Hard-A$$ed Biotch and I openly admit it...

As I said in chat earlier... there are probably less than 1000 men on the North American Continent who would be interested in me... and I am a suspicious woman.

People from here who have met me in person will tell you that with me what I appear to be is what I AM. I am maybe a tad more "wild" in person than I am online but essentially what you see is what you get... If people can't deal with it then that is just too {expeletive deleted} bad!

Angel
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 9:49 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
medusa642


Posts: 62
Hats of to MI Hockey Plyr, and to everyone responding honestly to this forum It is so refreshing to see people voice their true opinions. There was a point when I thought most of the people on here must have been going through the motions of a "polite ass kissing conversation" that they only wanted to say, what they thought you wanted to hear.

Thank you everyone on this forum for restoring my faith and a special thank you to Hockey Plyr.
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 1:35 AM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
DragonsDream


Posts: 220
Can you guess if I am real or not? lol
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 1:57 AM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
swingpup


Posts: 4,105
Honesty is still the best policy, tell it as it is. If people don't like it.....so sad to bad. Way to go MI.

One thing is certain the drama and the BS on the net will continue as it has. If nothing else it's total entertainment.

Hey single.......maybe she used to be 7' tall....she lost height and gained weight...LOL
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 2:46 AM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
grumblebear


Posts: 10,559
I come on here to laugh, and communicate with people, I don't feel a need to try to impress or catch anyone, or anything...

Life is hard enough to juggle real, lol, let alone if you try to lie, and then keep track of you prevarication....
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 5:07 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
single_stl_dad


Posts: 64
Mischievious angel...... no one is ragging on you for being honest.... in fact, you get more repect because you are. Besides.... not every guy out there likes crackhead-skinny women.

Dragon's dream..... Real??? I dunno... but you sure look yummi :) You into enemas??? LOL :o)
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 5:17 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
MischeviousAngel


Posts: 277
Single dad...

I didn't think that anyone was ragging on me for being honest... LOL

Love me or hate me I really don't care.
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 5:22 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
single_stl_dad


Posts: 64
Mischievious...

No..... no one was "ragging" on you.... but your words came across to me like you were someone that was fed up with men in general... because too many of them pre-judged you based on your weight alone. Thats the impression I got anyway.. and I'm quite sure I'm not alone.

I was paying you a compliment for your honesty and straightforwardness.... thats tough to find online.

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Nov 11, 2005 @ 5:30 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
MischeviousAngel


Posts: 277
Nope... what irritated me was the implication that most people are dishonest rather than honest. I have met many people online and have transferred those relationships to the "real world" and found that less than 1% of the people that I initially met online are less than genuine.

I have met something in the neighborhood of 30 people from Matchdoctor alone (and something in the neighborhood of 2 oe 3 hundred all told) in the last 2 years and with ONE exception they have all been pretty wonderful people.

I also have to say that I am VERY cautious about who I give my personal information to so not everyone who I 'meet' online is going to know what my real name is or what my home email address is or the name of the company that I work for is...those are just bits of information that I prefer NOT to hand out to just anyone that I talk to.
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 5:51 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
lj450


Posts: 9,551
Sounds like you have had some good experiences, but Im gonna have to agree with st louis here. PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET LIE!!!!!!!!!! and Im one of those people who were taught not to believe any of what you hear, and only half of what you see.
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 5:58 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
peaches_n_cream2002


Posts: 302
I've learned it's not worth it to be deceptive. I have, in the past, been very dishonest with people I was talking to online. I was out to impress people, and I did, but when the truth came out, I was left alone. At that time I assumed it was because people weren't into who I really was. However, I now know that I was left alone because nobody likes dishonesty.

So, lessons learned, I'm 110% honest at all times. It's not worth losing someone I care about due to my stupidity.
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 6:17 PM Being Genuine-Most People On Here Arent    
freestylegreek


Posts: 220
Peaches im the same way i been honest and people cant handle that nor do they still want to get to know me. I find it sad that someone says something to me and when i meet them there totally different from what they said.
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