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how important is sex in a relationship?


Nov 10, 2005 @ 10:00 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
bryan2992


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alright everyone, try this, how important is sex to a relationship? should it rank as high as love and honesty? or be one of the last things on the list?
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 10:01 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
freestylegreek


Posts: 220
I think it should be important cause when your in a relationship and theres no sex its like your just friends.
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 10:18 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
Scooterkist


Posts: 83
I'd put it in the top 5.
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 11:21 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
swingpup


Posts: 4,041
Most certainly. In my opinion to actually begin any type of "relationship" other then a purely platonic (amour socraticus) one must first test the waters.

In the event the sex isn't good to great after logging adequate bed time, then a long term relationship would be out of the question. If the sex is good it maybe able to be dialed in and tweaked to great. Less then good......she would be a once in a while "platonic friend".
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Nov 10, 2005 @ 11:26 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
DragonsDream


Posts: 220
Personally, all should be equaly important, just got out of a relationship where the sex was great and often, but because of other differences didn't work out. Took 8 years to figure that one out..
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 12:11 AM how important is sex in a relationship?    
corvette_racing


Posts: 323
It probably depends on the person.. I only know that it is very important to me... If my s/o would consistently turn me down for sex, I might consider ending the relationship.. (unless there's a temporary medical reason that she doesn't want or can have sex).
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 12:58 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
MI_Hockey_Plyr


Posts: 49
I don't know about that swing pup. If your looking for a serious relationship, starting it out with sex isn't the best way. You can work on lousy sex and make it better but you cant work on a crappy personality. or uncompatibility for that matter. I too got out of a relationship where the sex was great from the first night we met but the rest of the time was hell.
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 8:29 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
misspam44


Posts: 14
sex in great in a relationship but you also have to be friends and be compatiable together .
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 8:49 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
exiled131


Posts: 1,808
1) communication
2) similar interests(compatibility)
3) sex

now if you can talk about your mutual interests while having mutual orgasms- you are perfect together.
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Nov 11, 2005 @ 11:51 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
definitelydi


Posts: 12,602
How bout' mutual multiple orgasams? Hehe!

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Nov 13, 2005 @ 12:01 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
superballz


Posts: 3
i think the most important thing in a relationship is feelings. i love to just sit there or lay there and hold my wife in my arms. the warm feeling inside me takes over. its comforting. but dont get me wrong, sex is something i like alot but its not the most important thing in the relationship. making my wife feel loved and comforted is the most important thing to me. feels good to see her smile with a true, deep down smile.
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Nov 13, 2005 @ 3:19 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
Teddy_Bear050


Posts: 91
To me, sex is like a hobby. It's something that I know how to do, and have no problem helping my partner with if she's lacking. So there are a long list of things which come first, personality being at the top. If the sex isn't that great, oh well, it'll just be a month or so and I'm sure that it'll get better. After all, if your partner is into you they're going to try and please you as much as possible.

Now, if the partner your with is sexually dead, i.e. they just don't like sex, don't want to have it, well that might be an issue for some people.
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Nov 13, 2005 @ 3:57 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
Snappygoddess


Posts: 3,598
Great sex begins with great communication and openly sharing needs and desires...mutually!
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Nov 13, 2005 @ 5:51 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
Wibber


Posts: 162
I think it's part of the whole package, but the other things would come first as part of getting to know the person-- communication and honesty, feelings of wanting to be close to a person, then after you are comfortable with each other for a period of time, sex would naturally enter the equation. When you're in a relationship it should be part of your overall communication and expressing of feelings for each other.
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Nov 13, 2005 @ 7:42 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
imlost2


Posts: 69
I think you have great, loving sex, it makes other daily problems in life easier to handle, discuss, and get over. Passion between two people makes it easier to not make mountains out of moehills. Didn't ya ever notice if sex is out of the picture, everyday life seems to be a struggle and little things get on your nerves? I wonder if there is a relationship between the two? anyone know?
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Nov 14, 2005 @ 7:15 AM how important is sex in a relationship?    
carriageman


Posts: 20
well look at relationship as a piece of furniture and that is pegged and mortised together.. this is the basics of the piece. they are communication respect and most of all honesty...... sex is the real glue that holds this all togehter ..... makes it stable..... makes it strong .... but as we all know sex can take many forms or styles this is all part of those basics sturctures of communications respect and honesty
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Nov 17, 2005 @ 10:01 AM how important is sex in a relationship?    
lj450


Posts: 7,879
I like to have sex on the furniture
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Nov 17, 2005 @ 12:21 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
13lucky


Posts: 304
A relationship without sex = room mate

My ex decided after 15 years of marriage that she didn't like sex anymore..So after trying to fix her/me and everything in between..for another 15 years..I walked because of it..Without sex you have no passion..romance..tenderness..it all goes away because you loose your connection..

Sex has to be part of the equation..it's what erases all the bad..mellows the moods..reminds you why you love them..
HEY IMLOST2 said it first :)

Sex is very important.. Plus no sex no shopping

[Edited on 11/17/2005 12:24 PM]
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Nov 17, 2005 @ 12:22 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
hot_chick


Posts: 50
everything depends
at the beginning of the relationship is one of the top 5 priorities
after a couple months or even years of the relationship is not to important... maybe in the bottom 5...
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Nov 17, 2005 @ 12:28 PM how important is sex in a relationship?    
Kimmaranclh


Posts: 132
To me..sex is very important..but it's not the #1 thing on the list...Maybe #3...lol. Sex CAN break a relationship if it's not satisfying. Can't fake chemistry...
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