|
page:
<<
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
>>
of 1 pages
|
< previous page | next page >
|
| Mar 12, 2006 @ 1:55 PM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm
|
|
torees121
Posts: 739
|
Guys have you ever been working on a girl and it took her forever to orgasm? How does that make you feel? What if you are ready to blow and she hasn't had hers yet.
Girls have you ever "faked it" because you thought it was taking you too long to orgasm? Or did you hold out and make him keep working on you no matter how long it took?
|
|
  |
|
| Mar 12, 2006 @ 3:51 PM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm |
|
torees121
Posts: 739
|
well isnt that what lovers supose to be?
Yes that is how they are SUPPOSE to be, but some may not always be that way. I know that if I am taking longer than normal I start to feel guilty that so much time is being spent on me and I am in the process delaying satisfaction in someone else.
|
| |
|
| Mar 12, 2006 @ 3:56 PM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm
|
|
definitelydi
Posts: 12,602
|
If it's not happening, it's just not happening. I'm honest about it and generally give him a cue to "move along," because if he's pleased then so am I. Of course, not as pleased as if I came too! I know he'll make it up to me later when I'm ready! 
|
|
| |
|
| Mar 12, 2006 @ 4:11 PM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm |
|
JesterDrawers
Posts: 11,116
|
Guys have you ever been working on a girl and it took her forever to orgasm?
I think we've all beed down this road at one time or another....
How does that make you feel? Usually, tired by the time she does? As far as making me feel badly in some what, though, nope! Can't say that it does. There are many reasons why she takes longer (or maybe not at all) than usual - overly fatigued, tensions of the day, something preoccupying her, a whole host of things, so I can't feel badly. (Unless she won't talk about what's on her mind...but that's a different subject entirely.)
What if you are ready to blow and she hasn't had hers yet What if? Just make sure she gets hers anyway, unless she tells you to stop.
|
| |
|
| Mar 12, 2006 @ 4:43 PM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm
|
|
Wulfchyld
Posts: 459
|
Try a little atmosphere to put her in the room with you. Be attentive and consider Mr winky can wait awhile. Have a nice kissing session to keep her in the room with you. Appreciate and lavish every inch of her body let her know that it pleases you and you appreciate all of her. Enjoy getting her there manually, and then orally. If you can bring it before penetration she wont be disappointed. The most difficult problem I face is from women who don’t think multiples is possible and want to wait till you come together. Makes for a very long and wonderful night. If you are worried about premature hubba hubba, don’t sweat it. Spend more time lavishing her body. If you lose control after penetration she wont hold it against you after she has been satisfied.
|
|
| |
|
| Mar 12, 2006 @ 4:48 PM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm |
|
torees121
Posts: 739
|
Wulf---all very true. I can say that coming together is a wonderful experience, but it doesn't happen often. In my experiences one usually comes before the other. I like to get mine first, then he can have his while I am working on my second one.
|
| |
|
| Mar 12, 2006 @ 5:59 PM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm
|
|
painter007
Posts: 17,854
|
sometimes it can happen, but always willing to lend a helping hand and if showin is whats needed....Im there for them
|
|
| |
|
| Mar 13, 2006 @ 12:34 AM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm |
|
Silvertongue62
Posts: 6,932
|
Let me put my combat helmet on before I reply to this post. Ok here it goes.........LOL.
I will try not to get too technical..............
We all speak to each other with our bodies while engaging in any physical activities. Intimatcy is no exception. Everything that we feel is first filtered through our minds/brains. I have never subscribed to the theory that if I rub the bottle long enough a jeannie will eventually appear. What happens when you do help her bloom? Do you immediately go to the same place everytime? That becomes old and stale very quickly. But I do believe as a lover it is my job to find as many ways as I can to please my lover. With that said I have never found it to be a task to aid a woman in her attempts to bloom. i think the song writter describes it best ( "In the way her body spoke to me, It was mind blowing" ). I do beleive I have had several post that address such an issue. One was called "Pay Attention" and the other was "Cause and Effect".
There is also an old saying which says "You can't beat the response". What does she do when i do this. How does she respond when I do this. And if (this) doesnt work try something else. As a man I also feel it is paramount to arm ourselves with knowlege, especially about the female anatomy and the physical touch & etique. I have also found that arousal for men is alot higher when he can take her out on a limb. Meaning, the higher he can get her, the harder he will get. There is no more pleasure in getting than there is in giving. The true pleasure is to watch as her muscles start to tighten, while her body does a dance all it's own. her legs start to tremble as her toes slowly begin to curl. She tries to maintain composure as her lungs beg for more air in taking deeper breaths. all of these are responses to something. Pay attention and you wont have to wait for her to bloom. After she blossoms dont quit. Find another way to get her there. Share a part of you with her and I dont mean your tool but a part of what you feel with her and the discovery will start. Understand that true love making is not an act but an expression of what you feel. I will not and I do not claim to be an expert. I only say listen to her body as it speaks to you and you will not find yourself waiting.
(JMO) of course!
|
| |
|
| Mar 13, 2006 @ 12:55 AM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm
|
|
torees121
Posts: 739
|
Silver----all I can say is WOW!!!! 
|
|
| |
|
| Mar 13, 2006 @ 1:06 AM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm |
|
luvshorses644
Posts: 1,571
|
K.. reading Wulf and Silver's posts...I was going to take a warm shower ..but now I be needing a much cooler one...
I am in agreement with Jester about why it might be taking longer... there are plenty of outside factors.. but if there is genuine feelings between you both and the willingness to try to please each other in every way possible, there need be no hurt feelings, as you both have shared of yourselves to each other. After all isn't making love supposed to be about give and take. Touch, gentle, yet loving, slow rakes of the hands, exploring every inch of the body..followed by a light raking of the nails down from the shoulder over the chest, stopping and playing slowly in the navel, travelling down the thighs to the toes, followed thereafter by the tongue slowly moving back up ... and watch which of these moves makes her quiver.. follow up with that, touch again in a little different way.. watch for the reaction again. Listen to her breathing, you will get signals as to what is sending her over ...whisper softly to her what you find so beautiful about her and how you get turned on just by the mere thought of touching her like this...
Speaking only from my opinion, if this much attention was paid to me, I would be gone again and again, and I would then be able to make sure *Mr. Winkey?*.. nah, how bout we call him "THUNDER".. is reciprocated as well maintaining his play ground reserved specifically for me...
I need to go now...
|
| |
|
| Mar 13, 2006 @ 2:26 AM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm
|
|
imotherearth
Posts: 75
|
I don't cum during sex, but i enjoy it, usually i dont tell who im with about it because im too busy enjoying myself, fianlly hes like the hell?
|
|
| |
|
| Mar 18, 2006 @ 11:01 PM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm |
|
AngelLight
Posts: 5,620
|
Gentlemen, Gentlemen  Drs Wulf and Silvertongue will be in room 62 providing sex education to all interested men who are seeking to please their women......this class is ONGOING with UNLIMITED sessions and is FREE of charge.....
Your attendance and full attention would be deeply appreciated 
|
| |
|
| Mar 20, 2006 @ 11:23 PM |
Guy/Girls waiting for her to orgasm
|
|
bryan2992
Posts: 688
|
simply put, if she hasnt had an orgasm then your not done, at least from where I lay, lick, ummm. I understand that if a woman isnt in the mood then she isnt going to have one. I have always had a very simple rule for what few women I have been with. IF your not in the mood, tell me, don't just have sex for my sake.
|
|
| |
|
|
|
page:
<<
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
>>
of 1 pages
|
< previous page | next page >
|