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Mar 23, 2006 @ 10:55 PM If he/she is married.....    
richmondcowgirl83


Posts: 1,062
Ok since there are a lot of married people out here on the internet looking for something different, if you aren't looking for anything serious would you mind if the person was married. If all the 2 of you wanted was a good time but you knew they were married would that make a difference?
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Mar 23, 2006 @ 10:59 PM If he/she is married.....    
Spider374


Posts: 123
I think a lot of men...and women for that matter...would prefer someone married if all they wanted was a good time--it makes it less likely that the other person will get emotionally attached and there's also that taboo factor that adds to some people's excitement level.
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 1:00 AM If he/she is married.....    
painter007


Posts: 17,854
dont do married or seperated.Yhey need to take care of business. And married and fooling around...thats just not right. Period.
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 5:34 PM If he/she is married.....    
Jankia


Posts: 11,900
painter
In no way would I do to another man what was done to me,play with his wife.There will probaly be some guy on here that says-
"sure,you can say that now but if the right gal where to ask you for it,you would go."
Like I said,no way.I had a married woman who was quite hot ask me late one evening if I wanted to come over for breakfast.
I knew her husband,I said no.
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 5:48 PM If he/she is married.....    
griever


Posts: 18
No it wouldn't make a difference as long as the other person wanted to keep it low key only women no men
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 5:50 PM If he/she is married.....    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,955
Never with someone married.

I have seen what that behavior does to a marriage and a family. It's disgusting and it's selfish of the person who "wanted a good time".

OH well. You're married. Marriage is sacred. When you get married you agree to be with that person, and just that person. If you wanted something different or a good time, you shouldn't have gotten married.

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Mar 24, 2006 @ 5:59 PM If he/she is married.....    
luvshorses644


Posts: 1,571
MO....Absolutely no way .. married means you have a commitment to another human being who has feelings and is capable of being hurt. Just because one of the couple (marriage) wants to have a good time does not mean that they have a right to possibly hurt the other in the relationship.

I have witnessed first-hand what it feels like to be on the opposite end.. finding out and what it feels like.. similiar to open heart surgery without anesthesia.

So my answer would be no.. if you are married, why stray? If you don't want to be married anymore, then do something about it.. but do not cheat, and certainly not with me.
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 6:04 PM If he/she is married.....    
Loreli


Posts: 25,401
married means you have a commitment to another human being who has feelings and is capable of being hurt.




Awhile back I met a man I had been talking to every single day. His profile said he was divorced. I found out he hadn't even signed any papers yet. Just separated. buh-bye.
As said before, get your personal business in line-or keep it in your pants.
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 6:12 PM If he/she is married.....    
Say_Yes


Posts: 2,225
There are a lot of people that are in open relationships. If both parties in that relationship know what is going on, then I might be interested in something casual. I would want to verify with her hubby though that he was okay with the situation, prior to anything happening.

[Edited on 3/24/2006 6:20 PM]
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 6:18 PM If he/she is married.....    
AngelLight


Posts: 5,620
Married or separated, no way. Have no interest whatsoever.

I would not get involved in either of those scenarios....

I'm with Painter...take care of your business married and separated....take care of business
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 6:24 PM If he/she is married.....    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 11,116
I'm with Painter...

Oh???? I didn't even know you lived in the same state!

Imagine that - AngelLight and Painter together.....there'd be NO LIMIT to the number of single and eligible men you could meet!!!!!
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 6:37 PM If he/she is married.....    
sissycat411


Posts: 1,248
I only have to ask.......WHAT HAPPENED TO MORALS, HONESTY AND COMMITMENT????? And we wonder why...we cant find anyone to trust or respect anymore.. ...hummmmm..........

No way.......I've had it happen to me...more than I care to say on here.....and I can only speak from a woman's point of view...but guys saying divorced....separated,.stating they are honest...and the truth is... they just don't have any morals or character......how can one respect or trust anyone who lies...whither to me or his wife....
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 6:44 PM If he/she is married.....    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 10,955
A guy on here, no names mentioned of course, sent me the same message twice asking if i'd like to "talk" with him. he openly stated that he was married. i emailed him back and said, this is not something i can be involved in...i saw what this kind of behaviour did to my mother and while i'm sure your situation is nothing like my father's, i cannot be part of anything like this. he replied and lambasted me, telling me i will never find an honest man because i am only interested in men who bulls*** me, at least he has the decency to be honest, i'm ignorant, i have the right to be doing this because my wife did the same to me, if i told you i was single you'd be talking to me (he was 45), blah blah blah.

It's sick.
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 7:13 PM If he/she is married.....    
JesterDrawers


Posts: 11,116
Sounds to me like the kind of guy to stay away from....
EVEN IF HE WAS SINGLE!!!!! IMHO
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 7:43 PM If he/she is married.....    
AngelLight


Posts: 5,620
I just received an e-mail from a married guy minutes ago

Told him "If you read my profile I dont think you read it too closely or comprehended it......there is nothing in my profile that would in any way shape or form indicate to you, or any other man, that I would even be remotely interested in a married man.

Deal with your business bro....Love your wife....If that doesn't work, love your wife....If that still doesn't work for you, have the b@lls to be honest and leave her.

You're blocked. Don't even think about writing again."

He signed off immediately after reading my message
Think he wondered if his wife was looking over his shoulder from some remote camera or something?

Mercy me
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 7:48 PM If he/she is married.....    
sissycat411


Posts: 1,248
Lip....I was talking to a guy some weeks back..who said divorced on his profile and we even talked about him being divorced ....we also phone chatted....something just didnt feel right...so I kinda pulled away....distance was a major thing also....anyway he cancelled his profile......then last week I got another email from him and a call.....he had a new profile name...and I didnt really look at it as I felt I knew him......

long story short....I did look at his new profile and it said......SEPERATED....I questioned him about it in an email....he came back with a very condensending email...said I didnt know the circumstances....they had been seperated for 7 years......and I shouldnt say anything as I didnt know the circumstances.........

Well I knew all I needed to know.....He lied in the beginning....he was probably still lying.....as his work takes him away from home....two weeks working two weeks at home....so I guess....in some twisted way...he finds a way to justify his dishonesty.....and hell on his new profile....he said he was honest.....
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 7:58 PM If he/she is married.....    
mailorderannie


Posts: 6,021
Sissy...makes you wonder if he was adding up those 2 weeks he was gone to make up the 7 years!
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 8:54 PM If he/she is married.....    
Look4myprince


Posts: 8
Don't you wished you could contact these poor unsuspecting souls and fill them in on what their "better half" is doing???
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 9:02 PM If he/she is married.....    
bryan2992


Posts: 688
I'll admit when I was in my early 20's I had a two year fling with an older woman who was married. I didn't want a relationship then, she had no intention of leaving her husband. it was fun for a while.
Now I would never do it. While I don't regret what I did. I know that it was something I shouldnt have done and have no intention of doing again
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Mar 24, 2006 @ 9:16 PM If he/she is married.....    
court30


Posts: 31
i certainly would never do married!!!

did when i was a lot younger and more foolish and learnt a very hard lesson
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