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| Nov 13, 2005 @ 1:45 AM |
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minky
Posts: 261
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Most males in my own age range seem to have slowed down sexually,  and the ones who haven't are looking for younger women.  Aren't there any middle aged men with a sexual appetite  who want someone their own age?
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| Nov 13, 2005 @ 2:15 AM |
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Orphes1
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Honey, we don't "slow down", we are attracted to women by their appearance first. This means our ability to produce healthy offspring. It's built into our genes. Women's pleasant-ness comes in second, and their ability to keep a clean house and cook a good meal, last.
No, we aren't like women, we do not write that we want to find someone who can "make us laugh", "dance the night away", or "like our children and grandchildren". We want a young woman first priority. God made us this way, and that's why men had harems for so such a long time, and in some places some men still do.
Now, back to my point,and I hope this helps a bit. Put on another ten pounds and you will look more soft and hugg-able. Let your hair grow a bit (so that you appear younger) and don't smoke or drink (if you do). Tobaco AND booze really stinks on another person, I know, because I used to do both. I smelled like an ashtry for quite awhile.
I have been in places where there were men ages 25, 45 and 75, and when three women walked in, one in her 20's, one in her 40's, and one in her 60's, and ALL THREE of the men looked at the 20 yr old woman first, AND the most often, AND the longest. It goes without saying why, too. It's primal, a subconscious need to spread the gene pool, even at the age of 80.
Don't give up, if I had it my way, and you gained another 10-20 pounds, I'd consider myself "lucky" if you were mine. Guaranteed
Larry
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| Nov 13, 2005 @ 3:06 AM |
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minky
Posts: 261
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Larry,
Are you saying that the lack of desire I am recieving may be due to that fact that I am too skinny? Since when is 36,25,36
skinny?
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| Nov 13, 2005 @ 3:42 AM |
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chinabull2000
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lol don't worry Minky, you have a wonderful figure, noting to worry about there! 
And Larry, you really are a condescending twat and would be lucky if Minky was "yours" now, with or without another 20 pounds!
From my own perspective, adn I am perhaps a little bit younger than the age group you were aiming at, I know I have slowed down in many things, sex included, but only so far as I prefer to take my time these days because I know I can't keep on going all night every night! lol. Certainly my sex-drive hasn't diminished, and I am still attracted to older women far more than younger women... so all is not lost Minky, you'll come up trumps for sure!
Rich 
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| Nov 13, 2005 @ 3:44 AM |
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Talonz59
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ya know chinabull..I hate being beaten to the punch....but good on ya...
and don't forget to smile 
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| Nov 13, 2005 @ 3:54 AM |
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zestful
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I dont think any single middle aged men with a sexual appetite have any age barriers.I dont and I know of none that do.
Skinny?
What?
I dont think so......just my opinion
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| Nov 13, 2005 @ 2:55 PM |
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eyeneed
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I enjoy the company of a "smart" woman. one who is into being open and honest.
and being wild in bed helps also. but when your a 20 or 21 yr old woman, you have got to admit, that is very flattering.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 2:03 PM |
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carriageman
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minky ever think the lack of interest could be coming form you your body language your attiude or just that your beingtoo picky in who you want .. I don't know but generally if your available and are pleasant then you shouldn't be having problems with men and desire
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 2:16 PM |
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13lucky
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You need to change your living area....Come to Idaho...Florida is a retiree state :)
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 2:42 PM |
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MI_Hockey_Plyr
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Well, try out a 21 yr old. If you need a good doing, I'll do ya.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 3:02 PM |
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lj450
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I didnt know 50 was considered "middle aged".......I guess everyone plans on living to be 100.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 3:05 PM |
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relyt517
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I disagree about the loss of sexual appetite - I have the same labido now as I did in my 20's and 30's. Now that I', in my 40's I also find that sex with a woman in my age range means that we'll spend longer during foreplay - building up the sexual tension.
I prefer a long drawn out session of foreplay so that when it gets down and dirty - its as basic and instinctive as people can get
35,26,35 isn't skinny -
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 3:56 PM |
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evan52
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You look very good to me,and no I do not chase the young ones. A woman with a smile,pleasing personality and takes care of herself has more appeal.
Evan
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 5:50 PM |
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kattsmeow
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So, what do you consider "middle age"??? 
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 6:14 PM |
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POJR
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So ....what is considered middle aged???I'm 30 still get carded for cigs feel like i'm in my 40's.My dad is 57 and he still acts as young or younger than me.So is it more of a feeling or an age range?
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 6:17 PM |
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KnightInShiningArmor
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Part of the problem is image in this day an age. If you date someone your own age or older you kind of expect the sex to be "average" if thats once a week or once a month, hard to say. But on the other hand if you are dating someone 10 to 20 years younger than yourself your thought process, because of society, is to have as much sex as possible. At least that's my thought on the subject.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 8:36 PM |
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sunchaser59
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have been in places where there were men ages 25, 45 and 75, and when three women walked in, one in her 20's, one in her 40's, and one in her 60's, and ALL THREE of the men looked at the 20 yr old woman first, AND the most often, AND the longest. It goes without saying why, too. It's primal, a subconscious need to spread the gene pool, even at the age of 80.
Ahhh, finally, a reasonable explanation of why some of you act the way you act! lol
Don't give up, if I had it my way, and you gained another 10-20 pounds, I'd consider myself "lucky" if you were mine. Guaranteed
Geez, you have got to be kidding. You should be sooo lucky!
Pay nooo attention to his comments, minky. Wisdon doesn't always come with age, unfortunately.
Judy
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 10:14 PM |
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Pete73052
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I'm 53. What I once used to do all night - I can spend all night doing once.  I haven't experienced any appreciable loss of sex drive but I feel that with age came a lot more control and stamina. Regarding partners, however, for me to be interested in someone my own age is fairly rare. It's not that I don't find women my age attractive - but I find many women my age unattractive (to me). Women slow down too as they get older and sometimes that makes them seem less exciting to me than younger women. But I really like the thought of two old people with a strong sex drive. 
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 10:26 PM |
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DragonsDream
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Where the hell are all of these CAVEMEN and their neanderthal thinking coming from  ..what would you do next, club the 20 year old over the head...  .
WITH answers like this, that is EXACTLY why we women are finding younger men more attractive and mature...
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 10:27 PM |
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DragonsDream
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My post was in reference to Orphes 
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