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Nov 13, 2005 @ 2:52 PM do women    
eyeneed


Posts: 15

women talk about having to have feelings for a man before they have sex with him. I just do not believe this.

I have talked to women in a bar and they tell me they are there just to socialize. then after a few drinks, they are all over some guy.

why can't women just have sex without using drinking as an excuse? or be honest that they are on the prowl the same as a man.

when I see this in a woman, how can you respect them
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Nov 13, 2005 @ 3:16 PM do women    
Teddy_Bear050


Posts: 91
I don't want to speak for any woman, but I'll give my opinion if thats ok.

Women who go to bars and get hammered then start hitting on guys... not the woman you want to be with, trust me.

You're asking why more women don't just up and hump our legs in the same way that we would to them... well thats easy, they're not guys. You have to remember that guys are visually attracted, where as women (while visual is a key driving force) isn't as important as how a guy presents himself, talks, dances, dresses, etc... Most women go to try and find a good guy who they think is interesting. Guys (for the most part) go to try and find a woman who is most compatable for them to sleep with.

As for the respect issue, no, I can't respect a woman who goes to a bar and gets hammered. It's just unlady-like, annoying as hell, and just makes them look bad. It's a different story if it's a group of women, it's one of their birthdays, and they're out to have a good time. It's a complete other story when it's just one woman, who's probably dressed trashy to begin with, and she starts knocking back the jack&coke's while laughing her head off with whatever poor sap sits next to her.
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Nov 13, 2005 @ 3:34 PM do women    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
yeppers, they're the women I would never introduce to my daughter. Of course many women, as well as many men, are looking for sex without ties, but there are also many that want the complete package deal, and they're the ones I'm interested in.
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Nov 13, 2005 @ 3:39 PM do women    
Snappygoddess


Posts: 5,100
Speaking for myself... while I was still in the dating scope....
I needed to have at least some sort of connection and chemistry with a guy before having sex with him.
Never was a bar gal..you usually find what you don't want there..and I think much better sober.
Besides.. when I did get "laid" I wanted to be aware of my surroundings and remember what happened afterwards.
Drinking in the bars never appealed much to me.
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Nov 13, 2005 @ 4:01 PM do women    
horny_male


Posts: 2
the topic is interesting. I never to go bar for talking with women; however, i am wondering if the bar and night club are main different.
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Nov 13, 2005 @ 4:08 PM do women    
misty_waters71


Posts: 30
Former bar girl here....The toughest part about being a woman and walking in a bar alone too is that even if you don't drink like a floopin fish, and you are responsible in your actions and drinking people in my neck of the woods, the guys all think that you are advertising free meat when in fact all one is doing is just simply socializing.

And yes, I have made my share of being stupid too but when push comes to shove, nine times out of ten the dudes aren't worth your time even trying with because certain parts forget how to work on them when too much drinkage has been added to the picture.

Just food for thought. Glad I am not in that position anymore. It's all about choices.
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Dec 28, 2005 @ 1:53 PM do women    
richmondcowgirl83


Posts: 1,062
speaking for myself...... I am not the bar type. If I'm interested in you I will let you know. I don't come up with excuses. I don't need to be hammered to be ballsey. If your not intested I take my loss & go. I've been told I have the mind of a man.
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