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| Apr 1, 2006 @ 5:37 PM |
Taboo question of the month!!
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Mark7Seven
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It's pretty much a given that most folks can "get into" bi girls or lesbians. Is there ANYONE out there (man or woman) who feels the same way about bi men or gay guys?
We've met more than a few couples who privately admit that the male half will do bi stuff, but they don't want it made public. However they readily advertise that the female half is bi. What gives?
So, if you do find this activity OK (or even get turned on by it), say why you do...if you don't please explain why you feel that way as well.
Just wondering why the double standard continues out there.
Thanks all!!
M&R in Georgia
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| Apr 1, 2006 @ 6:14 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,408
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I don't have a double standard personally. I believe men should be with women, and women should be with men. That's my opinion, I find the other repulsive. Doesn't mean everyone does.
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| Apr 1, 2006 @ 6:16 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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I dont have a dbl standard either I just feel it is less prevalent out there.
I have seen and done quite alot when it comes to sex and such although gay or bi I have not..yet I wouldnt think less of someone who did..
Make sense?
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| Apr 1, 2006 @ 6:18 PM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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No double standards here either! I fancy woman and I don't fancy men. And because I fancy women, then I can, and occasionally do, fantasize about two women together, but not two men.
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| Apr 1, 2006 @ 6:23 PM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,408
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I am not generalizing all men here-but almost all men I have known also have liked the idea of two women together. I just know where I like to put MY hands, tongue, mouth and other body parts.
And, it isn't on a woman!
And the thought of two men.....BIG SHUDDER
to each their own
I have been casual friends with gays and lesbians, but that's it.
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| Apr 1, 2006 @ 6:44 PM |
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suzieq0808
Posts: 1,080
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So, if you do find this activity OK (or even get turned on by it), say why you do...if you don't please explain why you feel that way as well.
I don't get turned on by it but I'm token straight chick in a queer arts collective and those guys and girls are some of my best friends. Could be why I'm still single -- I'm swimming in the wrong pool for finding a date. Need to find us a token straight dude, I suppose, for ME. 
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| Apr 1, 2006 @ 7:00 PM |
Taboo question of the month!!
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Mark7Seven
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You (and others) would be SOOOooooo surprised by the number of "straight, married" guys out there that literally beg us to let them do a three way with us. I was even astounded!!
Usually the reason is they could never do that with their wife and want a woman there to validate the activity for them. I guess them just enjoying it isn't validation enough.
Our advice is to them is to either clue in your wife about your true feelings (she IS your life partner and the one you love and trust above all others, right?) or work to try and put these desires out of their mind.
Mostly I think they just think to themselves what a jerk I am and move on in search of some other couple who will let him cheat on his wife doing things he'd never share with her.
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| Apr 1, 2006 @ 7:06 PM |
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fineartist
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As an admirer and student of the human form, I appreciate the physical aspects of both males and females. I'm not attracted to males but I'm not repulsed by them.
I've spent countless hours observing men and women in their natural form(nude) in my studies. The first thought some people have is that I've become desensitized but truth is quite the opposite. I've come to appreciate the physical features of both men and women. The human body is a fascinating example of the combination of elegance and pragmatism of organic design.
I have no objections to the activity of bi-sexual men or homosexual men. What other people do is of no concern to me. To participate in sexual activity with one other woman and man(bi-sexual) is something I choose not to do. Not because I am disturbed by such a scenario. Rather it is because I would not be able to fully participate in that I would not reciprocate the actions of the other man. This really isn't fair because all parties in such an activity should fully participate with the other participants.
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| Apr 1, 2006 @ 8:09 PM |
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torees121
Posts: 739
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I do not have a problem with either men or women. I think all people are sexually attractive in their own way. If two men want to be together then who am I to say it is wrong. The only reason I would not date a bi-sexual male is because the spread of STD's are higher in this population.
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| Apr 2, 2006 @ 12:45 AM |
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imotherearth
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i think the double standard is pushed by the males. males things other males will make fun of them (and they will.. ), as a female i wouldnt mind telling my friends my boyfriend is bi, but i wouldnt tell people if he told me not to (which he would, and i bet in this case is whats happening.) two females is always sexier than two males, its because media has sold everything with female sexuality
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 4:14 AM |
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Firefaerie
Posts: 233
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Dbl standards ...... are for wimps....
If somebody has to tell you how to live your life esp. in the BEDROOM then you have no life.
Funny thing about the - Media -
They tell you ... good is good , bad is bad -- but remember THEY are also people too with the same feelings and emotions about things as well.
That means that THEY will do freaky stuff too, just to find out more about themselves.
Dbl standards .... are for wimps ....
I personally took my ' closet space ' Destroyed it - Burned the clothes - Ripped the metal poles down - Chopped the wood and used it in my fireplace < But > if the world doesnt accept me for that < eh? > Well, I just might re-build it and I will take so many people with me.
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 9:28 AM |
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badgemann06
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Well there is a reason for why people feel the way they do about a F/F or M/M. It has everything to do with the way the world is and the roles each person plays. In almost all of nature the male figure is the leader, not so much the dominate, but at least the leader. The male figure is seen as rouch, tough, strong, dominating, macho (for a lack of a better word). The female is seen as more suppel, caring, nuturing, soft. Therefore to have two females together, it's just double the beauty of the female gender. Two men together goes against the Male personification. That's my 2 cents worth.
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| Jul 2, 2006 @ 4:11 PM |
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Always_Striving
Posts: 8,794
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Can you imagine that person's little black book list? Since they will do anybody, they don't carry a black book....... they carry the telephone companies white pages directory.
One guy with one girl at a time is my philosophy.
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