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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 2:13 AM |
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xelaneimad
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Lets see how do i put this with out feeling like an ass. I grew up going to a a male boarding school and now that im in college I just have no game what so ever. I dont no how to approach a women or how to know there intrested. I know im no stud but damn you should see some of these other guys that around here. I know you ladies have to have a tip or two for me........
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 2:25 AM |
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Teddy_Bear050
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Bro, it's college. Get yourself hooked up with some people that know where the parties are at. Then head on in to one, remember, the goal isn't to just get laid. If you don't have any game, you wanna work on talking to women. Honestly just try and make friends first and foremost. After all, no one knows women better than a woman. So get yourself some lady friends. Don't let em know how desperate you are, but mention to them that you're new to the area, new to the college, etc...
One things for sure, don't be afraid of rejection. If you are, then that's litearlly 50% of the battle. You have to have confidence, or at least present yourself like you do. Women like a man who isn't afraid to walk across the room and talk to them, they want you to, it's just a matter of you having the balls to do it.
BE HONEST! For god's sake, theres no reason to lie to a woman, unless you have some kind of uncontrollable flatulant problem. Then you can make something up, and blame it on the guy behind you.
So, get some lady friends, and I do mean friends. Women can tell if you're just trying to be their friend to get into their pants, so be honest. Oh, and don't ask them to hook you up with every hot peice of ass that walks past you. Just listen to what they have to say, maybe even have them suggest a girl that you could talk to and go out with. Yeah the eventual goal is for you to be a lady killer, but you gotta start off slow. I hate to equate it to this, but it's like working out, you're not gonna get super buff overnight. It takes practice and patience.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 7:23 AM |
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soulless_spirit
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teddy Bear ... i could not have said it better ... great job in that advise 
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 7:33 AM |
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AladinSane297
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damn Teddy Bear....  ... wish I'd had you around a few years ago
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 5:47 PM |
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Teddy_Bear050
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Thanks guys.
It's just that we've all been there. Either a girl who was too shy to talk to guys, or a guy too shy to talk to gals, so I feel kinda resposible to help em out in any way I can. Heh, I know I look forward to teaching my son about all this when he grows up.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 5:51 PM |
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kattsmeow
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Teddy Bear! You are so right. I know, I have 2 sons that their best friends have been girls.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 6:07 PM |
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POJR
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Yea teddy, its true, majority of hookups are always through lady friends.Plus girls usually feel more comfotable being introduced by other girls.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 6:11 PM |
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KnightInShiningArmor
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Funny Teddybear,
My son is 17 and just slays the girls at his high school. Why? Because he becomes friends with them and doesn't doesn't push them for sex. Just listen to what the women are saying to you. First thing to do is say - "hi". Then ask them what they are studying, see if you have anything in common. You'll be able to tell within five minutes if they are interested in carrying on a conversation or not. If they are keep it up, tell them you enjoyed their conversation and would like to talk to them again, maybe over coffee or beer.
If they aren't interested then move on. Treat your time and emotions like an investment, same that you would do with your money. Its much easier to make a bad investment then a good one, but the good ones payoff in the long run.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 7:05 PM |
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Teddy_Bear050
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See, thats the wrong way to go Knight, only because he's trying to learn how to talk to women. You say your son doesn't have a problem, well thats cause he has confidence and isn't dealing with that as a crutch. We're talking about a guy who doesn't talk to girls, and is having issues just saying hello. Now, once he gets passed that, sure, then you want to try and read into woman as much as you can in the first 5-10 minutes that you talk with them. But you gotta talk to them first, thats why I say it's best to have a friend who's a girl who can help you talk to other women. Then once you've got it down, you're good to go.
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| Nov 14, 2005 @ 10:49 PM |
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DragonsDream
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Best advise I have seen given in the forums yet TEDDY..
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| Nov 20, 2005 @ 8:13 PM |
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AngelLight
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Go Teddy go!
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| Nov 20, 2005 @ 8:22 PM |
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chinabull2000
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My suggestion is just to talk to them as if they are guys, to just forget that they're women, and you'll soon feel more at ease and don't worry about knowing whether or not they're interested, the signals will be obvious. Just don't think about it, let it happen naturally.
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| Nov 20, 2005 @ 8:33 PM |
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NJSteve176
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Master the art of drinking and learn to dance.
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