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| Apr 13, 2006 @ 11:55 AM |
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kinglouis2005
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I guess I am asking the opinion of most people out on this iste, which BTW I think gives a fair reflection of the general population.
honestly regardless of the outcome I am unlikely to change my opinion or views but I was interested to see what people thought.
I have recently met a young lady who is/was a swinger. We have been "hanging" out together since just before the new year.
We actually have "partied" together twice and to be quite honest, I really enjoy it!
1st what do you think of the "swinging" lifestyle and 2nd what are your limits?
WOULD YOU:
Watch others?
Allow your self to be watched by others?
Watch your partner?
allow your partner to watch you with another?
Soft swap (oral by another couple)?
Full swap?
ok fire away!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Apr 13, 2006 @ 12:04 PM |
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painter007
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I will only be with one at a time and never be watched or watched. I just dont like to share..and when Im with a man...he doesnt want to share me either. And the only watching is done is our own watching of each other. I am not shy at all with my sweetie and pretty much anything goes.....but thats where it stays, no audience and no others involved...its just too intimate and sacred
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| Apr 13, 2006 @ 12:23 PM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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There are some things I don't ever share, nor ever will. However, each to his or her own, and if swingers are happy in their lifestyle choice, then good luck to them.
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| Apr 13, 2006 @ 9:16 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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ok u prudes..LOL.. 
So no one here has done or een considered a 3 some for example?
Cmon..someone is fibbing!!!!!!!1
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| Apr 13, 2006 @ 9:20 PM |
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JesterDrawers
Posts: 11,116
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Nope! Nobody's fibbing. I KNOW these two, and their word is as good as gold. If they tell you something - believe it 110%!!!!!!
Personally, I'm not into "recreational sex", and if I love someone, there is NO WAY I'm ever going to share!!!!!
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| Apr 13, 2006 @ 10:51 PM |
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Loreli
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Add me to the "fibbers" list.
To me, sex is something to be shared by two people. Never a threesome, never will be.
Whatever anybody else (except my partner) does is their own business.
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| Apr 13, 2006 @ 10:53 PM |
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spongebob777
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No.
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| Apr 14, 2006 @ 2:28 AM |
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painter007
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Nope! Nobody's fibbing. I KNOW these two, and their word is as good as gold. If they tell you something - believe it 110%!!!!!!
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| Apr 14, 2006 @ 2:40 AM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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Thankyou Jester!
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| Apr 14, 2006 @ 2:59 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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| Apr 14, 2006 @ 9:59 AM |
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garymiko
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I'm not good at multi tasking....... but one on one I like to think I do just fine.
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| Apr 14, 2006 @ 10:08 AM |
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HarleysB_WV
Posts: 860
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Well, I can't say that the thought has never crossed my mind. However, I'm just too greedy to share my man with anyone. I'm selfish. I like one on one and all spectators will be shot on sight!!! 
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| Apr 14, 2006 @ 10:44 AM |
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RachelVaz
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It's funny - I was with someone who wanted a "threesome" & I was all about the idea. And, I even experiemented because I knew he'd love that.... but,,, then, when talking to someone who became close to my heart, I could see how precious and intimate a sexual relationship is... Does this make me a prude?
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| Apr 14, 2006 @ 6:42 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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Rachel naw that does not make you a prude..I was kidding..
And I am sure you all werent fibbing, I meant fibbing by the lack of replies at all.
With SO many ppl on this site I feel as if there are ppl out there simply hiding behind silence.
Heh...
Everyone has their own beliefs and really i respect that 100%. Its pretty cool to see how people feel about certain issues and how different cultures interpret different things.
Ok so far no one looking at this has done a 3 way or any other "freaky" activity including being watched or watching..
*sigh*
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| Apr 15, 2006 @ 11:13 AM |
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waterfire
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Hmmm, I admit I have had thoughts of a threesome but I know I would never follow through with it, hell I had a chance once and turned it down, well the women were kind of scary. But on reflection I know there would be no way I would have even if I were attracted them. SO no I would not be into sharing, In this stage of my life I want sex to be with someone I care about and can have fun with.
I think people are looking for something when they experiment and cross thresholds in their search. Once crossed they will continue until one day you are swinging on a trapeze with feathers stuck up their @ss blind folded yelling MARCO while their partner is tied up below with nipple clamps and such screaming POLO... wow…where did that come from..
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| Apr 15, 2006 @ 12:54 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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Ok So no one has "watched" or been watched yet if I could dig up old threads on porn I bet I will find at least one or 2 of ya that admit to viewing that.
Tell me, besides the tv screen what exactly is differnt between watching a live couple and/or watchng porn on your tv or computer.
Essentially you are getting off watching 2 ppl you DONT care about having sex .
Just an observation.
BTW I could subsititue "DINNER" for the word SEX in most of these replies and also come up with feasible and believable sentances...
To me, sex is something to be shared by two people. Never a threesome, never will be.
Whatever anybody else (except my partner) does is their own business.
To me, DINNER is something to be shared by two people. Never a threesome, never will be.
Whatever anybody else (except my partner) does is their own business.
I will only be with one at a time and never be watched or watched. I just dont like to share..and when Im with a man...he doesnt want to share me either. And the only watching is done is our own watching of each other. I am not shy at all with my sweetie and pretty much anything goes.....but thats where it stays, no audience and no others involved...its just too intimate and sacred
I will only HAVE DINNER one at a time and never be watched or watched. I just dont like to share..and when Im with a man...he doesnt want to share me either. And the only watching is done is our own watching of each other. I am not shy at all with my sweetie and pretty much anything goes.....but thats where it stays, no audience and no others involved...DINNER its just too intimate and sacred
Personally, I'm not into "recreational sex", and if I love someone, there is NO WAY I'm ever going to share!!!!!
Personally, I'm not into "recreational DINNER", and if I love someone, there is NO WAY I'm ever going to share!!!!!
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Heh what I am getting at is basically sex is just an act. My dog can do it. LOL...a pig can do it etc.. but as people in THIS culture we are "taught" certain things on how it "should" be..(yep should in quotes)..
I KNOW I am not the only one who can and HAS seperated Love and Sex. or am I wrong here?
[Edited on 4/15/2006 1:45 PM]
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| Apr 15, 2006 @ 1:01 PM |
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willsmalto
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I KNOW I am not the only one who can and HAS seperated Love and Sex
i used to think that same way but i don't anymore cos am taking my sex life to the next level.......know what i mean?
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| Apr 15, 2006 @ 1:29 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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i used to think that same way but i don't anymore cos am taking my sex life to the next level.......know what i mean?
Ummmmmmmmmm ..
NO!
Let me tell ya a lil about myself.
I am single again after 10 years of marriage and prior to marrying her I was with her 3 years.. So here I am 35 and 13 of my best (younger years) were with the same woman.
To say I did not Love her is false.
Was the sex great Heck yes.
The 1st 6 months or so after we split I had a hard time getting erect for ANY woman.
But here recently (I know you read my posts in the CUM thread) I am having some of the best sex I have ever had in my life with a person I am NOT in love with.
I think the whole love/sex thing IS way overdone..
We ARE TAUGHT to feel this way. I would venture to say that if we were turned loose in the wild with lil to no formal learning we would not really feel this way.
What I am saying is it si perfectly NATURAL to enjoy having sex with people that you do not love.
Now we have been taught that it is BEST to love the ppl you have sex with.
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| Apr 15, 2006 @ 1:43 PM |
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painter007
Posts: 17,854
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King just wait till you get in your 40s Your just getting warmed up in your sex life. The best years are still to come Trust me baby!
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| Apr 15, 2006 @ 1:46 PM |
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kinglouis2005
Posts: 856
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I can only hope that is true Painter..I turn 36 September so I will then officially mid LATE 30's ..I am hanging on to MID 30's for a few more months!!!!!!!
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