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Nov 15, 2005 @ 7:20 AM No sex Sleep over    
Newdirection


Posts: 13
it has happened a few times. I met a gal and end up at her place or mine. There a mutual attraction, but sharing sex would not be right. We sleep together (sometimes nude, sometines clothed) but don't have sex. Is it a turnon for a woman, or is that too weird or unbelievable?
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Nov 15, 2005 @ 8:02 AM No sex Sleep over    
corvette_racing


Posts: 323
I don't see how sex wouldn't be right if there's mutual attraction????

So far, everytime I ended up at a girls place or she ended up at mine.....we ended up in bed and not just to sleep
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Nov 15, 2005 @ 9:09 AM No sex Sleep over    
lj450


Posts: 9,550
Ive done that before, but it was never by design.....it was to show her that I could do it........didnt like it......didnt want it to be that way......but I can, if I HAVE TO.......take no for an answer. Cant guarantee I would jump at the next chance to "snuggle sleep", cuz to me its way more frustrating than pleasurable.
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Nov 15, 2005 @ 3:51 PM No sex Sleep over    
lizardking69


Posts: 9
Yeah, the no sex sleepover is frustrating, especially if there is making out and snuggling involved. If either person knows that no sex will be going on they should let the other person know with a good night kiss at the door. If I am invited in I just expect she wants sex. Especially the whole sleeping nude and no sex thing, thats just weird.
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Nov 15, 2005 @ 3:52 PM No sex Sleep over    
swingpup


Posts: 4,105
After a long session of play at best it's cuddling maybe fall asleep for 20 minutes then I send her out my door or I'm out hers. I never sleep well in another bed even when I'm traveling per business. To wake up to some in the morning would be way to much information.
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Nov 15, 2005 @ 9:03 PM No sex Sleep over    
Teddy_Bear050


Posts: 91
This sorta thing happened to me once. Was at a party with a neighbor g/f of mine, and she ended up getting really drunk, so I drove her home. No one was at her place so I carried her upstairs to her bed. She realized she was home and started undressing. Now... I REALLY wanted to sleep with this woman, but the thing was that I didn't want to do it like an asshole. In otherwords, I didn't want to have sex with her and have her think I was taking advantage of her. So she turned around, noticed me, and said, "You can sleep over if you want, it's cool." So I started to head out of her room and she stopped me saying, "No no, I meant you can sleep in my bed, I'm kinda lonely anyhow." So... I unzipped my pants, took off my shirt and got under the covers. We were laying there for some time, and all of a sudden I could hear her silently snoring. At that point I knew she didn't want to do anything, but just as a test a grazed my hand across her face. She woke up with, "Awwww..." and took my hand kissed it, and layed it next to her.

rofl

So I just waited another 20min, she fell asleep, I got up, put my clothes on, and got the hell outta there. Sorry, but waking up next to a woman I haven't slept with... just f'n weird...
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Nov 15, 2005 @ 9:54 PM No sex Sleep over    
lilcutie455


Posts: 5
why would it be weird?Well maybe if you jsut met that person but if youve known them for awhile i think thats perfectly fine and you can always tell how much someone cares about u if they let you sleep with them without sleeping with them.
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Nov 15, 2005 @ 9:57 PM No sex Sleep over    
RAKS37


Posts: 617
dang teddy bear

You blew the g'mornin sunshine booty



you've shaken my faith in you
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Nov 15, 2005 @ 9:58 PM No sex Sleep over    
Teddy_Bear050


Posts: 91
Well we'd been friends since highschool, and I was near my last year of college at this point. It was just odd to me beacuse... I dunno, I knew her so well that without a relationship it felt like sleeping next to my sister. I know that sounds odd, but it's seriously what I was feeling at the time.
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Nov 16, 2005 @ 12:04 AM No sex Sleep over    
Newdirection


Posts: 13
dang teddy, I am gonna take your 'how to treat a woman' 101 class. You are smooth..

One expample I had was a lady passed out from drinking too much, so I put her to bed and slept next to her. Waking up the next morning she was very grateful and we have had a long lasting friendship afterwards (still haven't had sex with her).
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Nov 16, 2005 @ 12:44 AM No sex Sleep over    
Teddy_Bear050


Posts: 91
Nice man. I'm glad to see that every guy isn't quick to take advantage of women in a low situation.

Props to ya bra
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Nov 16, 2005 @ 12:52 AM No sex Sleep over    
southernangel32


Posts: 429
as a woman i have to agree with tedy bear. glad to see there are some decent men out there.
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Nov 16, 2005 @ 12:52 AM No sex Sleep over    
southernangel32


Posts: 429
oops, meant teddy bear but ya'll knew that.
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Nov 23, 2005 @ 2:41 AM No sex Sleep over    
ExacerbatedTaboo


Posts: 1,401
I'm sorry..I have to be me on this issue...If I'm sleeping naked with a woman then somethings gonna happen..That would be like the ultimate prick tease not to. I mean really. Can you imagine what kind of blue balls you would have? Ouch!! If she came over and just decided to crash or if I came over to her place and decided to crash then that's a different story but not when we're both lying naked in the bed together.
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Nov 23, 2005 @ 3:53 AM No sex Sleep over    
Kiss_me_Kiss


Posts: 15
If I would have a woman sleep over and we don't do anything....then just call me a f***ing p****!
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Nov 23, 2005 @ 4:22 AM No sex Sleep over    
ExacerbatedTaboo


Posts: 1,401
Well I can call you that Kiss me but I'm afraid it might start an argument so I won't....I will just call you keen fella.
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Nov 23, 2005 @ 8:05 PM No sex Sleep over    
britmadden


Posts: 80
i like to just feel a guy next to me, if there is gonna be no sex...we both know it. we both also have the chance to get up and leave. plus...maybe your just too drunk that night?? a little morning booty never hurt anything
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Nov 23, 2005 @ 8:12 PM No sex Sleep over    
Glock22shooter


Posts: 120
mmmmmmmm morning sex.
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Nov 23, 2005 @ 9:29 PM No sex Sleep over    
ExacerbatedTaboo


Posts: 1,401
Morning booty never has agreed with me for some reason...Not that it's bad or anything it's just that I can go and go and go and go and go and get nothing out of it except tired. She usually ends up drying out and it really takes a turn for the worst then.
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Nov 25, 2005 @ 7:00 PM No sex Sleep over    
tryitout2005


Posts: 73
I had a very good friend while stationed in Korea that I would SLEEP with. We had sex a couple of times, but for the most part, we just SLEPT together. It was comforting and nice to know he was there when I was lonely and vice versa.
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