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Is your sex life too vanilla?


Apr 26, 2006 @ 9:27 AM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
scarletsara


Posts: 239
Mine is, but I am a little afraid to transition form fantasy to reality.
Anyone sorry they fulfilled an X-rated dream ?
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Apr 26, 2006 @ 12:46 PM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
painter007


Posts: 17,853
all my lovins are xxx rated, my fantasies are my reality...and I dig every minute
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Apr 26, 2006 @ 11:38 PM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
WickedWench


Posts: 1,613
sex life?

What sex life?

Am I supposed to have a sex life and no one told me?
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Apr 27, 2006 @ 2:16 AM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
Well, I haven't got a sex-life at the moment, but when I have one, it is certainly not vanilla, and I'm not afraid to turn any of my fantasies into reality, given the opportunity..
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Apr 27, 2006 @ 10:13 AM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
definitelydi


Posts: 12,602
When I was married it was!
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Apr 27, 2006 @ 2:29 PM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
Lee_Danger


Posts: 4,517
Well, I haven't got a sex-life at the moment, but when I have one, it is certainly not vanilla, and I'm not afraid to turn any of my fantasies into reality, given the opportunity.~China


Ditto

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Apr 27, 2006 @ 3:08 PM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
badgemann06


Posts: 46
Vanilla?? hell my sex life melted and turned into mush...
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Apr 27, 2006 @ 9:51 PM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
kinglouis2005


Posts: 856
sometimes my sex life is straight out of a porno
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Apr 28, 2006 @ 1:57 AM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
Peachtree


Posts: 76
One thing I'm sorry for is I haven't done everything I wanted and could have... and there are things I want to do again but, being single, it's not easy to do them.

Scarlet, if you are scared to do what it is you have in mind, don't until you feel comfortable on all levels.

What is this fantasy... do I dare ask? Maybe some of us could help with our own experiances. It's usually a great thread when you get people talking about it
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Apr 28, 2006 @ 6:48 AM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
imotherearth


Posts: 75
being in a relationship is obviously more vanilla than random f***ing.. but i love it
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Apr 28, 2006 @ 1:38 PM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
babyfairy


Posts: 141
No regrets at all. Plain sex is boring sex when it's routine all the time.

Nothin' wrong with spicing it up, just so you don't get hurt... (umm...
unless that's what you're into I guess). Just cause you're in a steady
exclusive relationship doesn't mean the sex has to be "vanilla".

I'm not gettin' any right now, so fantasy's about all I got for the moment.
lol
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Apr 28, 2006 @ 8:10 PM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
painter007


Posts: 17,853
I'm not gettin' any right now, so fantasy's about all I got for the moment.
lol

at least we have fantasies......
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Apr 28, 2006 @ 8:44 PM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
HARDNTX


Posts: 125
I like fantasies...if you want I'll send you one I wrote...if your interested??
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Apr 28, 2006 @ 10:03 PM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
scarletsara


Posts: 239
Okay I am going to be brave and reveal an unfulfilled fantacy of mine. I have always wanted to be with two men at once. The idea of having two all to myself
seems so delicious. But the problem is, because of my strict upbringing, I am afraid guilty feelings would spoil my fun. How do I reprogram ?
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Apr 29, 2006 @ 9:09 AM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
badgemann06


Posts: 46
Well coming from a VERY strict family myself, I totally understand how you are feeling. There really isn't one "Best" way to move into this area, there are several you can choose from. One way is "Vocalize your fantasy" then more you talk about it with someone, masturbate with them over it, then you will come more accustom to the feelings when you are in the act, all be it fantasy. Another way is share your fantasy with your lover/bf/husband what ever the case, and let him know about your feelings. At the same time make the suggestion that it would have to be a IN THE HEAT of the moment kind of thing. E.G. You two are getting hot and heavey, and HE has someone join you. Now for all purposes, the person should be someone you know enough to trust, but not enough you see every day. Makes life easier. Well I hope that helps
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Apr 29, 2006 @ 11:27 AM Is your sex life too vanilla?    
greenizenora


Posts: 629
Vanilla?? hell my sex life melted and turned into mush

Badgemann. . .Way too funny!

sometimes my sex life is straight out of a porno

King. . .after reading lots of your posts, you should've left the word "sometimes" off!

Is your sex life too vanilla?

NOPE!! At least when I have one, that is.
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