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May 20, 2006 @ 1:45 PM Unexpected erections    
willsmalto


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virtually every man without an exception, I guess, has experienced spontaneous erections during puberty as a result of hormones surging and the body adjusting to new stimuli....very very normal.
ok I was out today on the first date with this hot chick( from Texas) I got acquainted with here in china. while having dinner, we talked , laughed and switched from one topic to another. At one point in the course of our discussion, we decided to talk a little bit about sexuality in general. A few minutes prior to her wanting to kiss me goodbye, I had an unexpected erection. I just couldn't tell it to go away, neither could I even stand up to kiss her back. I strongly believe she sensed or noticed the erection.

do I owe her an apology?

to the guys, has this ever occured to you at the most inappropriate times... like at work, at a dinner table, in public etc? How did you cope with it?

to the gals, have you ever experienced this from a man? what was your reaction?

if this had never happened to you, what would be your solution or reaction if you found yourself in a similar situation?

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May 20, 2006 @ 2:12 PM Unexpected erections    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,012
Yep, this happens to all of us, quite often actually!

However, you certainly don't owe her an apology, especially as you were at least being "tasteful" and trying to show a bit of humility by at least trying not to be too obvious, and I expect she felt rather flattered that she could illicit such a reaction from you without even trying!
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May 21, 2006 @ 10:00 AM Unexpected erections    
NatureGal745


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A classy lady would put you at ease. It's a perfectly natural reaction...and I for one would also be very flattered should you find yourself a lumberjack
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May 21, 2006 @ 5:12 PM Unexpected erections    
silencedangel


Posts: 60
Yeah, I've had that happen to me before.

Honestly, the girl should feel flattered. It basically means that you think of her in "that way" which tells her that you at least find her attractive. Im sure your 86 year old grandma wouldnt give you a massive erection.

Haha, with me, it was the first time I had ever been out with a guy (I've been sheltered) so I never really had any....experience....with "penis-surprises" and I think I embarrassed him when I laughed a little bit.

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May 21, 2006 @ 8:53 PM Unexpected erections    
kinglouis2005


Posts: 856
This weekend was erection city for me.
Everywhere I went, several times during the day. Just BOING there it was!

Bastard!

LOL

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May 22, 2006 @ 12:54 AM Unexpected erections    
willsmalto


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some girls don't like wearing underwear to class IF they are wearing skirts


I never noticed one of those back in school but if I did, I'd have to jump into the bush with her. what's she expect? just kidding folks lol


If you notice, that's why most guys sit in the back


I think most of the students who sit in the back benches are dummies, lol like me ( those always afraid to get called up to answer a question but I used to sit in the front benches), the very tall students, noise makers etc

Honestly, the girl should feel flattered. It basically means that you think of her in "that way" which tells her that you at least find her attractive


yeah but this might scare her off. she might think you're a pervert or something or worse still, she might have this thought that you see her as a "sex" material.

Im sure your 86 year old grandma wouldnt give you a massive erection.


This would never happen even she were in her 20s. she's my grandma for christ sakes!!! .....but hey, some grandmas are HOT though.


I get one when the wind blows ,,so at this point i guess you can't call them unexpected,,,,,,,,,,,,,Wills,,, you should have just informed her that you are a boy scout and the entire time you were at dinner you were practicing for your "tent erecting" badge and blew her a kiss





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May 26, 2006 @ 2:35 AM Unexpected erections    
newlife2006


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What's wrong with having an erection? It's perfectly healthy and natural reaction for any male who didn't outlive his sexual abilities yet. So, why would anyone feel like "apologizing"? What makes it funny is - when the person keeps talking with his blood "downstairs" and brain undersupplied and , therefore , temporarily, out of service. Now, that will draw everyone's attention ... Though, it's easy to avoid "talking funny" - unless it happens during inaugural speech or business presentation, he can always take a break for a couple of minutes and try to get some blood "upstairs" before he resumes talking.
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May 26, 2006 @ 8:48 AM Unexpected erections    
babyfairy


Posts: 141
No apology needed.... if she is offended instead of complimented by that, there's definitely something wrong with her. She should see it as a sneak preview of what's to "come"!! I've recently had two friends get hard when hugging goodbye after hanging out. It certainly didn't bother me at all and gave me some good material to think about later!!!!!!
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Jun 14, 2006 @ 11:39 AM Unexpected erections    
lj450


Posts: 9,662
Happens alot actually........but, like the ladies have said here, it is one of the most sincere forms of flattery you will ever see......cant fake that with nice words and a kind smile.
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Jun 14, 2006 @ 5:27 PM Unexpected erections    
weyout


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ait's acool place to hang ur hat
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Jun 15, 2006 @ 3:15 PM Unexpected erections    
observed50


Posts: 407
When I was younger, and teaching high school, it was a period during which I never even gave thought to wearing underwear...no way!!!! Not happening. I was very lean, no ounce of mean, and tall, and just never wanted to be confined...

But I was a teacher, and wearing dress slacks...and often in teaching, you go lonnnnnng periods of time without being able to use a restroom. So your bladder builds pressure...and builds...and builds....

And suddenly, you get a full-bladder erection. Now when you do that in the middle of the night...no big deal. Do it in a classroom, with dress slacks and no underwear...big deal!

Numerous times I would feel that blood flow start and just retreat behind the desk and do something exceedingly uncharacteristic for me as a teacher...sit down at a desk...and stay still in one spot. Place the book of notes strategically....

Never happened when teaching at the collegiate level, but you don't get trapped in a classroom at that level like you do at the public school, understaffed level.
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Jun 16, 2006 @ 6:47 AM Unexpected erections    
apmnally


Posts: 35
atleast you tried to conceal it i went on a date with a guy once and when we kissed goodbye he pruposely pushed it on my hip and asked if i wanted to go for a drive and you can bet we never went out again.
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Nov 15, 2006 @ 11:24 AM Unexpected erections    
countryboy69995


Posts: 653
yep it can be frustrating. I think that is why she doesn't understand why I keep a distance on that first date.
I do pretty good but if she even touches my arm or holds my hand that is when I end up in trouble down there. Extra sensitive? Don't know.
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Nov 15, 2006 @ 6:40 PM Unexpected erections    
SVT_MAN75


Posts: 33
Well, at least the opposite sex knows that your plumbing still works....

Better to be large and in charge than the "limp pimp"
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Nov 15, 2006 @ 11:16 PM Unexpected erections    
momma24


Posts: 411
Well, at least the opposite sex knows that your plumbing still works....

Better to be large and in charge than the "limp pimp"


Is experience talking here?? (sorry man, I just had to lol)




Ok, to be honest my reaction would depend on how the date went and how I felt about the guy. I mean, if we clicked and the conversation was good, I would be flattered. But if I got the impression...that he just wanted some booty...then well I'd never be seeing him again.
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Nov 16, 2006 @ 12:45 AM Unexpected erections    
ToucherinSparks


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Everyone gets them, the trick is to be sure they are pointing down. Little Willie popping his head up over the waistband of your pants can be pretty embarrassing.
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Nov 16, 2006 @ 12:46 AM Unexpected erections    
LipGlossQueen9


Posts: 11,178
It happened to my friend Chris once....I laughed at him. If it happened to some guy I didn't know I would be a bit freaked out but not say anything.
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Nov 16, 2006 @ 2:56 AM Unexpected erections    
countryboy69995


Posts: 653
Yep that does it. I'll just sit in the chair all night. She asks "don't you want to get up?" No darling I already am.
No out of respect I would not put a gal through something like that. Nope just setting here minding my own har( on oops business.
How ever there have been those times she would ask. Can I unzip that to releive the preshure..
Really tight pants don't work good in that situation. Oww.!
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