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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 10:17 AM |
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corvette_racing
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Who has done it?
I don't see anything wrong with that except if I'd be in another relationship...
My last ex-girlfriend will be in town for Thanksgiving and there might be a chance that I'll get some.. I'm still friends with her... We didn't break up due to cheating or any other major issues. It was just because we were just too different... Not planning on getting back together as a couple, but as long as I'm not seeing another girl, I don't see anything wrong with that... Well, she's also very hot!!
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 10:29 AM |
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single_stl_dad
Posts: 64
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Nope...... not worth the hassle bro.
If YOU sleep with your ex... it's because there's nothing like a little "deja-booty" from an ex... nothing more.
If SHE sleeps with YOU....... chances are, the hopes of re-kindling a relationship are quite possibly on her mind.
Dude... if she shows up with her new hot girlfriend, and wants a sloppy threesome in a dirty motel.... hey... go for it...... otherwise, I wouldn't pursue anything at all.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 10:45 AM |
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corvette_racing
Posts: 323
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I don't see where the hassle would be??
We always had great sex. She knows very well why I broke up with her (which had nothing to do with sex) and she knows that I wouldn't get back together with her as a couple unless we had the same goals in life and more similar interests. Attraction alone is good for sex but there needs to be more than that for me to want a relationship with her again... I spent 4.5 years with her and the differences in personalities got clearer and clearer during time..
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 11:52 AM |
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zulamaze
Posts: 1,266
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Probably about 50% people have gone back to the ex for one more time. I was married to mine for 11 yrs & yes -- I went back & had sex with him a few more times even though we knew it was over. He is remarried now & I am still on the loose. 
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 12:20 PM |
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hot_chick
Posts: 50
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is the best you can have.... is like falling in love again... 
specially with the risk of getting caught by ur current partner 
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 12:36 PM |
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corvette_racing
Posts: 323
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I wouldn't do it if I had another girlfriend...but don't think that there's anything wrong if we both are without s/o at the moment...
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 12:39 PM |
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Newdirection
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CR, I tend to agree with you, I see no problem in having sex with the ex as long as it does not conflict with any commitments you have with ohers. I have an ex-gf that calls me up almost weekly to come over and fix something in her house, and most the time ends up having sex. As long as there is a clear understanding that the sex does not equal romance (no matter how romantic it gets).
There are hassles with the sex with ex, so make sure that it is worth it. Couple of hassels that come to mind, there is a lack of motivation to find another date, and it is hard on both to end the ex-sex if/when you or her do find a specal person. There is also the possiblilty that you will be labeled by her friends as "he's just using you".
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 12:56 PM |
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corvette_racing
Posts: 323
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I'm not concerned about people labeling me anything.. I've never cared about what people think about me except those that I care about...
It's interesting that the guy often gets labeled even though sex is a mutual thing and IF it happens that I'll have sex with her, it goes 2 ways.. It takes 2 consenting peope to have sex unless one of them is a fu**ing rapist...
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 1:54 PM |
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medusa642
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There is no problem with it as long as the two of you are not involved with other people, and as long as you are clear about the status of your relationship, just make sure she is not seeing someone else.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 1:58 PM |
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Teddy_Bear050
Posts: 91
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I very recently had sex with the ex. Nothing wrong with it at all, and the both of us are content with keeping it strickly sexual. And I agree, as soon as one of us finds someone we're interested in, it's gonns stop, cause it just wouldn't be fair for the new relationship.
Now, if the new partner is also a strickly sexual partner, then that's just a win/win situation right thurr! 
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:54 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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Having sex with your ex is fine......if you need a crutch, or enjoy living in the past. Otherwise, you need to move on.....there is a reason that person is behind you now, and its usually best kept that way....Just say.....you ARE THE WEAKEST LINK.......GOODBYE!!!! (and mean it) People have a problem being true to themselves for some reason.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:56 PM |
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Teddy_Bear050
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Having sex with your ex is fine......if you need a crutch, or enjoy living in the past. Otherwise, you need to move on.....there is a reason that person is behind you now, and its usually best kept that way....Just say.....you ARE THE WEAKEST LINK.......GOODBYE!!!! (and mean it) People have a problem being true to themselves for some reason.
Naw man, I had sex with the ex cause she was AWSOME in bed. Of course we spent a lot of time together sexually so we know exactly what we like, but that aside, it's hard to top her. We broke up because she was very clingy at the time, and I was going to be moving away and she couldn't really deal with that, so we just decided it would be best to go our seperate ways.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 7:59 PM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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so we just decided it would be best to go our seperate ways
My point exactly.....If you know its best to move on.....MOVE THE F*** ON!!!! Too many people spin their wheels going nowhere because its easier or more comfortable. Not for me, when its over.......its overrrrrrrrrr......no maybe, no kinda, no....lets have sex and remember crap......OVERRRRRRRRR.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 8:08 PM |
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Teddy_Bear050
Posts: 91
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Lj, cool it bro, I didn't say I was gettin back together with her, it's just sex... good, hot, passionate sex.
If I was looking for a relationship, yeah obviously I'd move on cause I know that her and I aren't compatable.
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 8:08 PM |
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corvette_racing
Posts: 323
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Having sex with your ex is fine......if you need a crutch, or enjoy living in the past. Otherwise, you need to move on.....there is a reason that person is behind you now, and its usually best kept that way....Just say.....you ARE THE WEAKEST LINK.......GOODBYE!!!! (and mean it) People have a problem being true to themselves for some reason.
So, even if you wouldn't have found another woman, you'd turn down sex from an ex even if she is smoking hot?? BTW - my ex is a super hot Brazilian and the sex was always great with her... No way that I'd turn down some nookie if I'll be able to get some... The only reason to turn it down would be if I would've found another girlfriend..
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| Nov 17, 2005 @ 8:59 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Sex with the ex is a grudge F**k Been there and done that and don't care to comment on the number of times I backslid. That was all long ago. When its DONE, I mean its DONE and IM GONE!
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| Nov 18, 2005 @ 10:53 AM |
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lj450
Posts: 9,550
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Im just not fickle I guess. Some people just dont know what they really want or dont want......like to play the little break up game......have some drama, etc. Its just not for me, thats all. If me and my partner have big enough problems to call it quits, then we quit. Sure you can back up and go have meaningless sex with someone like an ex.......bout the same as you can with a hooker......perhaps that mutual lack of respect was what caused the demise in the first place. Dont get your panties in a wad teddy.....this is just my opinion, and Im sure its not the only one different from your own.
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| Nov 18, 2005 @ 11:17 AM |
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Sabrina806
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Amazing how many people cant live together but can happily go back and have sex with each other with no worries.
I did once or twice, in a park, and a touch up in the car; it does feel naughty, weird how things turn out.
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| Nov 18, 2005 @ 11:49 AM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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I've had sex with a couple of my exes, but NEVER my ex-wife!! hell, I can't even talk to her, let alone touch her! 
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| Nov 18, 2005 @ 2:05 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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CR....Sounds like a plan to me. Better then an orgy with Mother Thumb and her four daughters.
If you're a "free agent"....go for it. Eat Turkey then do her as dessert. Provide her total pleasure, she will stop back for more at a later date. One can never have to may "friends". 
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