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Nov 17, 2005 @ 6:42 PM FIND MYSELF    
highway44man


Posts: 10

I have written on here before aobut my partner having diabetes and high blood pressure. after a long series of tlaks, I have been given the ok to seek my occsional pleasure elsewhere.

but when I tell my true but sad story to women, no takers. if I were a woman in this same situaiton, I would not any problem whatsover.

why? All I want is an understandign woman who can help me out and have a nice friendship.

all I get it seems is alot of critical comments, but no real answers. and no, I will not pay for it.
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Nov 17, 2005 @ 6:52 PM FIND MYSELF    
Snappygoddess


Posts: 5,107
Let me get this straight... your wife has diabetes and high blood pressure, therefore you cannot have sex with her and seek pleasures elsewhere? UNBELIEVABLE!!

Lot of people have diabetes and high blood pressure and still have full ,normal sexual lives....its controlable with proper treatment!!!

Now if she were terminally ill, I could maybe, just maybe, understand your dilemma.. personally..I think the "fire" has died and you are seeking any excuse to have an affair.. but then.. that's just my opinion.. and you did post on here and ask for advice.

To each his/her own
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Nov 17, 2005 @ 8:20 PM FIND MYSELF    
chinabull2000


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but when I tell my true but sad story to women, no takers. if I were a woman in this same situaiton, I would not any problem whatsover.


True but sad story? The only person with a sad story to tell is your wife.
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Nov 17, 2005 @ 8:56 PM FIND MYSELF    
MischeviousAngel


Posts: 277
Did anyone "catch" that his wife says that it's ok for him to have extra-curricular sexual activity? It may not be your "thing" (or mine either) BUT that doesn't give any of us the right to say that something that he AND his wife agreed to is "wrong" OR to condemn him for asking an apparently serious question. That said...

highway... you are more likely to achieve the response that you are looking for on adult match doctor than you are regular match doctor.

Angel
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Nov 17, 2005 @ 9:32 PM FIND MYSELF    
ruready4me2luvu


Posts: 1,737
Did anyone "catch" that his wife says that it's ok for him to have extra-curricular sexual activity? It may not be your "thing" (or mine either) BUT that doesn't give any of us the right to say that something that he AND his wife agreed to is "wrong" OR to condemn him for asking an apparently serious question. That said...

highway... you are more likely to achieve the response that you are looking for on adult match doctor than you are regular match doctor.

Angel

I dont see anywhere on here where his wife said it was OK! All I see is where HE SAID SHE SAID I think he is using her ailments as a pi$$ poor excuse. My 21 yr old is a diabetic since age of 14 and lay dying in my arms but survived, and she has quite a normal life with her s/o.
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Nov 18, 2005 @ 12:22 AM FIND MYSELF    
DragonsDream


Posts: 220
I have written on here before aobut my partner having diabetes and high blood pressure. after a long series of tlaks, I have been given the ok to seek my occsional pleasure elsewhere.


First of all, I have had diabetties for 24 years now, so to tell me she cannot have sex due to this so called ailment is a crock...next time, I suggest you research your given falsities, before you make an even bigger a*& of yourself...You are a cheater plain and simple..

Lucky you are married to a wife who, you say, understands. Had you been my husband, I would have already shot you with a nose healthy dose of insulin with one of my syringes...people like you make me sick
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Nov 18, 2005 @ 12:45 AM FIND MYSELF    
ruready4me2luvu


Posts: 1,737
I'd shot him with something a whole lot bigger and stronger than the insulin syringe and God knows I've administered a thousand of those to my daughter. Think I'd aim at the gonads
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Nov 18, 2005 @ 1:10 AM FIND MYSELF    
ruready4me2luvu


Posts: 1,737

I have written on here before aobut my partner having diabetes and high blood pressure. after a long series of tlaks, I have been given the ok to seek my occsional pleasure elsewhere.

but when I tell my true but sad story to women, no takers. if I were a woman in this same situaiton, I would not any problem whatsover.

why? All I want is an understandign woman who can help me out and have a nice friendship.

all I get it seems is alot of critical comments, but no real answers. and no, I will not pay for it.


If I wanna FIND MYSELF I can just look in my shorts or my wonder bra
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Nov 18, 2005 @ 1:37 AM FIND MYSELF    
Talonz59


Posts: 157
Think I'd aim at the gonads


on behalf of all men reading that comment...let me cross my legs and cringe

ethics aside...highway44man, your profile says your attached and seeking a friendhsip/f*buddy, so...who are these women that aren't taking you up on your uhhhh offerings? Are you only writing to women whose picture appeals to you without actually respecting what their ad says they're seeking? Define your search criteria to "intimate activities" and nothing else....then READ the ads. If someone is attached and seeking something on the side or if they're single seeking no strings fun, then as long as you feel you meet the rest of THEIR criteria..go ahead and contact them. That way if you get no takers, you can only blame yourself and not someone else for NOT picking you. You have a wife and best friend while most of us are single and WISHING we could have that. Quit whining!!

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Nov 18, 2005 @ 2:22 AM FIND MYSELF    
ruready4me2luvu


Posts: 1,737
He's written to me a number of times
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Nov 18, 2005 @ 10:57 AM FIND MYSELF    
Sweet624


Posts: 44
How can I talk about a problem that I have?
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Nov 18, 2005 @ 11:01 AM FIND MYSELF    
DipityDoo


Posts: 377
I have written on here before aobut my partner having diabetes and high blood pressure. after a long series of tlaks, I have been given the ok to seek my occsional pleasure elsewhere.

but when I tell my true but sad story to women, no takers. if I were a woman in this same situaiton, I would not any problem whatsover.

why? All I want is an understandign woman who can help me out and have a nice friendship.

all I get it seems is alot of critical comments, but no real answers. and no, I will not pay for it.


You sound like a spoiled child. You perceive yourself as entitled to something and therefore think that it should automatically be provided to you. Sorry, hon, each of these women you've approached is under no obligation to feel a need to provide you with what you think you're entitled to. Their needs are most likely very different from yours and it's their job to make sure THEIR needs are met, not yours.

As for your sad story...it isn't so sad in my book.
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Nov 18, 2005 @ 12:26 PM FIND MYSELF    
Sweet624


Posts: 44
Is it normal to have submissive fantasies?
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Nov 18, 2005 @ 2:01 PM FIND MYSELF    
zulamaze


Posts: 1,266
I agree with Dragon --- Diabetes? What does that have to do with not having sex? High blood pressure? What does that have to do with not having sex? If she really did tell you that you could get it elsewhere --- I would be looking at what she is doing.
Chances are -- she is getting it elsewhere too. Who in the hell can go WITHOUT sex? noone I know!
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Nov 18, 2005 @ 4:36 PM FIND MYSELF    
ruready4me2luvu


Posts: 1,737
How can I talk about a problem that I have?

Well Sue on the show Sex Talk on the Oxygen channel takes call in's
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Jun 22, 2007 @ 9:52 AM FIND MYSELF    
tulip717


Posts: 1,665
There are alot of understanding women out ther OP
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